Relationship Riddle with an Aries?

This topic was created in the Aries forum by rakac on Friday, September 23, 2016 and has 35 replies.
Hi guys so those who know me prob know that i've been dating this Aries girl, and in past 2weeks she was just like a ghosts, no calls, no texts, no replies, i even wrote her on facebook she didn't write me back but i see she has seen the mssgs, so today i decided to write her a message :Babe, we're not moving anywhere with this, you were amazing while it lasted, but i can't work like this, with silent treatment, i give complete respect, trust and loyalty and i expect to get the same, 2weeks no message or text was def a clear message from you so i'm not going any further, you're an amazing woman, thank you for the time you gaive me, do your best , be happy and remain possitive, that was it. I deleted her number, facebook and all contacts i had with her, in around 30sec's she replied and starts to say sorry for doing this and so on, so on, says forgive and things like that, but it's 2nd time in a really short period of time that she goes like this, i don't want relationship like this, so i told her sorry it's over, i need to comunicate with people it's important for me, a person can fucking die in a single day, so much shit can happen in 2weeks, without no text no nothing, doesn't seem 2 fair from my side. Anyway she started geting angry said some hurtful things and 30mins later again started texting me, i don't reply, i don't want to deal with this, i've said this once for her, i forgive her, but you apology means nothing if you're going to do the same thing all over again. Now she's texting like she never did, feel like for the first time she really opened up 2 me, because ofc relationship was really good, but now she's talking some romance shit that i never heard before , some past of her life that i've never heard before, i'm wondering is she just manipulating or she's honest. People like these don't look 2 reliable to me, i told her that 1st time she did that and she got angry but later on said she understood and that will happen again. I don't think i should take her back, actions always speak louder than words smile Any advise or any different views on this topic? This relationship isn't lasting for a long time, so i'm thinking what should i do, sometimes i feel like some people only realise what they had only when they lose someone, some only like to play with people. ^^
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Hi guys so those who know me prob know that i've been dating this Aries girl, and in past 2weeks she was just like a ghosts, no calls, no texts, no replies, i even wrote her on facebook she didn't write me back but i see she has seen the mssgs, so today i decided to write her a message :Babe, we're not moving anywhere with this, you were amazing while it lasted, but i can't work like this, with silent treatment, i give complete respect, trust and loyalty and i expect to get the same, 2weeks no message or text was def a clear message from you so i'm not going any further, you're an amazing woman, thank you for the time you gaive me, do your best , be happy and remain possitive, that was it. I deleted her number, facebook and all contacts i had with her, in around 30sec's she replied and starts to say sorry for doing this and so on, so on, says forgive and things like that, but it's 2nd time in a really short period of time that she goes like this, i don't want relationship like this, so i told her sorry it's over, i need to comunicate with people it's important for me, a person can fucking die in a single day, so much shit can happen in 2weeks, without no text no nothing, doesn't seem 2 fair from my side. Anyway she started geting angry said some hurtful things and 30mins later again started texting me, i don't reply, i don't want to deal with this, i've said this once for her, i forgive her, but you apology means nothing if you're going to do the same thing all over again. Now she's texting like she never did, feel like for the first time she really opened up 2 me, because ofc relationship was really good, but now she's talking some romance shit that i never heard before , some past of her life that i've never heard before, i'm wondering is she just manipulating or she's honest. People like these don't look 2 reliable to me, i told her that 1st time she did that and she got angry but later on said she understood and that will happen again. I don't think i should take her back, actions always speak louder than words smile Any advise or any different views on this topic? This relationship isn't lasting for a long time, so i'm thinking what should i do, sometimes i feel like some people only realise what they had only when they lose someone, some only like to play with people. ^^
Youve presented yourself now as a challenge.


Ive seen this b4. Over n Over.


She wants to win you back. She honestly means those things. Shes going to say a whole lot of new shyt and do more romantic things. Then when you do get back together, she will start to feel like she did way too much, gave too much. She will think that you are not reciprocating with the same passion. She will think herself the fool and break up with you for good.

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You did the right thing and you handled it well like others said.



She is clearly not ready for a relationship and she still has a lot of growing up to do.



