Relationship with aries is great, Sex? Not so much
This topic was created in the Aries forum by Cancerleo91 on Monday, July 16, 2018 and has 34 replies.
Hey guys! So relationship with my Aries man has been wonderful! We are compatible in so many ways, EXCEPT sexually!! It was great in the beginning and then when he left town that was rough.. but he's back now and he says I'm too aggressive.. and it's making it hard for him to perform.. HE can't last because I am too into it? IDK.. he says I have to be slow and barely touching him in the beginning and somehow switch to SUPER aggressive toward the end or he just isn't into it?
UHGGG. He smokes and I heard that can affect Libido but.. he lectured me in the middle of a session and now I am just soo now into it. Typical Leo pride.. was hurt.
What should I do?
UHGGG. He smokes and I heard that can affect Libido but.. he lectured me in the middle of a session and now I am just soo now into it. Typical Leo pride.. was hurt.
What should I do?
Hey guys! So relationship with my Aries man has been wonderful! We are compatible in so many ways, EXCEPT sexually!! It was great in the beginning and then when he left town that was rough.. but he's back now and he says I'm too aggressive.. and it's making it hard for him to perform.. HE can't last because I am too into it? IDK.. he says I have to be slow and barely touching him in the beginning and somehow switch to SUPER aggressive toward the end or he just isn't into it?
UHGGG. He smokes and I heard that can affect Libido but.. he lectured me in the middle of a session and now I am just soo now into it. Typical Leo pride.. was hurt.
What should I do?
UHGGG. He smokes and I heard that can affect Libido but.. he lectured me in the middle of a session and now I am just soo now into it. Typical Leo pride.. was hurt.
What should I do?
How is his dick getting soft YOUR FAULT. Buy him some viagra
It'll only get worse
He's got a lot of martian energy right? they can be kinda rapey
run away and try to fight him off. should drive him nuts
run away and try to fight him off. should drive him nuts
Posted by TheWeirdOneNo we don’t hence this post. I like to be submissive in bed.
You are much more feminine even as a Leo, Aries just want to man handle even in the bedroom.. even the females...
Lasting is also not an Aries thing, his pleasure over yours.
Find yourself a Leo, Cancer or Earth sign that will put their pleasure behind yours.
Posted by TheWeirdOneOh please. You’re just repeating some Astro mumbo jumbo you heard about Aries, trying to relate to OP. Move along.Posted by AriquaNone i am male.Posted by TheWeirdOneHow many Aries men have you slept with? 🤔
You are much more feminine even as a Leo, Aries just want to man handle even in the bedroom.. even the females...
Lasting is also not an Aries thing, his pleasure over yours.
Find yourself a Leo, Cancer or Earth sign that will put their pleasure behind yours.
I have Aries friends though and they don't hold back on some of what they do in the bedroom.click to expand
Posted by TheWeirdOneYeah it’s pretty frustrating.
You are much more feminine even as a Leo, Aries just want to man handle even in the bedroom.. even the females...
Lasting is also not an Aries thing, his pleasure over yours.
Find yourself a Leo, Cancer or Earth sign that will put their pleasure behind yours.
Posted by Ariqua
He cums too fast?
No like softens up during and can’t finish
Posted by LadyNeptuneRight? It isn’t my fault don’t get why he acted like I need to fix it..
How is his dick getting soft YOUR FAULT. Buy him some viagra
Posted by ValleysofNeptuneHaha. I wish it was that simple.
Tell him to fuck himself instead and find urself a nice Pisces boi
Posted by Ariqua
Why did all the water sign men come in to hate and attempt to white knight the pretty Leo lady?
Craziness.
Posted by SagicornThank you.. it is him not me.. I’ll remember that.
What you should do is not let your pride get hurt cause it's not your fault. It's his and he's blaming it on you cause it makes him feel better. If sex is not that important to you and feelings are I'd say go on with what you got but with full honesty you better off find another guy who knows what to do and doesn't act that way. And there is plenty of those.
I actually had one "encounter" with an Aries guy that ended pretty much like what you're describing, I never bothered to give it a 2nd try tho. Guy is a great looking but that means nothing over such issues and his attitude...I jut couldn't stand it. I'd suggest Earth signs cause they tend to be good at itothers I don't know so much about so won't say to go or not go for it lol
Anyway, best of luck with that and don't put yourself down cause of his attitude, remember it's not you, it's him.
