my aries broke up with me
This topic was created in the Aries forum by markes10 on Saturday, April 5, 2014 and has 15 replies.
Am a leo I completed with my aries gf 3 years and in the last months she but in her bbm status zodiac signs and I asked her this sign for whos and she told me my friend but I had a feeling that she is lying.any way our fights increased I am jealous and she started to do things that making me nervous a lot..the last thiNg she did she was saying a very nice words for her friend gf and I become jealous and I shouted to her then she broke up with me because I did that. After al of that I discover that the zodiac sign for her baby she was cheating on me and she is with her new bf and she was lying to me about a lot of things and she make her new bf to talk to me in her phone to tell me to go away from her ..and now after 3 weeks or more she is trying to call me to fix all of this she dont want us to hate each other and she dont want us to broke up on bad terms am wondering after u did all of that u just wake up and notice that we shouldn't do all of that my heart is bleeding from her.. her birthday was before 3 days and she send me msj telling me that she thought I will wish for her a happy birthday and she make sure now that I hate her ... actually now I even dont want to hear her voice she hurt me a lot .tell me what can I do now I want her to feel her mistake I want her to Feel guilty because she broke up with me and did all of this
If she hurt you and you don't want to deal with her any longer, let her know in your honest opinion how you feel about the situation or write everything on a letter, it's something you don't have to give to her. Holding on to a lot of things without creating an outlet to release, feelings alone will accumulate through time creating a burden in the heart.
What is it with fire signs that say this:
she hurt me a lot .tell me what can I do now I want her to feel her mistake I want her to Feel guilty because she broke up with me and did all of this
So the point of all this is that you want her to realise "her mistake" and come back begging forgiveness so you can gloat and not give her any? I've heard this from another Leo guy on here and a Sag all involved with Aries women.
What you need to understand with Aries women is that they might say sorry once (yours did already try to make amends with you, for no hard feelings) but this is about guys and their PRIDE and the fact that you feel the woman has made you look stupid. It's not even about getting back with her, it's about you wanting her to feel she's made "a mistake"
The thing all you fire signs need to get about us is that we are not gonna come back on our knees to you realising that in your opinion we have made a mistake - that just does not happen.
In your case she cheated and now has another bf. sorry about that. But there must have been a problem in the relationship for her to look elsewhere..
she hurt me a lot .tell me what can I do now I want her to feel her mistake I want her to Feel guilty because she broke up with me and did all of this
So the point of all this is that you want her to realise "her mistake" and come back begging forgiveness so you can gloat and not give her any? I've heard this from another Leo guy on here and a Sag all involved with Aries women.
What you need to understand with Aries women is that they might say sorry once (yours did already try to make amends with you, for no hard feelings) but this is about guys and their PRIDE and the fact that you feel the woman has made you look stupid. It's not even about getting back with her, it's about you wanting her to feel she's made "a mistake"
The thing all you fire signs need to get about us is that we are not gonna come back on our knees to you realising that in your opinion we have made a mistake - that just does not happen.
In your case she cheated and now has another bf. sorry about that. But there must have been a problem in the relationship for her to look elsewhere..
Also we tend to be straightforward and we usually apologise only once because it's is actually genuine. Why is one apology never enough for you guys? Why do you think you have to try and break us.. Smdh 
First of all dont compare my situation with any one cuz for every one there is different story ..
2. No matter what happened between me and her this is not an excuse for her to treat me bad .. and we were together for a long time how dare she is when she let her bf talk to me by her phone she was really 2 faced ..she was tslking to me in a very nice way she said what can I make for u to make u not upset from me and in the same day she let her bf to talk to me how come
2. No matter what happened between me and her this is not an excuse for her to treat me bad .. and we were together for a long time how dare she is when she let her bf talk to me by her phone she was really 2 faced ..she was tslking to me in a very nice way she said what can I make for u to make u not upset from me and in the same day she let her bf to talk to me how come
Look you are on here for advice n people are gonna give it based on their similar experiences of that behaviour otherwise why are you on here? The answers come from comparisons.
We don't know whether he took the phone off her to speak to u, or took your number, or she knew about it but yes I understand that would make you mad after being with the girl 3 years.
