Sag and Aries Reunited? Opinions wanted : )!

I am a Sag male and she is an Aries female. It was the best relationship. It lasted 7 months, with a few fights here and there, traveling, laughter, wonderful communication, and the works. Well, it ended terribly. We were in a bit of a fight??_ something about my past came up, not a girl, and she went through my email. I told her I could not forgive her...and the breakup session was drawn out for a couple of weeks, back and forth. Well it appeared that we were getting back together; things were going great when BAM...she leaves me for another guy, a Scorpio. I was devastated. First heartbreak. After months and months of self reflection and thinking about her (took about 9 months) I started seeing other people. I could go on and on...but I??ll spare you 🙂.

Then the unthinkable happened. A year later, exactly to the day of no contact, she messages me on facebook. I was suspicious. So after the initial "Hello", I grill her, letting all my emotions out. She took it well.

These are the highlights since then:

-She texts me about 2 weeks later??_meaning she still had my number after she said she deleted it??_a year prior. I responded in short. I also get wind, at this time from friends, that she is about to break up with her Scorpio bf...the guy she left me for. I left all contact to be from her first.
-Through the grape vine i hear she breaks up with her ex. Emotions simmer down, and over the next couple of weeks we stay in contact, about 5ish messages are sent??_I allow her to start all of the engagement.
-After a month and a half of contact we meet and catch-up??_it went well. She proposed that she wants to be friends.
*We do not text and have had zero phone contact since then. I regard that as a more personal form of contact and have been using facebook.
*I never brought up our relationship, nor did i inquire about any of hers. She was the one who brought up her breakup of the Scorpio.
-I still love her and she knows how I feel...I have no idea how to get her back. I was once friends with an Aries and developed feelings for her...they were not mutual, and I do not want to repeat that. So I am trying to sidestep her offer to be friends.
-We keep in contact...message one day a week...last week she initiated it, this week it was me. She wanted to go out for drinks sometime and at that time I had declined...saying to become her friend would take a great effort on my part.
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Yesterday I asked her out for drinks and she said she —didn't think she will have time??, but would like to during the following week. At first I went with it and told her to let me know, but then I cancelled, told her something came up at work??_remembering Aries like to chase. Also, remembering that when we used to not have time during work and school, we made time for each other, regardless of the hours. Although she is starting a new job and finals are coming up. I need her to chase me??_so am I approaching this all wrong? Should I still go out to have a drink with her then play hard to get? Or just wait and see what happens? I need a strategy??_

Hahaha! that had me rolling. I wont say that though. I already wrote her a letter earlier on about me loving her still. I then used paint ( the little drawing/painting program every computer has) and drew a diagram explaining one sentence in particular from the letter "Most of them would gravitate towards you being at the pinnacle of aesthetic admiration"...it was funny and loving I think...and she really liked the picture of her and the arrows and diagram lol.

I originally dared her to play me in her favorite strategy game that we used to play all the time ( I am the only one to have ever beaten her at it). She accepted of course. That way I could spend more time with her. But she is really pushing this "friends" term. I dont want to just be her friend...I want her back.

I am probably stressing myself out too much. So maybe not drinks but something else creative huh? I could do that...

Aw thanks : )

Out of all of my relationships, it was the best. Probably because she was my first love. During our trip out of the country we used her iphone to access emails and facebook. My login information was in there. She went through 4 years of email..I was 22, which brought that to 18 when they happened and assumed the worst. I had old pictures from years ago...should I have had them? probably not but I never ever referred to them. She confessed what she did during our breakup.

Thank you though. That is what I needed to hear and get out of this little fantasy. Hopefully now I can fully move on.

maybe he would feel reassured by her chasing him after leaving him for the scorpio.. I know I would want to know that they truly do want me this time.. Not to brag or feel important by her chasing him.. maybe?

oh well I would not play games and make it seem like you are busy or cancel plans etc.. but I would let her take the initiative, since she left you and she's an aries..

The harder it is the more interested she will be.. there was post somewhere here that made some sense..

Here-- I copy and pasted :p

"You want to know how to get to an Aries?
Aries people want you loyalty by their side .. and then pay little attention until they think you're straying ..
Have you ever noticed that they don't look at you or start a conversation with you .. until you ignore them and go to another person to get advice or to admire .. suddenly, they are turning on the charm to get you again, then tuck you away without giving undivided attention.
suddenly, you'll have your Aries girl crawling up your butt to regain her position as number one in your life"

update?

Thanks for cluing me in.. Now I feel welcomed 🙂