My poor Aries friend got dumped a month ago

So my Aries friend was crazy about her Virgo guy but he broke up with her after they have been on a halve year trip with the bus traveling. They already lived together before but bought a house but on his name so after the trip they were moving. She was helping with stuff painting and they seemed happy. she says the break up came out of nowhere and she thought he was the man of her dreams and she still can't let him go and i told her to leave him alone that she should not have contact with him at all because she will be even more upset.

I was right because a halve hour ago she told me you were right it was terrible now i've seen him i even miss him more what do i need to do i really think we are made for each other.

So then i tell her that she should focus on herself because i do not recognize her and she is not herself.

she has 2 options either travel to aruba have a job there and family living there or she moves in a house with 5 girls. So i said to her if i were you i would have known already go travel find peace within yourself have fun and think about yourself. But she keeps insisting " i don't want to let him go " I really think we are made for each other.

I only said you are stubborn and then she had to laugh this is her chart what do you think does it have to do with her venus in the 12th house ?







Sun 23°35' Aries

Moon 1°19' Virgo

Mercury 29°25' Pisces

Venus 7°21' Aries

Mars 12°32' Pisces

Jupiter 5°06' Я Virgo

Saturn 16°52' Aquarius

Uranus 17°59' Capricorn

Neptune 18°57' Capricorn

Pluto 22°20' Я Scorpio

Chiron 3°22' Leo

Ceres 3°31' Aquarius

Pallas 7°04' Capricorn

Juno 6°39' Aries

Vesta 11°45' Я Virgo

Node 3°27' Я Capricorn

Lilith 1°39' Я Pisces

Fortune 9°29' Libra

AS 1°45' Gemini

MC 28°54' Capricorn



House 1 1°45' Gemini

House 2 23°53' Gemini

House 3 11°02' Cancer

House 4 28°54' Cancer

House 5 22°28' Leo

House 6 1°48' Libra

House 7 1°45' Sagittarius

House 8 23°53' Sagittarius

House 9 11°02' Capricorn

House 10 28°54' Capricorn

House 11 22°28' Aquarius

House 12 1°48' Aries

Posted by ItsMeRoman
It’s that Aries sun and Aries Venus combo.

Very hard headed. I have Aries sun and Venus and I can tell you that from my perspective, once I’ve invested into someone and my heart and mind are both in it...it’s extremely hard to break that link. I also have a Taurus mars which makes for someone even more hard headed.

It’s an incredibly tough lesson to learn...when to love and when to allow the loss to teach you something. The only way to reason with her is to reason with her pride.



Aries have an idealized view on life and the people they love. When an Aries falls from this stage in life they can become quite dark and hateful. The only way to help pull her out from this spell is to use her pride against her by showing her how it looks from the exterior....

When someone loves you, they run to you...not away and they embrace the good and bad. When someone is worth it- nothing can take you away. Sadly, she isn’t worth it for him...and there’s nothing more painful in the moment than unrequited love. The pain of realizing you’re the one loving them while you remain an option to them.

If anything I’ve learned from dating Virgos .....

You have to protect and love yourself first. Live through example and never ask for their opinion or help. When a Virgo has made up their mind about a partner ....they distance themselves at first but eventually memories and loyalty catch up with them and they continuously return.

I don’t think she’ll see it yet but someday soon she’ll feel incredibly used and neglected and it will hit her hard.

when I've made up my mind (female Virgo speaking) I'm really done I don't look back I may still wonder how they are doing and I'm curious about them but that's all. I have a Sagittarius moon Ascendant and Venus in Leo. I don't know his horoscope and his moon sign that's the thing of I at least know how moon sign it's easier to see. I can tell you when I love I love with my heart and my whole heart and there's alot that needs to happen before I am done. during their halve year trip he may have seen things he didn't like about her because she told me whenever they would climb a mountain or hill and she didn't want to anymore she would tell him you can go I wait here. or the fact that whenever she wanted sex he almost never wanted to have sex and she called the sex fun...since when you say well that was fun. she said he already had lived by himself, before they bought a house they had already lived together for about a year in a rental home after that the travel and 2 weeks after that he broke up and said I don't see myself having kids with you and I don't feel attracted to you anymore

Honestly, set her up on some dates. The quicker she gets some attention the better. Penis attention.