Don't let that be a reflection of what you think Aries women are like though. Those are the acts of an immature human being. Astrology has nothing to do with this.
Yeah i know, i never judge person by a sign, race or any other thing smile Thanks for kind reply . smile
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@ImTheRam I'm not a lab rat or a test object, i don't need testing and i don't play games, if she has these trust issues or insecurities it's not my problem, she could have told me while back. If person really wants a to be with a person, he doesn't leave him for 2 weeks, especially knowing that i have loads of health problems atm, hospitals, emergency shit and etc. I might sound arrogant, but person like this doesn't deserve my attention , i don't need testing, she's been with me for 2-3months she knows me well enough . People who care about don't leave you in unkown for 2 weeks when you have health problems, without any message . Like a person says, she might feel a challenge mode right now, because thats how most of Aries get a thrill, to get what they think they can't . smile


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@ImTheRam I'm not a lab rat or a test object, i don't need testing and i don't play games, if she has these trust issues or insecurities it's not my problem, she could have told me while back. If person really wants a to be with a person, he doesn't leave him for 2 weeks, especially knowing that i have loads of health problems atm, hospitals, emergency shit and etc. I might sound arrogant, but person like this doesn't deserve my attention , i don't need testing, she's been with me for 2-3months she knows me well enough . People who care about don't leave you in unkown for 2 weeks when you have health problems, without any message . Like a person says, she might feel a challenge mode right now, because thats how most of Aries get a thrill, to get what they think they can't . smile


@getmisted aries sun sag moon
I see.


Now that you put it on this terms...yes you are totaly rigth...she should have never left you when you are on a tough situation....even as a freind...thats not something someone should ever do.


You did the right thing, You need to think about yourself now.


Good luck with your health issues mate.
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Thank you! smile You know i liked her, but sometimes you have to forget what you feel and remember what you deserve! Stay positive!

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Hi guys so those who know me prob know that i've been dating this Aries girl, and in past 2weeks she was just like a ghosts, no calls, no texts, no replies, i even wrote her on facebook she didn't write me back but i see she has seen the mssgs, so today i decided to write her a message :Babe, we're not moving anywhere with this, you were amazing while it lasted, but i can't work like this, with silent treatment, i give complete respect, trust and loyalty and i expect to get the same, 2weeks no message or text was def a clear message from you so i'm not going any further, you're an amazing woman, thank you for the time you gaive me, do your best , be happy and remain possitive, that was it. I deleted her number, facebook and all contacts i had with her, in around 30sec's she replied and starts to say sorry for doing this and so on, so on, says forgive and things like that, but it's 2nd time in a really short period of time that she goes like this, i don't want relationship like this, so i told her sorry it's over, i need to comunicate with people it's important for me, a person can fucking die in a single day, so much shit can happen in 2weeks, without no text no nothing, doesn't seem 2 fair from my side. Anyway she started geting angry said some hurtful things and 30mins later again started texting me, i don't reply, i don't want to deal with this, i've said this once for her, i forgive her, but you apology means nothing if you're going to do the same thing all over again. Now she's texting like she never did, feel like for the first time she really opened up 2 me, because ofc relationship was really good, but now she's talking some romance shit that i never heard before , some past of her life that i've never heard before, i'm wondering is she just manipulating or she's honest. People like these don't look 2 reliable to me, i told her that 1st time she did that and she got angry but later on said she understood and that will happen again. I don't think i should take her back, actions always speak louder than words smile Any advise or any different views on this topic? This relationship isn't lasting for a long time, so i'm thinking what should i do, sometimes i feel like some people only realise what they had only when they lose someone, some only like to play with people. ^^


You can do without her. You did the right thing breaking up with her. 2 weeks without communicating with a S.O. is unreasonable. Hopefully this might wake her up the reality of what you were explaining to her.

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@Ram416 Yeah , i can do without her, but with my bad had included i feel worse .