But like u said, it appears to you that she lied and cheated, and you mentioned in your op that she had tried to smooth things over with you after the guy spoke to you, not the same day..
I still maintain that there must have been something missing between u both for her to lie and cheat, even if you can't see that at the moment.
She is trying to keep things civil and only you can decide whether you can be just friends or if that is too painful for you at the moment, but I still maintain that you are not gonna get an Aries woman to "realise her mistake" and "feel guilty"
We don't know whether he took the phone off her to speak to u, or took your number, or she knew about it but yes I understand that would make you mad after being with the girl 3 years.
But like u said, it appears to you that she lied and cheated, and you mentioned in your op that she had tried to smooth things over with you after the guy spoke to you, not the same day..
I still maintain that there must have been something missing between u both for her to lie and cheat, even if you can't see that at the moment.
She is trying to keep things civil and only you can decide whether you can be just friends or if that is too painful for you at the moment, but I still maintain that you are not gonna get an Aries woman to "realise her mistake" and "feel guilty"
Hhhhh I loved ur reaction ='( she broke my heart I can't forget that day and I cant forgive her _?'?.
If she cheated on me without doing all of that it will be way btr but she did alot of bad things I just summarise her actions
If she cheated on me without doing all of that it will be way btr but she did alot of bad things I just summarise her actions
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Jealousy can be one of the strongest emotions a person experiences. It can motivate actions provoked by feelings of revenge or anger. Although possibly the strongest and most recognizable form of jealousy is found in romantic relationships. While it is difficult to pinpoint the exact cause of romantic jealousy, it can manifest itself in many ways and often causes problems in otherwise healthy relationships.
Often a jealous people may hold on to a relationship well after the end has been expressed by their partner; thus, when the partner finds a new relationship (particularly quickly), the jealous person thinks their partner has cheated.
What I am about to say is highly controversial and esoteric thought/theory: an intensely jealous person may bring cheating into fruition. Emotions contain psychic energy. Energy to see what is not seen; or, energy to create what does not exist.
Now, I say you are intensely jealous because of this statements:
"I asked her this sign for whos and she told me my friend but I had a feeling that she is lying..."
"...the last thiNg she did she was saying a very nice words for her friend gf and I become jealous and I shouted to her..." then she broke up with me...
She in fact broke up with you.
However, you should not do this to a man who you broke up with because he is intensely jealous: "and she make her new bf to talk to me in her phone to tell me to go away from her..." That was a very poor move on her part considering your jealousy. I think she knows this in hindsight and is regretting it with trying to make, this particular part, right.
This also tells me you had some difficulty letting go. All her attempts at trying to make "right" with you for putting her new boyfriend on the phone is only infuriating and feeding your jealousy. She needs to just stop. Often, you cannot reason with emotions... especially intense ones.
Often a jealous people may hold on to a relationship well after the end has been expressed by their partner; thus, when the partner finds a new relationship (particularly quickly), the jealous person thinks their partner has cheated.
What I am about to say is highly controversial and esoteric thought/theory: an intensely jealous person may bring cheating into fruition. Emotions contain psychic energy. Energy to see what is not seen; or, energy to create what does not exist.
Now, I say you are intensely jealous because of this statements:
"I asked her this sign for whos and she told me my friend but I had a feeling that she is lying..."
"...the last thiNg she did she was saying a very nice words for her friend gf and I become jealous and I shouted to her..." then she broke up with me...
She in fact broke up with you.
However, you should not do this to a man who you broke up with because he is intensely jealous: "and she make her new bf to talk to me in her phone to tell me to go away from her..." That was a very poor move on her part considering your jealousy. I think she knows this in hindsight and is regretting it with trying to make, this particular part, right.
This also tells me you had some difficulty letting go. All her attempts at trying to make "right" with you for putting her new boyfriend on the phone is only infuriating and feeding your jealousy. She needs to just stop. Often, you cannot reason with emotions... especially intense ones.
let her think she can have you back, don't promise anything, let her try harder and harder and then...BOOM...slam the door in her face [figuratively]....it works...
only if you want to waste some more time on such a loser...
only if you want to waste some more time on such a loser...
