libran_girly
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My Aries bf...
Aw, Librans have the stangest luck in love. My libran roomate jut broke up with a Cancer in pretty much the same way.
Librans tend to form partnerships more strongly than the other signs do. That's why I tend to have a lot of libra friends - they are loyal and often wont stab you in the back. Really think about if you want to be with a guy who is this moody and jealous. It's really hard to do, since you've been planning on seeing this guy soon, but maybe you deserve more than being treated like this. Don't let a man get away with abusing you and pretending that nothing went on. If I were you I'd tear him a new one!
Librans tend to form partnerships more strongly than the other signs do. That's why I tend to have a lot of libra friends - they are loyal and often wont stab you in the back. Really think about if you want to be with a guy who is this moody and jealous. It's really hard to do, since you've been planning on seeing this guy soon, but maybe you deserve more than being treated like this. Don't let a man get away with abusing you and pretending that nothing went on. If I were you I'd tear him a new one!
"Don't let a man get away with abusing you and pretending that nothing went on. If I were you I'd tear him a new one!"
I agree w/ Apps, and unfortunately, what she said is what all Aries do. His msg to you was, believe it or not, his way of trying to break the ice w/out acknowledging what a jerk he was to you.
Aries men don't realize that they've hurt you until after the fact. Really. They will be mean, and then when they see that you're pissed, they will try to charm their way back to your heart (almost like a child, and my bf does it, as well...he's aries). It sounds like you guys have a pretty solid thing especially when distance is involved. If he tries to contact you again (which I'm sure he will and you should wait for HIM to contact YOU), talk to him. Tear him a new one, and let him know that he hurt you and should never disrespect you like that, again.
Aries need reassurance, as well. So tell him how you feel. That you are willing to put forth the extra effort and that he doesn't have to worry...and do so in a calm manner. That should work. Good Luck!
I agree w/ Apps, and unfortunately, what she said is what all Aries do. His msg to you was, believe it or not, his way of trying to break the ice w/out acknowledging what a jerk he was to you.
Aries men don't realize that they've hurt you until after the fact. Really. They will be mean, and then when they see that you're pissed, they will try to charm their way back to your heart (almost like a child, and my bf does it, as well...he's aries). It sounds like you guys have a pretty solid thing especially when distance is involved. If he tries to contact you again (which I'm sure he will and you should wait for HIM to contact YOU), talk to him. Tear him a new one, and let him know that he hurt you and should never disrespect you like that, again.
Aries need reassurance, as well. So tell him how you feel. That you are willing to put forth the extra effort and that he doesn't have to worry...and do so in a calm manner. That should work. Good Luck!
Aloha,
I am an aries male and I think that aries are not very good with long distance relationships. We are like a "baby", need constant care, love & reassurance. Not having their partner around, physically, to do that on a daily, weekly or monthly basis, is an uphill battle. The nature of the character of us aries, is what it is. A relationship is hard to begin with, a long distance relationship is harder for whatever sign or character you are. I feel for you and only can say that the closer you are to him the better. It's all on you, unfortunately. If you put the extra effort, then it will come back to you, tenfold in the future. There is the ideal and the real....this is the real.
If you want it, then go after it. All relationships worth saving take time, energy & effort. You just need to know where & how to make it work.
Hope it helps.
Aloha
I am an aries male and I think that aries are not very good with long distance relationships. We are like a "baby", need constant care, love & reassurance. Not having their partner around, physically, to do that on a daily, weekly or monthly basis, is an uphill battle. The nature of the character of us aries, is what it is. A relationship is hard to begin with, a long distance relationship is harder for whatever sign or character you are. I feel for you and only can say that the closer you are to him the better. It's all on you, unfortunately. If you put the extra effort, then it will come back to you, tenfold in the future. There is the ideal and the real....this is the real.
If you want it, then go after it. All relationships worth saving take time, energy & effort. You just need to know where & how to make it work.
Hope it helps.