I hope so 2, because i'm a cancer so this really hurts, to leave someone you like and care about, but thats that. She told me : I really wanted to be with you, i just needed to tell you this, because you'll think everythings different, but everything's exactly the opposite of what you think, for these past few weeks i watch your videos posted on facebook and picture's over and over again because i feel like you're a special human being, but i can't communicate with you right now, not because i don't want to, but i had to tell you this because you would have been left with thoughts that ignored you because i didn't like how you treated me, but i did, i loved it, i showed all my closest friends your picture's told them how special and how beautiful you treat me and how beautiful you talk with me even when i was like this with you, but now, i can't communicate with you. Didn't tell me no reason, no nothing, don't know, she might just be trying to put me at ease, because from my point of view it seems like an excuse, you always have time for things you want, and i don't know how it's possible to simply not be abble to communicate with a person, she's not that bussy now. But you know looking from the side, she might have something on her plate, i can't judge her, but i ain't living on the side, i'm living my own life so i should continue looking from my own point of view, i wrote her, well if you can't you can't. maybe one day randomly we'll meet again, that was it. smile


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@Ram416 Yeah , i can do without her, but with my bad had included i feel worse .


I hope so 2, because i'm a cancer so this really hurts, to leave someone you like and care about, but thats that. She told me : I really wanted to be with you, i just needed to tell you this, because you'll think everythings different, but everything's exactly the opposite of what you think, for these past few weeks i watch your videos posted on facebook and picture's over and over again because i feel like you're a special human being, but i can't communicate with you right now, not because i don't want to, but i had to tell you this because you would have been left with thoughts that ignored you because i didn't like how you treated me, but i did, i loved it, i showed all my closest friends your picture's told them how special and how beautiful you treat me and how beautiful you talk with me even when i was like this with you, but now, i can't communicate with you. Didn't tell me no reason, no nothing, don't know, she might just be trying to put me at ease, because from my point of view it seems like an excuse, you always have time for things you want, and i don't know how it's possible to simply not be abble to communicate with a person, she's not that bussy now. But you know looking from the side, she might have something on her plate, i can't judge her, but i ain't living on the side, i'm living my own life so i should continue looking from my own point of view, i wrote her, well if you can't you can't. maybe one day randomly we'll meet again, that was it. smile


Maybe 10 years down the road. When and if you both meet again; right now she's too immature for you.


I will admit when I was younger I was similar to her. Later years I learned to sit back look at how I treat my partners, to avoid miscommunication.
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@Ram416 Yeah , i can do without her, but with my bad had included i feel worse .


I hope so 2, because i'm a cancer so this really hurts, to leave someone you like and care about, but thats that. She told me : I really wanted to be with you, i just needed to tell you this, because you'll think everythings different, but everything's exactly the opposite of what you think, for these past few weeks i watch your videos posted on facebook and picture's over and over again because i feel like you're a special human being, but i can't communicate with you right now, not because i don't want to, but i had to tell you this because you would have been left with thoughts that ignored you because i didn't like how you treated me, but i did, i loved it, i showed all my closest friends your picture's told them how special and how beautiful you treat me and how beautiful you talk with me even when i was like this with you, but now, i can't communicate with you. Didn't tell me no reason, no nothing, don't know, she might just be trying to put me at ease, because from my point of view it seems like an excuse, you always have time for things you want, and i don't know how it's possible to simply not be abble to communicate with a person, she's not that bussy now. But you know looking from the side, she might have something on her plate, i can't judge her, but i ain't living on the side, i'm living my own life so i should continue looking from my own point of view, i wrote her, well if you can't you can't. maybe one day randomly we'll meet again, that was it. smile


Maybe 10 years down the road. When and if you both meet again; right now she's too immature for you.


I will admit when I was younger I was similar to her. Later years I learned to sit back look at how I treat my partners, to avoid miscommunication.
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Thanks for the help Winking

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I don't even understand why you bothered the post on here with this. Ask yourself what you want, you want her or not? Stop seeing it as a game to be won or lost, she didn't message you in two weeks, why didn't you message her, why didn't things move forward? it sounds boring to me, and it's sounds like the two of you aren't that compatible.

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I'm an Aries and she sounds like she's lost. I feel lost 2 in this moment of my life. Trying to figure shit out.
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I don't even understand why you bothered the post on here with this. Ask yourself what you want, you want her or not? Stop seeing it as a game to be won or lost, she didn't message you in two weeks, why didn't you message her, why didn't things move forward? it sounds boring to me, and it's sounds like the two of you aren't that compatible.

