Possible to get an Aries ex back?
This topic was created in the Aries forum by jas79 on Tuesday, December 18, 2007 and has 30 replies.
Is it possible to get an Aries ex back? What should I do to get him back?
it depends how you guys split up, how long were you together , was there strong real love or just a fling?
i wanna say yes it is possible only if the aries wants it too but even than it wont be easy and will require some work on your part
i wanna say yes it is possible only if the aries wants it too but even than it wont be easy and will require some work on your part
It is definitely possible. But like class-act-aries says, it really depends on how long the relationship was and on what grounds ya'll broke up. If it was a long relationship and you had him absolutely crazy about you, and the reason ya'll broke up was over something minor or just like an agreement between the two of you...then you can most definitely get him back. Or at least in my situation, I would probably get back with a girl that I used to be crazy about if the break-up was just something small.
But if you were just a quick fling, and the break-up was because you did him wrong. Then FUCK that. Bitch i'ma dogg ya hoe ass like you dogged me.
But if you were just a quick fling, and the break-up was because you did him wrong. Then FUCK that. Bitch i'ma dogg ya hoe ass like you dogged me.
im curious what difference it makes who broke first
it matters cause we aries break up only if we have no desire to continue the relationship and there is nothing you can do about it, but to get to that point there had to be a sequence of events leading to it, we dont take this decision lightly even though we are impulsive with everything else we cherish the love we have and wont throw it away over stupid reason,
c-a-a is 100% correct. If we break it off with you, there is a very slim to none chance that we will rekindle the relationship with you.
Personally, I do not end relationships unless someone is disrespectful, lies, cannot be trusted ect....Aries value their friends, their time and their life - we enjoy a life of quality not quanity.
Personally, I do not end relationships unless someone is disrespectful, lies, cannot be trusted ect....Aries value their friends, their time and their life - we enjoy a life of quality not quanity.
There was some minor arguments between us. Hence, he asked for the breakup.
But even after we broke up, he says he still love me alot. Just that he doesn't know how to handle all the arguments we had, thus, he doesn't wants to get back(yet).
And our relationship wasn't a very long one, but definitely not a fling.
I want him back because both of us still love each other, and it is definitely not worth it to give up a relationship just because of some minor problems.
So is it still possible?
But even after we broke up, he says he still love me alot. Just that he doesn't know how to handle all the arguments we had, thus, he doesn't wants to get back(yet).
And our relationship wasn't a very long one, but definitely not a fling.
I want him back because both of us still love each other, and it is definitely not worth it to give up a relationship just because of some minor problems.
So is it still possible?
I understand that. Because I'm now acting as if I'm very happy after we broke up and I could live just as well without him. But in fact, I know I can't. 
Sometimes I have my doubts for what he said too. But he still have our photos and all, in his blog and other online accounts. And he had been updating all those as well, but he never remove our photos.
Thats why I doesn't know what he actually wants and whether this relationship could be salvage.
Sometimes I have my doubts for what he said too. But he still have our photos and all, in his blog and other online accounts. And he had been updating all those as well, but he never remove our photos.
Thats why I doesn't know what he actually wants and whether this relationship could be salvage.
Exactly. I tried asking him out to clarify everything but he told me "There is nothing to be clarified. Everything that have to be say, are said" and he doesn't even give me a chance to talk.
In my opinion, i think that we have so much more things to clarify but he is just running away from the problems.
But from what I heard from my(and his) friends, he told them that he wants to try and solve the problems between us by himself before we get back again. But how can it be possible to solve the problems between two by himself? It sounds like he's going to fail and we are never going to get back. That's one of my worries.
In my opinion, i think that we have so much more things to clarify but he is just running away from the problems.
But from what I heard from my(and his) friends, he told them that he wants to try and solve the problems between us by himself before we get back again. But how can it be possible to solve the problems between two by himself? It sounds like he's going to fail and we are never going to get back. That's one of my worries.
Its tough to stay calm. I'm really afraid that we would drift apart.
He had been taking quite some time already.
As for the problems, I will take special note of that. Thanks.
He had been taking quite some time already.
As for the problems, I will take special note of that. Thanks.
In my opinion, he had been pushing me away.
Its like.. everytime I take 1 step forward, he would take 2 steps backward.
Yes, i do love him. Thats why I'm still waiting for him..
I'm a Libra.
Its like.. everytime I take 1 step forward, he would take 2 steps backward.
Yes, i do love him. Thats why I'm still waiting for him..
I'm a Libra.
I'm losing my patience, but at the same time, I don't want to give up yet.
But anyway, thanks for all your advices..
But anyway, thanks for all your advices..
Hey all! I've got another question now.
On Christmas Eve night, he suddenly sms-ed me, "Merry Christmas!".
I don't know whether he send the sms to other people as well.
But that was the greeting I least expected to receive from.
Because frankly speaking, we have not contact or meetup with each other for nearly 2 months. Even if we bump into each other, we would just act as if we didn't see the other party.
And he isn't those kind that will bother to send festive greeting to people.
Does that sms means anything?
On Christmas Eve night, he suddenly sms-ed me, "Merry Christmas!".
I don't know whether he send the sms to other people as well.
But that was the greeting I least expected to receive from.
Because frankly speaking, we have not contact or meetup with each other for nearly 2 months. Even if we bump into each other, we would just act as if we didn't see the other party.
And he isn't those kind that will bother to send festive greeting to people.
Does that sms means anything?
