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Now we've learned why "aries guys are nutzo," and about "Aries Men in Love," and "the paradox in Aries men." Now, I want to know how you Aries men come to the conclusion that a relationship is over? What are the signs that you take as an ending, and how do you behave when you are on the verge of ending things? In fact, I'm interested in hearing from Aries women, as well.
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"...less visits..less phone calls..POOF i'm gone!" Ah yes...this is the second part of my question. This comment makes me automatically think that an Aries will never come out and say 'it's over.' Instead, you stop showing interest and the other person is supposed to figure it out?!?!?!!? Is that how it works w/ an Aries, you drift away until POOF your gone?

Also, we need some feedback from the men.
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Well TS...not always do we "drift away" - I have had MANY occassions where I have bluntly told a man that I am not interested - this relationship is not working for me. Ya know what I have concluded? they have suddenly and unexpectedly lost all ability to hear !!! They keep calling, sending flowers and cards. I can completely get to the point of no contact and that does not even work! What I have found that does work is to slowly "wean" them off....or as you say..."drift away." Perhaps for anyone it is the sudden ending of a relationship that is difficult for us to deal with? Going "cold turkey" can be hard on the emotions and the body.

"Instead, you stop showing interest and the other person is supposed to figure it out?!?!?!" yeah...me thinks so...at least figure out that he/she is not interested - as far as the why? does it really matter? I dunno. I have also explained to a guy why I could no longer be in the relationship with him - he didn't agree with me - was in denial so what was the point for me to share that with him?

Just my Arian thoughts....hopefully a Hot Arian man will make his presence known and share his insights. C'mon Ram men - come forth! NOW!!!!!!