1st of all i texted her multiple times during those 2 weeks and called her, no reply no nothing, you would have seen this if you would take some time to read my post and not commenting after prob 1st sentence. I just don't understand 1thing, if she didn't like me why she didn't say so, i've heard aries are straight forward like this, but no, after i said we're done and said my nice goodbyes she replied within 30secs like this: I really wanted to be with you, i just needed to tell you this, because you'll think everythings different, but everything's exactly the opposite of what you think, for these past few weeks i watch your videos posted on facebook and picture's over and over again because i feel like you're a special human being, but i can't communicate with you right now, not because i don't want to, but i had to tell you this because you would have been left with thoughts that ignored you because i didn't like how you treated me, but i did, i loved it, i showed all my closest friends your picture's told them how special and how beautiful you treat me and how beautiful you talk with me even when i was like this with you, but now, i can't communicate with you.

That was it , no explanation why, no nothing. Either she takes me for a fool, because i always know actions speak louder than words, or she really can't , but i don't understand how person can't for me it sounds impossible. If a person cares for someone, either person or a thing he loves to do, he always finds time for it, he can always make it happen. Well i'm not going to be in her face, she said she can't that means she doesn't want to either way, i have things to do, it's just sad that it ended up like this thats all . smile We might not be compatible, but in bed, in relationship and when we were together the time and feelings were amazing, i felt like we were 2 sides of the same coin, but that's the thing, these 2 sides might never meet again, because it's the same coin. Big Grin
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@ImTheRam I'm not a lab rat or a test object, i don't need testing and i don't play games, if she has these trust issues or insecurities it's not my problem, she could have told me while back. If person really wants a to be with a person, he doesn't leave him for 2 weeks, especially knowing that i have loads of health problems atm, hospitals, emergency shit and etc. I might sound arrogant, but person like this doesn't deserve my attention , i don't need testing, she's been with me for 2-3months she knows me well enough . People who care about don't leave you in unkown for 2 weeks when you have health problems, without any message . Like a person says, she might feel a challenge mode right now, because thats how most of Aries get a thrill, to get what they think they can't . smile


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As much as I love Sags, they play games for days....



Her moon totally makes sense.
Astrology has nothing to do with this.


I don't listen to losers.


Stop commenting on DXP and then maybe we'll talk. Tongue
Lucky for us both I don't have a Sag Moon or I'd be messaging you constantly after this rejection.

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YOU have the incorrect moon there sir, We don't do that shit LOL Tongue
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well idk why people say sag moons play, i have a sag moon and i never play, i'm funny, but with relationships, friends any people i care about i'm always respectful, loyal and helpful. smile
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I think you made the correct decision in the first place with the message. it was direct, caring, and honest. I have no doubt you will find someone better who will appreciate you and show you some love in return. you definitely deserve better...
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Gemini Moon?
F U too misty... ?
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@ImTheRam I'm not a lab rat or a test object, i don't need testing and i don't play games, if she has these trust issues or insecurities it's not my problem, she could have told me while back. If person really wants a to be with a person, he doesn't leave him for 2 weeks, especially knowing that i have loads of health problems atm, hospitals, emergency shit and etc. I might sound arrogant, but person like this doesn't deserve my attention , i don't need testing, she's been with me for 2-3months she knows me well enough . People who care about don't leave you in unkown for 2 weeks when you have health problems, without any message . Like a person says, she might feel a challenge mode right now, because thats how most of Aries get a thrill, to get what they think they can't . smile


@getmisted aries sun sag moon
As much as I love Sags, they play games for days....



Her moon totally makes sense.
Astrology has nothing to do with this.


I don't listen to losers.


Stop commenting on DXP and then maybe we'll talk. Tongue
Lucky for us both I don't have a Sag Moon or I'd be messaging you constantly after this rejection.

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I love you tiz... LOL

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Posted by AriesLove
As stated before, is it really hard to see she has someone else.