How'd you find out she was cheating? This story doesn't make sense a lot of sense..Just move on.
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by AriesGirl74
Look you are on here for advice n people are gonna give it based on their similar experiences of that behaviour otherwise why are you on here? The answers come from comparisons.
We don't know whether he took the phone off her to speak to u, or took your number, or she knew about it but yes I understand that would make you mad after being with the girl 3 years.
But like u said, it appears to you that she lied and cheated, and you mentioned in your op that she had tried to smooth things over with you after the guy spoke to you, not the same day..
I still maintain that there must have been something missing between u both for her to lie and cheat, even if you can't see that at the moment.
She is trying to keep things civil and only you can decide whether you can be just friends or if that is too painful for you at the moment, but I still maintain that you are not gonna get an Aries woman to "realise her mistake" and "feel guilty"
How obnoxious of her to assume he'd want to be friends after she treated him so horribly, does she not have a rational thought in her mind?
she definitely sounds like a Beast...click to expand
I don't think she wanted to be friends.. Sounds like she just wanted to apologize to him.. Probably felt guilty.
Omg! When is everyone here gonna understand that this guy does not want her back, he wants to make her pay.
And no, he shouldn't want her back coz she lied and cheated after being a couple for 3 years. He has said it's broken his heart.
You can give all the advice you want about reeling her back in but SHE DOESNT CARE!
He said he wants her to "realise her mistake". He wants her to "feel guilty because she broke up with me".
Guess what??? I'm afraid she doesn't. She wants to move on and try and still be friendly - rightly or wrongly. That's the answer to his question - you cannot make someone feel guilty about something if they don't feel guilty.
And no, he shouldn't want her back coz she lied and cheated after being a couple for 3 years. He has said it's broken his heart.
You can give all the advice you want about reeling her back in but SHE DOESNT CARE!
He said he wants her to "realise her mistake". He wants her to "feel guilty because she broke up with me".
Guess what??? I'm afraid she doesn't. She wants to move on and try and still be friendly - rightly or wrongly. That's the answer to his question - you cannot make someone feel guilty about something if they don't feel guilty.
Posted by AriesGirl74
Omg! When is everyone here gonna understand that this guy does not want her back, he wants to make her pay.
And no, he shouldn't want her back coz she lied and cheated after being a couple for 3 years. He has said it's broken his heart.
You can give all the advice you want about reeling her back in but SHE DOESNT CARE!
He said he wants her to "realise her mistake". He wants her to "feel guilty because she broke up with me".
Guess what??? I'm afraid she doesn't. She wants to move on and try and still be friendly - rightly or wrongly. That's the answer to his question - you cannot make someone feel guilty about something if they don't feel guilty.
Yes. This guy sounds just as bad as she does..He needs to move on.
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I'm thinking, what would make me put my new guy on the phone to talk to my ex guy...
... the threat of violence through actual threats or stalking.
With intense jealously, so much so, that I can't talk with affection to my girlfriends without being yelled at... and vengefullness...
...I believe your are leaving parts of the whole story out because it would be counterproductive to your goal of emotionally enticing strangers online with helping you plot revenge...
...and because you are so full of rage you are delusional. I couldn't possible believe anything you have to say about the relationship as true or even accurate whether perspective or fact.
... the threat of violence through actual threats or stalking.
With intense jealously, so much so, that I can't talk with affection to my girlfriends without being yelled at... and vengefullness...
...I believe your are leaving parts of the whole story out because it would be counterproductive to your goal of emotionally enticing strangers online with helping you plot revenge...
...and because you are so full of rage you are delusional. I couldn't possible believe anything you have to say about the relationship as true or even accurate whether perspective or fact.
Posted by CluelessCancer
The bytch cheated on you. She's not worth sheet. Treat her like the dirt she is and cancel her out of your memory. then she had the absolute nerve to have the guy she cheated on you with to call you.
dude i'm sorry, but you're way better then this, she's a loser...you can do much much better. What you should do is go to Church and kneel in prayer and thank GOD you been saved from a wretched hooker.
best of luck.
HAHAHA I am nearly choking on my muffin over here LOL best sh1t I have read
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