Posted by ItsMeRoman
It’s that Aries sun and Aries Venus combo.

Very hard headed. I have Aries sun and Venus and I can tell you that from my perspective, once I’ve invested into someone and my heart and mind are both in it...it’s extremely hard to break that link. I also have a Taurus mars which makes for someone even more hard headed.

It’s an incredibly tough lesson to learn...when to love and when to allow the loss to teach you something. The only way to reason with her is to reason with her pride.

Aries have an idealized view on life and the people they love. When an Aries falls from this stage in life they can become quite dark and hateful. The only way to help pull her out from this spell is to use her pride against her by showing her how it looks from the exterior....

When someone loves you, they run to you...not away and they embrace the good and bad. When someone is worth it- nothing can take you away. Sadly, she isn’t worth it for him...and there’s nothing more painful in the moment than unrequited love. The pain of realizing you’re the one loving them while you remain an option to them.

If anything I’ve learned from dating Virgos .....

You have to protect and love yourself first. Live through example and never ask for their opinion or help. When a Virgo has made up their mind about a partner ....they distance themselves at first but eventually memories and loyalty catch up with them and they continuously return.

I don’t think she’ll see it yet but someday soon she’ll feel incredibly used and neglected and it will hit her hard.

she just gave me his date is birth he is

Sun: Virgo

Moon : Taurus

Venus : Virgo

Mars : Gemini

Mercury : Virgo

Jupiter : Leo

or moon in Aries is also possible

Posted by DMV
Honestly, set her up on some dates. The quicker she gets some attention the better. Penis attention.

Girls just wanna have fun I mean she's still young better enjoy it now then when she's old and everything is hanging lol no but she only wants him the only way would be to go out but she's kinda shy not herself I told her it takes time again to become herself but she needs to do something

Yep. Aries = action

An occasional ego boost is great 2.

The only Virgo x Aries that sounds at all possible is if it's Aries male Virgo fem

Posted by miriyahhh
The only Virgo x Aries that sounds at all possible is if it's Aries male Virgo fem

When it comes to astrology...yup, agreed.

And this one seemed like a true to the core virgo one.

You got some good advices already here OP, try to go have some fun out with her in order to try to boost her ego up.

Posted by ItsMeRoman
It’s that Aries sun and Aries Venus combo.

Very hard headed. I have Aries sun and Venus and I can tell you that from my perspective, once I’ve invested into someone and my heart and mind are both in it...it’s extremely hard to break that link. I also have a Taurus mars which makes for someone even more hard headed.

It’s an incredibly tough lesson to learn...when to love and when to allow the loss to teach you something. The only way to reason with her is to reason with her pride.

Aries have an idealized view on life and the people they love. When an Aries falls from this stage in life they can become quite dark and hateful. The only way to help pull her out from this spell is to use her pride against her by showing her how it looks from the exterior....

When someone loves you, they run to you...not away and they embrace the good and bad. When someone is worth it- nothing can take you away. Sadly, she isn’t worth it for him...and there’s nothing more painful in the moment than unrequited love. The pain of realizing you’re the one loving them while you remain an option to them.

If anything I’ve learned from dating Virgos .....

You have to protect and love yourself first. Live through example and never ask for their opinion or help. When a Virgo has made up their mind about a partner ....they distance themselves at first but eventually memories and loyalty catch up with them and they continuously return.

I don’t think she’ll see it yet but someday soon she’ll feel incredibly used and neglected and it will hit her hard.

This is quite insightful.

"You have to protect and love yourself first. Live through example and never ask for their opinion or help" is a great lesson to learn.

This is a good wake-up call.