She likes you as a "friend" someone who is nice, sweet, thoughtful and caring BUT you weren't #1. Sad


It has nothing to do with chasing. She just feels bad that you fell off.
Well each of us can tell things from our own experience, but we can never be 100% sure , neither you or i unless you find out for sure. If she would have been honest with me and said she liked someone else, i might have stayed as a friend, because i like honest people, hard to find honest people nowadays, if she really has someone else i'm glad she's not in my friends list, for me honesty/trust/respect are most important things in healthy relationship, either as a friend or a girlfriend, that's why i removed so manny people from my life this year, just wasn't my people, this year was hardest and at the same time the best year of my life, some many hard and beautiful moments, so much growth in my char, so much clarity in life, just amazing. smile Appreciate your time to write something in this topic . Thank you smile
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Well each of us can tell things from our own experience, but we can never be 100% sure , neither you or i unless you find out for sure. If she would have been honest with me and said she liked someone else, i might have stayed as a friend, because i like honest people, hard to find honest people nowadays, if she really has someone else i'm glad she's not in my friends list, for me honesty/trust/respect are most important things in healthy relationship, either as a friend or a girlfriend, that's why i removed so manny people from my life this year, just wasn't my people, this year was hardest and at the same time the best year of my life, some many hard and beautiful moments, so much growth in my char, so much clarity in life, just amazing. smile Appreciate your time to write something in this topic . Thank you smile
sorry about that girl but she sounds flakey - maybe interference with other placements and/or just young and immature and "strange" - cause her behavior sounds weird ... I don't like anything I can't trust either - and honesty has to be there


on the other note, good for you in your growth - you deserve a better partner !

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As stated before, is it really hard to see she has someone else.


She likes you as a "friend" someone who is nice, sweet, thoughtful and caring BUT you weren't #1. Sad


It has nothing to do with chasing. She just feels bad that you fell off.
Well each of us can tell things from our own experience, but we can never be 100% sure , neither you or i unless you find out for sure. If she would have been honest with me and said she liked someone else, i might have stayed as a friend, because i like honest people, hard to find honest people nowadays, if she really has someone else i'm glad she's not in my friends list, for me honesty/trust/respect are most important things in healthy relationship, either as a friend or a girlfriend, that's why i removed so manny people from my life this year, just wasn't my people, this year was hardest and at the same time the best year of my life, some many hard and beautiful moments, so much growth in my char, so much clarity in life, just amazing. smile Appreciate your time to write something in this topic . Thank you smile
Well you guys weren't in a relationship and it seems as it was fairly new. Were you honest about wanting to be exclusive to her? Yes, she could've disclosed that she was seeing other people but is it required...no. I don't think that is considered dishonesty.


All I see in this scenario is the disrespect you feel. You want to be treated a certain way and she was not giving that to you. Maybe you were rushing and she was trying to slow you down. But you've made your decision, just throwing out some thoughts for you to consider.



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Well that's 50% correct, i was feeling that she disrespected me , not because she maybe dated someone other, but because she ignored my calls and texts, i call this disrespect, atleast she could have told me something, but each time nothing, untill the last message, i knew she has seen the messages i send, because when a person reads i message i get message that they have seen it, i would understand if she didn't reply because she didn't see, but from what i can tell she knew, and for me this is disrespecting another person, each of us have something to do in life and are bussy i think, if the was respectful she would say sorry i can't talk right now or sorry i'm not interested or just sorry you're not the one, that would be honesty for me, ignorace for me is disrespect for another person, i felt like the disrespected me by ignoring me, thats all, i don't think any of us would like to be left unknown and left ignored by the person they were dating, just saying. But yeah, i get the idea, good post. smile
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for these past few weeks i watch your videos posted on facebook and picture's over and over again because i feel like you're a special human being,
lmao @ this load of bullshit.




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Aries are not direct at all.
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My ex is Aries sun/Sag Moon. Same for the friend I've known longest.


If anything, they have the opposite problem where they hold themselves back from coming on too strong.


I remember in the first week we got together where I forgot to answer for 2 days..when I called back I didn't even get a "Hello" before I got a lecture about how inconsiderate I was.
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for these past few weeks i watch your videos posted on facebook and picture's over and over again because i feel like you're a special human being,
lmao @ this load of bullshit.




