Need Aries feedback

This topic was created in the Aries forum by LibraJackson on Thursday, February 15, 2018 and has 3 replies.

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I was seeing an Aries guy last year, started off great but we both didn't want anything serious as he was moving away by the end of the year and I just got out of a serious relationship.

Long Story short, I didn't like him at first as time goes by I just adore him as a person, his honesty, his rare sweetness and just the way he is. We were both happy, saying that it wasn't always smooth.

I don't know what effect he had on me but I just really liked him. So he moved away and he then insisted that we should keep in touch.I even booked a trip to visit him.

As time went by, I really missed him and I realized I actually love him so I decided to confess how I feel and he respond was 'I like you, but I'm not in love with you' Of course I was heartbroken but heyyy I just stayed away and kept quiet but he kept coming back.

Things were bittersweet as it turned into long distance thing, which I didn't want for both of us as I think he deserves to have a fun new start and it's unfair on both of us.

He ended things, I respected his decision. Went to New York with my friend instead and he asked to meet up. so I went and met up with him, I was a disaster. I was emotional and I got drunk and just poured my heart out. He was upset too but he was honest the whole time and he just said that he can't force how he feels. Which is so fair.

Anyway, I left NY thinking he would never speak to me again as he was so upset and angry with me. I gave him space, stayed away and yet again he came back but more so in a friendly manner.

We stayed in touch, now and then I get a message or two. Every week or two I get a snap and a message but it's just casual. Nothing meaningful.

Tbh we ended things officially in September last year and both of us are still in touch. I'm still madly in love with him tbh but I won't say anything to him.

He seen that I got flowers for Valentines and messaged me saying 'Happy Valentines Day and that with a picture of him in the gym?

I don't know how to put this for you guys to understand and I'm doing such a bad job at it but not a day goes by where I don't think about him. He's always on my mind and it's just hard and unfortunate how things turned out.

But what is this? I genuinely think he cares about me and if the situation was different, If we were in the same place we might be a thing by now but am I wrong as per usual ?

Part of me which I was as important to him as he is to me. May be I was just another girl, what do you aries think ? and why is he still keeping in touch ??