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Posted by Cancerleo91Ask him the following:
Hey guys! So relationship with my Aries man has been wonderful! We are compatible in so many ways, EXCEPT sexually!! It was great in the beginning and then when he left town that was rough.. but he's back now and he says I'm too aggressive.. and it's making it hard for him to perform.. HE can't last because I am too into it? IDK.. he says I have to be slow and barely touching him in the beginning and somehow switch to SUPER aggressive toward the end or he just isn't into it?
UHGGG. He smokes and I heard that can affect Libido but.. he lectured me in the middle of a session and now I am just soo now into it. Typical Leo pride.. was hurt.
What should I do?
"You fuck her that brief amount of time you were out of town and now you want me to fuck like her!? How you get more used to temporary pussy than in house pussy!? Explain this to me. 'Cause it just don't make no sense!"
Posted by Cancerleo91Maybe he was embarrassed and trying to save face. Is the sex good normally? Or is he selfish in bed.Posted by LadyNeptuneRight? It isn’t my fault don’t get why he acted like I need to fix it..
How is his dick getting soft YOUR FAULT. Buy him some viagraclick to expand
Just because his dick gets soft doesn’t mean the fun has to stop. He has lips, tongue, and fingers right? Put those to work 😏
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Posted by LadyNeptuneThis is what stood out to me. She said "It was great in the beginning and then when he left town..."
Just because his dick gets soft doesn’t mean the fun has to stop. He has lips, tongue, and fingers right? Put those to work 😏
Posted by VenusAquariusYeah but isn’t it always great in the beginning? You think he met someone else when he was out of town...Posted by LadyNeptuneThis is what stood out to me. She said "It was great in the beginning and then when he left town..."
Just because his dick gets soft doesn’t mean the fun has to stop. He has lips, tongue, and fingers right? Put those to work 😏click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunecould be, and this is his way of breaking up ? you are not at fault like he says you are - it's a 2 way street ffs - whatever it is drop stop and run - there are way too many women out there who said the words in the stage you are in "oh, it will get better" ... no, no it won't ...Posted by VenusAquariusYeah but isn’t it always great in the beginning? You think he met someone else when he was out of town...Posted by LadyNeptuneThis is what stood out to me. She said "It was great in the beginning and then when he left town..."
Just because his dick gets soft doesn’t mean the fun has to stop. He has lips, tongue, and fingers right? Put those to work 😏click to expand
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Posted by LadyNeptuneWhat tctaa said..."could be..."Posted by VenusAquariusYeah but isn’t it always great in the beginning? You think he met someone else when he was out of town...Posted by LadyNeptuneThis is what stood out to me. She said "It was great in the beginning and then when he left town..."
Just because his dick gets soft doesn’t mean the fun has to stop. He has lips, tongue, and fingers right? Put those to work 😏click to expand
However for me, sex is better than ever. When I hit thirty was the beginning of the steep incline. Shit took off like a rocket.
I can’t imagine being sexually attracted to an aries, not that they aren’t good looking because they really are but wayyyy too much fire going on between the both of us. Both want to get it on fast and both wants to be in charge. You both need an opposite, sexual compatibility is a make it or break it to me.
Posted by ArkansassyPosted by Cancerleo91Have you tries pulling it out, sucking it, and putting it back in again?Posted by Ariqua
He cums too fast?
No like softens up during and can’t finishclick to expand
Did that.. worked for a bit and then he said I need to not squeeze a certain way and change my hand and go softer and then be more aggressive and by the end of the lecture I stopped and was like “nope I’m done”
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Cancerleo91Maybe he was embarrassed and trying to save face. Is the sex good normally? Or is he selfish in bed.Posted by LadyNeptune
How is his dick getting soft YOUR FAULT. Buy him some viagra
Right? It isn’t my fault don’t get why he acted like I need to fix it..click to expand
Up to the last few weeks it was amazing. Then his sisters husband passed away and they were close so he had to go visit her and was gone for 6 weeks. I visited him part of it and sex was still good but less and I knew it was from him being sad and stressed trying to help his sister cope. And then he came back and it was just not the same. I don’t think he was cheating but I could be wrong you really can never know just trust the person until proven wrong and I haven’t been proven wrong. But darn it I’m sad lol and all of this has made my sex drive dip too so I’m mad about that too.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Just because his dick gets soft doesn’t mean the fun has to stop. He has lips, tongue, and fingers right? Put those to work 😏
Actually I’m pretty grateful to that as he typically will make sure I finish in those ways. But then he doesn’t get to finish. I love kissing him tho, we both can do that for a good while
Posted by VenusAquariusYeah we hit our peak later in life than dudes. Lucky us.Posted by LadyNeptuneWhat tctaa said..."could be..."Posted by VenusAquariusYeah but isn’t it always great in the beginning? You think he met someone else when he was out of town...Posted by LadyNeptuneThis is what stood out to me. She said "It was great in the beginning and then when he left town..."
