Need help getting back with Aries Ex boyfriend
This topic was created in the Aries forum by AquaMess95 on Monday, June 12, 2017 and has 2 replies.
This is complicated so I'll make it short and to the point . I've been dating an Aries man for 4 months ,
He's a very busy person ...dedicating most of his time to school projects and video games lols . He was all over me the first month of our relationship but then kind of just settled on me and had me staying over his house every day for like 3 months . My problem was he kept me there but all he ever wanted to do was his school work and play video games. We had our ups and down but things got worst when I started coming to his parents house with him . He always wanted me there . I'm friends with his friends , his brother and his mother is nice to me but his dad is from Thailand and racist and always on him about me . So a week ago he broke up with me saying he loves me, he's still in love with me ... he wishes he can be with me but he "can't" .....he saying it's a mix of me wanting time from him and him having to focus on projects and his dads annoyance . he's making it clear that we can never be together even tho he wants to be with me but get this...because of his culture ...because his dad said He can't take me to Thailand... my ex is nit racist , although he loves his dad he knows he's bat shit cray and abuses him his bro and wife and he will abandon them for his side chick in Thailand in the future .
Now we are still talking , as friends ...almost as if we are still dating without the title. Another thing my ex is not typical hoe aries he's on his pc all day my sex drive is higher than his and he's a anime nerd lol
Considering his dad will abandon them later anyways while him his brother and mom will stay here I'm wondering if anyone knows any tactics to make an Aries man who is still in love with me stay with me ? I feel he broke up with me due to amount of pressure and work he wants to get done but do you think with some space and fun friendship on my behalf there is a chance he would consider being mines again? Or is it def over
He is Aries sun
Capricorn Moon
Aquarius Venus
Sagittarius Rising
Mars Leo
I am Aquarius sun
Gemini moon
Capricorn Venus
Scorpio rising
Mars Leo
He's a very busy person ...dedicating most of his time to school projects and video games lols . He was all over me the first month of our relationship but then kind of just settled on me and had me staying over his house every day for like 3 months . My problem was he kept me there but all he ever wanted to do was his school work and play video games. We had our ups and down but things got worst when I started coming to his parents house with him . He always wanted me there . I'm friends with his friends , his brother and his mother is nice to me but his dad is from Thailand and racist and always on him about me . So a week ago he broke up with me saying he loves me, he's still in love with me ... he wishes he can be with me but he "can't" .....he saying it's a mix of me wanting time from him and him having to focus on projects and his dads annoyance . he's making it clear that we can never be together even tho he wants to be with me but get this...because of his culture ...because his dad said He can't take me to Thailand... my ex is nit racist , although he loves his dad he knows he's bat shit cray and abuses him his bro and wife and he will abandon them for his side chick in Thailand in the future .
Now we are still talking , as friends ...almost as if we are still dating without the title. Another thing my ex is not typical hoe aries he's on his pc all day my sex drive is higher than his and he's a anime nerd lol
Considering his dad will abandon them later anyways while him his brother and mom will stay here I'm wondering if anyone knows any tactics to make an Aries man who is still in love with me stay with me ? I feel he broke up with me due to amount of pressure and work he wants to get done but do you think with some space and fun friendship on my behalf there is a chance he would consider being mines again? Or is it def over
He is Aries sun
Capricorn Moon
Aquarius Venus
Sagittarius Rising
Mars Leo
I am Aquarius sun
Gemini moon
Capricorn Venus
Scorpio rising
Mars Leo
There's a chance you could get back together, it depends how he broke up with you, did it appear that he had been thinking about it for some time, because in that case I would just let things go. If it seemed like some rash decision then maybe he will change his mind.
I think you need to think about what you want, I wouldn't wait around for him, I know Aries can get a bit obsessive with things, including computer games, but he prioritises time with computer over time with you. Do you really want to be with a guy like that? I think the time for his projects and his dads thing, is just a smoke screen, we all have parents that probably don't approve of certain types of people we date, and I know it's harder if you have strict parents, but if someone really matters then you stand up against your parents. He's not willing to do that, so how important can you be? Maybe he's a bit too young and doesn't know how yet, but you cant wait around for him to stand up to his dad, it might never happen.
Also I think it could be best to not see him as much, you can't just be the same as you were before. I know after some breakups, I don't exactly know what it means (as an Aries), but it means you cant see that person. You can't break up and just be friends. I would consider just not seeing him as much, and give him time to miss you, if he really misses you, then he'll have second thoughts. And if your destiny is to be with someone other than him, then I think it's easier for you if you don't see him as much. And wouldn't you rather be with someone where the sex drive was on the same level? Sex is important to an Aries, so if something isn't clicking there, then I think I would leave it.
I think you need to think about what you want, I wouldn't wait around for him, I know Aries can get a bit obsessive with things, including computer games, but he prioritises time with computer over time with you. Do you really want to be with a guy like that? I think the time for his projects and his dads thing, is just a smoke screen, we all have parents that probably don't approve of certain types of people we date, and I know it's harder if you have strict parents, but if someone really matters then you stand up against your parents. He's not willing to do that, so how important can you be? Maybe he's a bit too young and doesn't know how yet, but you cant wait around for him to stand up to his dad, it might never happen.
Also I think it could be best to not see him as much, you can't just be the same as you were before. I know after some breakups, I don't exactly know what it means (as an Aries), but it means you cant see that person. You can't break up and just be friends. I would consider just not seeing him as much, and give him time to miss you, if he really misses you, then he'll have second thoughts. And if your destiny is to be with someone other than him, then I think it's easier for you if you don't see him as much. And wouldn't you rather be with someone where the sex drive was on the same level? Sex is important to an Aries, so if something isn't clicking there, then I think I would leave it.
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