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Could be bullshit, could be not, because in reallity many people say me many different things, that i'm somehow weird, different, crazy, or special....prob because the way i do/talk about the things i love and like, it's crazy i could talk about nature/training or something i like a whole day with a huge passion, the same way i could travel and train. Even my coach say's you're different, you seem to become the one with the thing you do, i don't know, it's prob just the way it is, but i wouldn't say i'm special, i always say each of us are special, but only few of us can find a thing that brings so much interest in the thing , i can train a whole day and at night look att the video's of other boxers training, and analyze them, learn from them and adapt something i like into my own unique shit, for some people from the side view that might look boring or crazy, but for me it's such a passion i could talk about it for day's and still be going, i can imagine people get bored sometimes if i start to talk about sports or nature, sometimes they have to stop me, i'm that much into it. Big Grin i believe sometimes some of my friends get pissed because of this, but they know me, they are ussed to it i guess. Big Grin
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for these past few weeks i watch your videos posted on facebook and picture's over and over again because i feel like you're a special human being,
lmao @ this load of bullshit.




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If she has a scorp moon i would believe that. But as a scorp moon id never leave my partner wondering if i really liked them.
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for these past few weeks i watch your videos posted on facebook and picture's over and over again because i feel like you're a special human being,
lmao @ this load of bullshit.




If she has a scorp moon i would believe that. But as a scorp moon id never leave my partner wondering if i really liked them.
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Yeah, I never had to guess whether a Scorpio Moon liked me ever.

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for these past few weeks i watch your videos posted on facebook and picture's over and over again because i feel like you're a special human being,
lmao @ this load of bullshit.




Could be bullshit, could be not, because in reallity many people say me many different things, that i'm somehow weird, different, crazy, or special....prob because the way i do/talk about the things i love and like, it's crazy i could talk about nature/training or something i like a whole day with a huge passion, the same way i could travel and train. Even my coach say's you're different, you seem to become the one with the thing you do, i don't know, it's prob just the way it is, but i wouldn't say i'm special, i always say each of us are special, but only few of us can find a thing that brings so much interest in the thing , i can train a whole day and at night look att the video's of other boxers training, and analyze them, learn from them and adapt something i like into my own unique shit, for some people from the side view that might look boring or crazy, but for me it's such a passion i could talk about it for day's and still be going, i can imagine people get bored sometimes if i start to talk about sports or nature, sometimes they have to stop me, i'm that much into it. Big Grin i believe sometimes some of my friends get pissed because of this, but they know me, they are ussed to it i guess. Big Grin
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Thing is...she's a cardinal sign like you. You guys engage, don't sit back looking at photos of people you like. You just hit them up and engage in any activity. That's why I'm saying it's bullshit. Oh look at her virtuous and innocent soul...she liked you so much she ignored you because she couldn't pry her eyes off pictures of you. Gtfoh with that bullshit.

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Well that's 50% correct, i was feeling that she disrespected me , not because she maybe dated someone other, but because she ignored my calls and texts, i call this disrespect, atleast she could have told me something, but each time nothing, untill the last message, i knew she has seen the messages i send, because when a person reads i message i get message that they have seen it, i would understand if she didn't reply because she didn't see, but from what i can tell she knew, and for me this is disrespecting another person, each of us have something to do in life and are bussy i think, if the was respectful she would say sorry i can't talk right now or sorry i'm not interested or just sorry you're not the one, that would be honesty for me, ignorace for me is disrespect for another person, i felt like the disrespected me by ignoring me, thats all, i don't think any of us would like to be left unknown and left ignored by


Yeah, she should have at least responded in that period of time

I think Aries are normally very direct - at least that is where I thought I got my directness - but if they are immature and/or insecure and/or just not right - who knows ...
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for these past few weeks i watch your videos posted on facebook and picture's over and over again because i feel like you're a special human being,
lmao @ this load of bullshit.




Could be bullshit, could be not, because in reallity many people say me many different things, that i'm somehow weird, different, crazy, or special....prob because the way i do/talk about the things i love and like, it's crazy i could talk about nature/training or something i like a whole day with a huge passion, the same way i could travel and train. Even my coach say's you're different, you seem to become the one with the thing you do, i don't know, it's prob just the way it is, but i wouldn't say i'm special, i always say each of us are special, but only few of us can find a thing that brings so much interest in the thing , i can train a whole day and at night look att the video's of other boxers training, and analyze them, learn from them and adapt something i like into my own unique shit, for some people from the side view that might look boring or crazy, but for me it's such a passion i could talk about it for day's and still be going, i can imagine people get bored sometimes if i start to talk about sports or nature, sometimes they have to stop me, i'm that much into it. Big Grin i believe sometimes some of my friends get pissed because of this, but they know me, they are ussed to it i guess. Big Grin
Thing is...she's a cardinal sign like you. You guys engage, don't sit back looking at photos of people you like. You just hit them up and engage in any activity. That's why I'm saying it's bullshit. Oh look at her virtuous and innocent soul...she liked you so much she ignored you because she couldn't pry her eyes off pictures of you. Gtfoh with that bullshit.