Aloha
hey libran_girly
from my experience, aries men i've dealt with are VERY jealous- one in particular- he HATES that i have guy friends, has a very short temper and sometimes only can see things from HIS perspective-
i've noticed that because of his temper he tends to say things he doesn't really mean - he jus gets caught up in his anger - after he's cooled down he'll apologise -(he once told me dat when he's angry jus let him be) so i've learned not to push his buttons too much -see im honestly the kinda person that instigates and adds wood to the fire when ever there is an argument but lately i've been biting my tongue
i had to explain to him that some of my guy friends were like brothers to me and they look out for me -libran_girly, i don't think i shud have to leave my friends for anyone
i say avoid him for one day more, den either answer when he calls or call him up - when he asked how come u didn't call jus let him know u were mad at him but he needs to understand that some guys are jus your friends and nothing more (hopefully)
from my experience, aries men i've dealt with are VERY jealous- one in particular- he HATES that i have guy friends, has a very short temper and sometimes only can see things from HIS perspective-
i've noticed that because of his temper he tends to say things he doesn't really mean - he jus gets caught up in his anger - after he's cooled down he'll apologise -(he once told me dat when he's angry jus let him be) so i've learned not to push his buttons too much -see im honestly the kinda person that instigates and adds wood to the fire when ever there is an argument but lately i've been biting my tongue
i had to explain to him that some of my guy friends were like brothers to me and they look out for me -libran_girly, i don't think i shud have to leave my friends for anyone
i say avoid him for one day more, den either answer when he calls or call him up - when he asked how come u didn't call jus let him know u were mad at him but he needs to understand that some guys are jus your friends and nothing more (hopefully)
Everything becomes clear at some point in time. Now, I understand where the whole bitch was coming from last month.
A Leo woman, an Aries man - the man won't LET the woman have any male friends and so that means since Leo thinks they are in charge and has the right to set rules for the rest of the world . . . hahahahahaha . . it was bitterness because the Lioness doesn't have control over the Ram.
This is a hoot . . . makes sense now.
A Leo woman, an Aries man - the man won't LET the woman have any male friends and so that means since Leo thinks they are in charge and has the right to set rules for the rest of the world . . . hahahahahaha . . it was bitterness because the Lioness doesn't have control over the Ram.
This is a hoot . . . makes sense now.
hahahahha...wow, P! And to think I respected you as an old, married woman with wisdom and knowledge. Now, I totally get that you are an old, married woman who lacks both, and actually bases her analysis off of astrolgy instead of reality...pretty sad, P, pretty sad.
Now P...you should know that NO two people/relationships are alike. Just because cancer12 said what she said about her Aries doesn't mean that my Aries is the same. Now apologize to the class...ooops...I'm sorry, I forgot we're not in kindergarden.
I must admit, however, I'm both impressed and flattered by your response...impressed that you were able to wait almost a month so that you could have the last word w/ me, and flattered that you waited almost a month so that you could have the last word w/ ME!!! UH OH...there goes that leonian pride!
Ciao
Now P...you should know that NO two people/relationships are alike. Just because cancer12 said what she said about her Aries doesn't mean that my Aries is the same. Now apologize to the class...ooops...I'm sorry, I forgot we're not in kindergarden.
I must admit, however, I'm both impressed and flattered by your response...impressed that you were able to wait almost a month so that you could have the last word w/ me, and flattered that you waited almost a month so that you could have the last word w/ ME!!! UH OH...there goes that leonian pride!
Ciao
hey truthseeker, haha i like ur attitude!! 😄 - u're definitely right bout no 2 relationshps being the same tho - and u're soooooooo right - aries guys are like children almost - and they don't seem to see when they're hurting u or pissin u off but boy when u hurt dem or make dem mad they go nuts - man gimme some incite girl! cus u seem to kno how to deal wit dese men
Message posted by: cancer12 on 10/2/2006 10:57:00 AM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.116
hey libran_girly
from my experience, aries men i've dealt with are VERY jealous- one in particular- he HATES that i have guy friends, has a very short temper and sometimes only can see things from HIS perspective-
i've noticed that because of his temper he tends to say things he doesn't really mean - he jus gets caught up in his anger - after he's cooled down he'll apologise -(he once told me dat when he's angry jus let him be) so i've learned not to push his buttons too much -see im honestly the kinda person that instigates and adds wood to the fire when ever there is an argument but lately i've been biting my tongue
That sounds exactly like my bf! Altho he tries to claim himself that he is not jealous or insecure type... i've been biting my tongue too lately...
hey libran_girly
from my experience, aries men i've dealt with are VERY jealous- one in particular- he HATES that i have guy friends, has a very short temper and sometimes only can see things from HIS perspective-
i've noticed that because of his temper he tends to say things he doesn't really mean - he jus gets caught up in his anger - after he's cooled down he'll apologise -(he once told me dat when he's angry jus let him be) so i've learned not to push his buttons too much -see im honestly the kinda person that instigates and adds wood to the fire when ever there is an argument but lately i've been biting my tongue
That sounds exactly like my bf! Altho he tries to claim himself that he is not jealous or insecure type... i've been biting my tongue too lately...
