Posted by PrincelyNext time when someone you claim to care about tells you what they want or in this case don't want, give them the base respect of accepting that they know their own mind.
Days later, she texted me on WhatsApp that she wants a break up that it seems I'm too much in love with her and she can't cope.
Posted by Princely
I'm with this Aries girl, coincidentally, today 1st April is her birthday. We've been together for 3 months now. She's a student, who stayed around my area before she had issues with her aunt and moved to her school area, about 30mins drive from where I stay.
Whenever I tell her to come to my place, she gives me excuses of "she don't want her aunt to see her around the area". She came to my place the first time, a month after she left for school, stayed for 2 hours and rushed home, that she can't sleep over. I agreed.
Days later, she texted me on WhatsApp that she wants a break up that it seems I'm too much in love with her and she can't cope. Actually I love her very very much. I had a talk with her, and told her not to make brash decisions that we can take it slow and I won't bother her too much, she accepted and we continued the relationship.
Weeks later, she started ignoring my calls for days. When she finally picked up after two days went by without me calling, I asked her what the issue is, she said she's been going thru some personal issues, that she just needed her alone time. I accepted. I then invited her over, she came this last Saturday, we talked a bit, she prepared food, after we ate, kissed, she said she'll be going.
Just 3 hours of spending time with me in the house after weeks of not seeing eachother, I was mad, but i
didn't want to hold her against her wish.
Since then she only answered my calls on Sunday. From Monday till today Wednesday, she hasn't answered or returned my calls. Ignores my calls and texts, even last night
Today is her birthday, I sent her a text, she hasn't replied either on phone or facebook.
What do you guys think this is all about. She's lost her both parents and only grew up with her aunt.
Posted by Dreamy88Yeeep. I noticed the same thing. He's the issue here, not the girls.Posted by rockyroadicecream
She's not into you.
You sound clingy af. Based on your post history, you're too clingy and freak girls out easily with your intensity there.
You also sound manipulative. I don't think you love HER, just love the idea of being in a relationship. The fact you talked her out of breaking up with you is just emotional manipulation. She knows what she wants. You just don't think she knows and because you're fixated on YOUR feelings of what YOU want, you talked her out of breaking up.
Not cool.
Neither is her lack of being direct (aside from the obvious "I want to break up." Can't get any more direct than that).
Move on for the both your sake.
I read his topic postings yesterday after my post and look at all of the titles. It’s a recurring issue he’s been having for the past few years with different women. Diving in too fast and falling in love too fast then the women getting creeped out.click to expand
Posted by Gobby
Thinking about it now, whenever this happened to me it was with a fire sign.
Young fire sign women are usually the most selfish bitches you'll ever come across. Seek someone with either an earth or water sun...
Posted by bmoon8
She’s ghosting you. Stop contacting her altogether. Break your damn phone if that is what it takes.
Posted by GobbyI’m starting to find you pathetic, you’re the one who acts like a bitch.
Thinking about it now, whenever this happened to me it was with a fire sign.
Young fire sign women are usually the most selfish bitches you'll ever come across. Seek someone with either an earth or water sun...
Posted by Princely
I don't know if this changes anything, but I got two texts from her today. One, a "thank you" message from her as reply on Facebook as I wished her a happy birthday yesterday.
Second one was another text this evening in quote "Good evening sir
Welcome to April
I pray that God shall do the extra-ordinary for you , you shall be safe from the pandemic.Stay safe."
I've never received this kind of text or any "new month text" from her before now.
I haven't called her since then.
Does these text messages count for anything?
Posted by bkbella86Yup.Posted by Gobby
Thinking about it now, whenever this happened to me it was with a fire sign.
Young fire sign women are usually the most selfish bitches you'll ever come across. Seek someone with either an earth or water sun...
I’m starting to find you pathetic, you’re the one who acts like a bitch.click to expand
Posted by TenpxdI wouldn't give him that advice. He's going to call and fuck this up even further. He just needs to leave it alone.Posted by Princely
I don't know if this changes anything, but I got two texts from her today. One, a "thank you" message from her as reply on Facebook as I wished her a happy birthday yesterday.