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Truth is, when i was away in UK i've noticed her, and didn't engage before i came back, it was like 1year only liking pic's and commenting on them, no direct mesage, even when i came back, i didn't engage quickly, she looked lovely on pic's but that was it, many girls are beautiful, but i'm cancer, looks aren't everything for me, but she started to post some really good posts i really liked, thats when i thought i want to meet this woman, we share similar interests and have same life style 's so i thought it might turn out good, but nothin, well atleast i tried. smile i'm focusing mostly on my health right now because i have loads of problems, fixing myself up so i can go 100% when i'm ready, going to become pro boxer, so i need to be 100% always. smile
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And yes i think this might be my fault in a way, because i'm always so honest, loyal and respectful to people i always expect the same in return, some people are not able tho. smile to much expactations from others.
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Gemini Moon?
F U too misty... ?
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My ex is an Aries w/Gem moon

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so a gemini... ?LOL oh bless you, all that dann directionless energy lol

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I'm an Aries but for me it seems she's not mature. When I was 20 i was kinda the same a little bit. You sound like an awesome guy, many girls would like to have you I think.There's definitely not many people in this world who have values and virtues, character traits like honesty,loyalty,respect and support are the things today's people lacksmile Goodluck with your health and sports! smile I believe one day you'll meet the woman that you deserve because this girl doesn't deserve you. Best of luck.
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aries are so boring...soooo predictable


after a while you get tired of throwing their asses challenges..
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aries are so boring...soooo predictable


after a while you get tired of throwing their asses challenges..
I'm active person, I never get tired Big Grin But anyways, Aries are not bad, just I've dated the wrong one i guess. Life goes on. I have health to take care of and get ready for tournament. Big Grin Each sign has some trait you can like, if you're looking into bad ones you miss the good one's Big Grin
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Hi guys so those who know me prob know that i've been dating this Aries girl, and in past 2weeks she was just like a ghosts, no calls, no texts, no replies, i even wrote her on facebook she didn't write me back but i see she has seen the mssgs, so today i decided to write her a message :Babe, we're not moving anywhere with this, you were amazing while it lasted, but i can't work like this, with silent treatment, i give complete respect, trust and loyalty and i expect to get the same, 2weeks no message or text was def a clear message from you so i'm not going any further, you're an amazing woman, thank you for the time you gaive me, do your best , be happy and remain possitive, that was it. I deleted her number, facebook and all contacts i had with her, in around 30sec's she replied and starts to say sorry for doing this and so on, so on, says forgive and things like that, but it's 2nd time in a really short period of time that she goes like this, i don't want relationship like this, so i told her sorry it's over, i need to comunicate with people it's important for me, a person can fucking die in a single day, so much shit can happen in 2weeks, without no text no nothing, doesn't seem 2 fair from my side. Anyway she started geting angry said some hurtful things and 30mins later again started texting me, i don't reply, i don't want to deal with this, i've said this once for her, i forgive her, but you apology means nothing if you're going to do the same thing all over again. Now she's texting like she never did, feel like for the first time she really opened up 2 me, because ofc relationship was really good, but now she's talking some romance shit that i never heard before , some past of her life that i've never heard before, i'm wondering is she just manipulating or she's honest. People like these don't look 2 reliable to me, i told her that 1st time she did that and she got angry but later on said she understood and that will happen again. I don't think i should take her back, actions always speak louder than words smile Any advise or any different views on this topic? This relationship isn't lasting for a long time, so i'm thinking what should i do, sometimes i feel like some people only realise what they had only when they lose someone, some only like to play with people. ^^
Youve presented yourself now as a challenge.


Ive seen this b4. Over n Over.


She wants to win you back. She honestly means those things. Shes going to say a whole lot of new shyt and do more romantic things. Then when you do get back together, she will start to feel like she did way too much, gave too much. She will think that you are not reciprocating with the same passion. She will think herself the fool and break up with you for good.

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