Well, Thank you so much for all your kind inputs and supports here. I really appreciate it... 🙂 To update about my story is... that he came to me after we fought 2 days after... to apologise for his rudeness to me the other days (is that typical aries trait—) that he was stressed over his job and afraid of losing me during his tough training time. He asked me to understand his fiercely temper and to avoid it or walk away next time it will ever happen again...
We made up and I decided to move country to be with him next year after his training 🙂 (yeah... thats libra's effort in love 😛) So now we are happy again and things are going great and get better 🙂
And I've also learnt that... never ever mention about other guys or HE with my bf again... 😄
Anyway, i look at both of our charts and seems like we have many fire planets!!?? Are we compatible or gonna fight alot? Anyone?
Me:
Sun = Libra
Moon = Aries
Rising = Leo
Mar = Leo
Venus = Leo
Him:
Sun = Aries
Moon = Saggittarius
Rising = Leo
Mar = Leo
Venus = Gemini
We made up and I decided to move country to be with him next year after his training 🙂 (yeah... thats libra's effort in love 😛) So now we are happy again and things are going great and get better 🙂
And I've also learnt that... never ever mention about other guys or HE with my bf again... 😄
Anyway, i look at both of our charts and seems like we have many fire planets!!?? Are we compatible or gonna fight alot? Anyone?
Me:
Sun = Libra
Moon = Aries
Rising = Leo
Mar = Leo
Venus = Leo
Him:
Sun = Aries
Moon = Saggittarius
Rising = Leo
Mar = Leo
Venus = Gemini
Hey LG...glad to see you two are doing well. Yes, your charts show you are compatible, but also that the relationship can be volatile...soooo...you've got to find balance. It is true that Aries men are extremely jealous and fragile. But they will absolutely NEVER EVER admit that to you...they don't like feeling vulnerable. So they'll put on a huge front, if necessary. Mentioning it to them is something you don't want to do, as well. They will deny it...but just always keep it in the back of you mind, no matter how much BS they dish out!
Yes, Aries do apologize...especially after they realize what an ass they were to you. It takes them a while, because they are so quick to put their foot in their mouth that they have to try to remeber what the did/said to hurt you in the first place. My bf will apologize when he knows he's wrong or I'm upset. But b/4, he would never admit his faults and I would always have to explain to him why I felt how I felt b/4 he actually started to get it. That's the thing about 'em, you tell them what they did wrong (if they did something wrong) and they will correct it (as long as they care about you)...but it must work both ways! Aries will always surprise you!
Cancer12, I'm still learning how to deal w/ mine...it's always been a challenge (and I wouldn't want it any other way). I've learned a lot from him (including some of my own faults), so over all, it's been an amazing ride :-) My only word of advice is too NEVER put up w/ their crap (and that goes for any man, despite the sun sign). They want a girl who will play with them (in or out of the bedroom) and a girl who will cuss them out if they ever f-up! So just be you, strong in character, and you will have a partner for life.
Yes, Aries do apologize...especially after they realize what an ass they were to you. It takes them a while, because they are so quick to put their foot in their mouth that they have to try to remeber what the did/said to hurt you in the first place. My bf will apologize when he knows he's wrong or I'm upset. But b/4, he would never admit his faults and I would always have to explain to him why I felt how I felt b/4 he actually started to get it. That's the thing about 'em, you tell them what they did wrong (if they did something wrong) and they will correct it (as long as they care about you)...but it must work both ways! Aries will always surprise you!
Cancer12, I'm still learning how to deal w/ mine...it's always been a challenge (and I wouldn't want it any other way). I've learned a lot from him (including some of my own faults), so over all, it's been an amazing ride :-) My only word of advice is too NEVER put up w/ their crap (and that goes for any man, despite the sun sign). They want a girl who will play with them (in or out of the bedroom) and a girl who will cuss them out if they ever f-up! So just be you, strong in character, and you will have a partner for life.
thanx truthseeker, i definetely think they like strong characters, cus i do put him in his place! still it does get frustrating with him but i think in a weird way it keeps things interesting and it keeps me on my feet -lol
weird thing tho , my aries must be one of the odd ones cus from the beginning he told me was an extremely jealous guy and he said he was very sensitive (i thought it was funny that he'd actually admit this since most guys wud nver do that-haha)-i hope i can handle this one -lol
seriously tho -man it's such a bad idea to try n get thru to dem when they're mad - it makes no sense cus he jus says things to piss me off more - but yea mine is long distance too - and it's a new relationship so i hope we can do this - any advice on how u gyals handle the distance—??