Second one was another text this evening in quote "Good evening sir
Welcome to April
I pray that God shall do the extra-ordinary for you , you shall be safe from the pandemic.Stay safe."
I've never received this kind of text or any "new month text" from her before now.
I haven't called her since then.
Does these text messages count for anything?
Call her and ask her if she’s okay, clear the air...click to expand
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by TenpxdPosted by Princely
I don't know if this changes anything, but I got two texts from her today. One, a "thank you" message from her as reply on Facebook as I wished her a happy birthday yesterday.
Second one was another text this evening in quote "Good evening sir
Welcome to April
I pray that God shall do the extra-ordinary for you , you shall be safe from the pandemic.Stay safe."
I've never received this kind of text or any "new month text" from her before now.
I haven't called her since then.
Does these text messages count for anything?
Call her and ask her if she’s okay, clear the air...
I wouldn't give him that advice. He's going to call and fuck this up even further. He just needs to leave it alone.
He's trying to hard in reading into her texts too. Dude is clinging to scraps.click to expand
Posted by TenpxdOnly when it's mutually listened to. It's obviously not. She's trying to remain friendly with him and he's treating it as a green light to continue to try to manipulate her.Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by TenpxdPosted by Princely
I don't know if this changes anything, but I got two texts from her today. One, a "thank you" message from her as reply on Facebook as I wished her a happy birthday yesterday.
Second one was another text this evening in quote "Good evening sir
Welcome to April
I pray that God shall do the extra-ordinary for you , you shall be safe from the pandemic.Stay safe."
I've never received this kind of text or any "new month text" from her before now.
I haven't called her since then.
Does these text messages count for anything?
Call her and ask her if she’s okay, clear the air...
I wouldn't give him that advice. He's going to call and fuck this up even further. He just needs to leave it alone.
He's trying to hard in reading into her texts too. Dude is clinging to scraps.
Communication is key.click to expand
Posted by rockyroadicecreamThere’s 3 sides to a story we only see his version.Posted by TenpxdPosted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by TenpxdPosted by Princely
I don't know if this changes anything, but I got two texts from her today. One, a "thank you" message from her as reply on Facebook as I wished her a happy birthday yesterday.
Second one was another text this evening in quote "Good evening sir
Welcome to April
I pray that God shall do the extra-ordinary for you , you shall be safe from the pandemic.Stay safe."
I've never received this kind of text or any "new month text" from her before now.
I haven't called her since then.
Does these text messages count for anything?
Call her and ask her if she’s okay, clear the air...
I wouldn't give him that advice. He's going to call and fuck this up even further. He just needs to leave it alone.
He's trying to hard in reading into her texts too. Dude is clinging to scraps.
Communication is key.
Only when it's mutually listened to. It's obviously not. She's trying to remain friendly with him and he's treating it as a green light to continue to try to manipulate her.click to expand
Posted by PrincelyNo.
I don't know if this changes anything, but I got two texts from her today. One, a "thank you" message from her as reply on Facebook as I wished her a happy birthday yesterday.
Second one was another text this evening in quote "Good evening sir
Welcome to April
I pray that God shall do the extra-ordinary for you , you shall be safe from the pandemic.Stay safe."
I've never received this kind of text or any "new month text" from her before now.
I haven't called her since then.
Does these text messages count for anything?
Posted by CuddleBug1288A lot of people hear but don't listen.
Instead of just hearing what she is saying...you should be listening to what she's saying.
Different things.
Posted by Ram416Posted by Princely
I don't know if this changes anything, but I got two texts from her today. One, a "thank you" message from her as reply on Facebook as I wished her a happy birthday yesterday.
Second one was another text this evening in quote "Good evening sir
Welcome to April
I pray that God shall do the extra-ordinary for you , you shall be safe from the pandemic.Stay safe."
I've never received this kind of text or any "new month text" from her before now.
I haven't called her since then. Does these text messages count for anything?
No.
She's being civil. These are trying times for everyone, and obviously she does care about you, BUT that does not equate to romantic connection (read the part where you say she wanted a breakup).
If you continue reading too much into stuff she says and does, I can assure you that you will no longer see or hear from her ever again.click to expand