Just because his dick gets soft doesn’t mean the fun has to stop. He has lips, tongue, and fingers right? Put those to work 😏
However for me, sex is better than ever. When I hit thirty was the beginning of the steep incline. Shit took off like a rocket.click to expand
Let me also add he has 3 kids from different ex, I have 1 son. We somehow blended our families and I get along with his ex well, we hang out separate from him sometimes.. and I get along with my ex even tho he was an abusive asshole when we were married (he was a Libra with Scorpio moon and Scorpio rising), but anyways we have kids with us a lot lately so we don’t find time to be alone. I can have sex anywhere he can’t he has to have the right mood and scene (possibly his Taurus raising?) so that makes it hard. But last night we managed to go to an empty apartment (I work and live at the same apartments so I know which ones are vacant and this one someone left unlocked) so we did the dead there. He came 4 times I came twice so that makes up for this a lot but I know it’s not something that can happen often.. still finding solutions to this lol
Posted by Cancerleo91As long as you get yours.Posted by LadyNeptune
Just because his dick gets soft doesn’t mean the fun has to stop. He has lips, tongue, and fingers right? Put those to work 😏
Actually I’m pretty grateful to that as he typically will make sure I finish in those ways. But then he doesn’t get to finish. I love kissing him tho, we both can do that for a good whileclick to expand
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Posted by LadyNeptuneMy husband is riding the incline with me. At forty-four... no pain, I can bounce and dance on that thang.Posted by VenusAquariusYeah we hit our peak later in life than dudes. Lucky us.Posted by LadyNeptuneWhat tctaa said..."could be..."Posted by VenusAquariusYeah but isn’t it always great in the beginning? You think he met someone else when he was out of town...Posted by LadyNeptuneThis is what stood out to me. She said "It was great in the beginning and then when he left town..."
Just because his dick gets soft doesn’t mean the fun has to stop. He has lips, tongue, and fingers right? Put those to work 😏
However for me, sex is better than ever. When I hit thirty was the beginning of the steep incline. Shit took off like a rocket.click to expand
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by LadyNeptuneMy husband is riding the incline with me. At forty-four... no pain, I can bounce and dance on that thang.Posted by VenusAquariusYeah we hit our peak later in life than dudes. Lucky us.Posted by LadyNeptuneWhat tctaa said..."could be..."Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by LadyNeptuneThis is what stood out to me. She said "It was great in the beginning and then when he left town..."
Just because his dick gets soft doesn’t mean the fun has to stop. He has lips, tongue, and fingers right? Put those to work 😏
Yeah but isn’t it always great in the beginning? You think he met someone else when he was out of town...
However for me, sex is better than ever. When I hit thirty was the beginning of the steep incline. Shit took off like a rocket.click to expand
Holy crap! I would not have thought you were in your 40s!! How?! What is this sorcery!
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Posted by Cancerleo91LOL! Thank you!Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by LadyNeptuneMy husband is riding the incline with me. At forty-four... no pain, I can bounce and dance on that thang.Posted by VenusAquariusYeah we hit our peak later in life than dudes. Lucky us.Posted by LadyNeptuneWhat tctaa said..."could be..."Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by LadyNeptuneThis is what stood out to me. She said "It was great in the beginning and then when he left town..."
Just because his dick gets soft doesn’t mean the fun has to stop. He has lips, tongue, and fingers right? Put those to work 😏
Yeah but isn’t it always great in the beginning? You think he met someone else when he was out of town...
However for me, sex is better than ever. When I hit thirty was the beginning of the steep incline. Shit took off like a rocket.
Holy crap! I would not have thought you were in your 40s!! How?! What is this sorcery!click to expand
I've heard that Aries are one pump chumps.
Ugh .....mine is hot as hell..but also super crazy man...also remember they know everything...
Posted by CaramelprincessThe smoking thing can be a passion killer
Don’t let him blame you for HIS issues.
Posted by MyStarsShineThat makes sense and he smoke a lotPosted by CaramelprincessThe smoking thing can be a passion killer
Don’t let him blame you for HIS issues.click to expand
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