weird thing tho , my aries must be one of the odd ones cus from the beginning he told me was an extremely jealous guy and he said he was very sensitive (i thought it was funny that he'd actually admit this since most guys wud nver do that-haha)-i hope i can handle this one -lol
seriously tho -man it's such a bad idea to try n get thru to dem when they're mad - it makes no sense cus he jus says things to piss me off more - but yea mine is long distance too - and it's a new relationship so i hope we can do this - any advice on how u gyals handle the distance—??
We are like a "baby", need constant care, love & reassurance. Not having their partner around, physically, to do that on a daily, weekly or monthly basis, is an uphill battle.
i testify that its true... aries men are BABIES... need loadz of attention, care, hugs 'n kisses....jeeeez very demanding...
i testify that its true... aries men are BABIES... need loadz of attention, care, hugs 'n kisses....jeeeez very demanding...
after he's cooled down he'll apologise -(he once told me dat when he's angry jus let him be) so i've learned not to push his buttons too much -
tht sounds more like me.. im more fiery at times than my aries.. maybe coz of my aires rising?? 😛😛.. but hes the one whose super patient....love that man...
tht sounds more like me.. im more fiery at times than my aries.. maybe coz of my aires rising?? 😛😛.. but hes the one whose super patient....love that man...
so his sun is aries and my moon is leo - how bout u guys and ur aries partner
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is how confident and/or carefree the aries i've met are!!! i admire how you dont worry over what others think of you and are not insecure about yourselves and i am drawn to the confident aries boys!
i was lucky enough to see 2 aries (boy and girl
i was lucky enough to see 2 aries (boy and girl
lol ok ok - here's the thing - are aries men in general very jealous?
my aries guy told me before he's an extremely jealous guy - here's the thing i have alot of guy friends - they are nothing more to me and sometimes i hang out wit dem.
my aries guy told me before he's an extremely jealous guy - here's the thing i have alot of guy friends - they are nothing more to me and sometimes i hang out wit dem.
jeeez whats up with u aries men... why are u guys sooo agressive?? soo pushy and bossy—??
this Aries guy that i was introduced to this Saturday is driving me crazy... sending me text messages every 10 minutes, has already called me
i read that all men tend to try and find women who have their mother's traits (they do this subconsciously of course)- but i heard that of all the signs it is the aries men that are mostly likely to be like this - is this true?
Aries men so damn cocky?? its so annoying..they think everything has to go their way especially when they want it..they have way too much energy and are too loud..theyre like wild animals...
-from a Leo
-from a Leo
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Thank you All
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Last Saturday, He happened to know that i got a msg from a guy friends inviting to a birthday party and he easily got pissed off after that (he is a very jealous guy) and led us to a big fight about the distance and trust issues which he came up with the conclusion for us to break up... I was really hurt and trying to ask him to give us one more chance as i was going to be there with him in 5 days but he insisted that we would rather be over and became very nasty and aggressive to me to end our relationship. I somehow still believe that this is not the real him who I always love, The guy who was totally sweet and thoughtful in many respects of life would do such a thing. I understand that the issue that got on his nerve at the moment about his new job in the new airline (he is a pilot) that he is going to be grounded for training for 6 months and thats gonna be tough for our relationship but im willing to wait as we plan to get engaged next year on September. I believe that he thinks its the best that we ended up before this training will take place and we both would be in more pain.... I think that was the actual reason for him to do this to me but i still dont understand why he has to end us up in a nasty way? I have never hurt him ever and our relationship was based on love and respect before.
Anyway, Today morning, I came online and saw him on MSN but i didnt start any conversation as i always did after we broke up then about 10 mins later, He sent me a msg on MSN asking if i cancel the ticket that i booked to see him yet. I didnt response to his msg. He then sent me another msg if im ignoring him? I still didnt response and he just said that he guess so and he is going to bed coz he is just back from flying to India and see ya. he sounded more calm and less aggressive than 2 days ago after we broke up that he was just being totally cold and distant to me. Im very confused now what he is trying to do? If he wants me back again or something? I would be happy to go back coz i really do love him but i dont want it to be too easy for him. Help me plz?😢