Perhaps I'm really reading too much into it.
Yup, Just a simple, "Merry Christmas to you too."
Yup, Just a simple, "Merry Christmas to you too."
class act & freebird...
I agree with what you said. I am an Aries girl and through my experiences, I have only stopped dealing with someone if I cannot take it anymore. It has to be something though. I cannot take lying, cheating, being superfical or stuff like that.
Yeah, we may seem hard to please and like we have no emotions. That's because we have a hard outer shell, but are sensitive inside. We feel we are weak when we expose ourselves.
So yes, I agree. Something lead to that. Maybe it was something that he didn't like and you kept doing it. I'm not sure though
I agree with what you said. I am an Aries girl and through my experiences, I have only stopped dealing with someone if I cannot take it anymore. It has to be something though. I cannot take lying, cheating, being superfical or stuff like that.
Yeah, we may seem hard to please and like we have no emotions. That's because we have a hard outer shell, but are sensitive inside. We feel we are weak when we expose ourselves.
So yes, I agree. Something lead to that. Maybe it was something that he didn't like and you kept doing it. I'm not sure though
haha. perhaps i really did something that he didn't like, just that i didn't realise that.
maybe i should really leave everything to fate and stop giving myself hopes.
maybe i should really leave everything to fate and stop giving myself hopes.
jas, what sign are you?
Libra.
what was the end of this story? have the same situation now...already going crazy
''we drifted apart''
how? emotionally?
''i'm curious to know if in this kind of scenario will i be able to get my aries back...''
Do you want this person back?
how? emotionally?
''i'm curious to know if in this kind of scenario will i be able to get my aries back...''
Do you want this person back?
Yes,you can get an Aries man back after a split,even after a BIG split,but
like Roxi said,"WHY would you want him back'? Not that they aren't worth it
or anything,just that they can get on the nerves of alot of people & they can
make people want out sometimes.What I mean is that,Aries isn't for everyone,but
if you TRULY LOVE HIM,then fight for him! If he doesn't wanna be with you,then
let him go his own way!
SO TRUE....!!!!
like Roxi said,"WHY would you want him back'? Not that they aren't worth it
or anything,just that they can get on the nerves of alot of people & they can
make people want out sometimes.What I mean is that,Aries isn't for everyone,but
if you TRULY LOVE HIM,then fight for him! If he doesn't wanna be with you,then
let him go his own way!
SO TRUE....!!!!
I know you dont want to hear it but:
if he was doing the pushing away, knowing the Aries temperament!!
He's gone (probably already got someone else in his sights)
Do yourself a favour, move on, look around and NEVER wait for anyone.
if he was doing the pushing away, knowing the Aries temperament!!
He's gone (probably already got someone else in his sights)
Do yourself a favour, move on, look around and NEVER wait for anyone.
But what do you do when an Aries has pushed you away time and time again. Just when you think it's over they show up again. She say she doesn't want a relationship, so we are just friends. If she thinks I'm dating someone, she will get distant. But when we talk again, she's asking questions and is very angry with me. But she dates and doesn't want me to date. She goes from sharing everything with me to it's not your business what I do. She goes from clingy to who are you again? It's like she searching for someone better than me but always comes back after failure. It's just strange we go through foolish things but it has never completely ended.
Is this fear, love or games with Aries?
Is this fear, love or games with Aries?
both female and male aries people always turn up again like nothing has happened ,
i bumped into an aries female that i really did not want anything to do with,
she always riled me up ,
i stopped communicating,phoning ,e-mailing her and i saw her she was in a que in front of me and turned round ,i cant be so ignorant to completely ignore her,so we started speaking ,
now she has rejoined a group that we are both members of ,which im not looking forward to,
its going to be difficult because its been great without her
thats how they are ,after an absence they want to carry on like nothing has happened.
i bumped into an aries female that i really did not want anything to do with,
she always riled me up ,
i stopped communicating,phoning ,e-mailing her and i saw her she was in a que in front of me and turned round ,i cant be so ignorant to completely ignore her,so we started speaking ,
now she has rejoined a group that we are both members of ,which im not looking forward to,
its going to be difficult because its been great without her
thats how they are ,after an absence they want to carry on like nothing has happened.
jojo, what do you want from her?
it's always possible to get an aries back. just like, be hot and dont give him what he wants. umm id probably hang out with dudes too. aries guys are lame and jealous like that and they need challenges and girls that dont give a crap about them to chase after 
ehhhaha i love aries dudes by the way
ehhhaha i love aries dudes by the way
woah. this is a seriously old topic
I LOVE EWE !
I want her to be honest and realize that we are just friends and she doesn't have to disappear just because she's dating someone. I would never interfere or cause problems. I've even asked if she's dating someone, she denies it and then later after she's done with them. She calls and tells me everything, good and bad about what happen. I just would like for her to be open upfront when the dating starts. We dated briefly as well and then she was gone. We are friends now because she called and was going through some hard times, we hung out and we have been friends since. She said I'm the only person she's kicked it with and can be friends with afterwards.
She said that's it not my business, but I don't want to be calling and texting her. When she dating someone because of our past. The most recent thing to happen she was living with someone she was dating, and we was still going out (as friends) but the other party doesn't know about out past. That's wrong. Why is she trying to hold on to me? Be gentle with your answers I love us both. Just looking for answers on how to handle the situation. I'm thinking just enjoy whenever it my turn again. Oh yeah, she hates when I date.
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