Sex with Aries female

This topic was created in the Aries forum by Taino on Wednesday, April 9, 2014 and has 37 replies.
I was told my by gf that the sex has not been good I was shocked since we been seeing each other for the last 30 days almost every day and said the love word. First time a woman told me that. She wants to slow down. I was just following her lead. She said she will call me. I don't know what to do. We're over 50.
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What's your sign?
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Leo
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Another Leo/Aries combo lol!
Leo men are known to be quite selfish in bed; maybe you just need to communicate a bit more about what you both want?
However if she said she will call you like; "look, I'll call you" as in don't call me I'll call you type of thing then I think it could be curtains for you both :/
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there is an abundance of Leo/m Aries f/stories flying around dxp in the last three weeks. What gives?
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The last text was I told her to call me
When she wants to.
She texted back okay sweetie.
That was this morning.
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Posted by Taino
The last text was I told her to call me
When she wants to.
She texted back okay sweetie.
That was this morning.


oh thats not bad. its still the same day. Are you selfish in bed? She may love you and not your sex....what is the sex hitting for?
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Probably what do you mean about the sex?
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As an aries I can say I am always very mean about sex. If someone isn't doing it right I will tell them and I am very tactless about t. But it doesn't mean that I don't like them so you know if she is anything like me she will persist. Just be confident.
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lol a Leo shocked he's not good in the sack for her.
What a shocker. I heard that these guys can be killer in the sack, but they're so self absorbed, it ends up being no fun for the lady in some instances.
I've been spoiled by guys who got off more on the idea of getting me off. I don't think I could tolerate someone who made sex all about them and their needs. That'd get boring and old real fast.

Posted by bkbella86
there is an abundance of Leo/m Aries f/stories flying around dxp in the last three weeks. What gives?



Right? I've noticed this too. And it makes me lol because I've had a potential Leo interest flit into my life recently, too.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
lol a Leo shocked he's not good in the sack for her.
What a shocker. I heard that these guys can be killer in the sack, but they're so self absorbed, it ends up being no fun for the lady in some instances.
I've been spoiled by guys who got off more on the idea of getting me off. I don't think I could tolerate someone who made sex all about them and their needs. That'd get boring and old real fast.

Posted by bkbella86
there is an abundance of Leo/m Aries f/stories flying around dxp in the last three weeks. What gives?



Right? I've noticed this too. And it makes me lol because I've had a potential Leo interest flit into my life recently, too.
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Yeah they don't take the criticism well lol
Wtf is going on with Leo/Aries atm.. Lmao
Rocky you know how to treat this Leo interest of yours... Distain lol he will love it if that's what u want Big Grin
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
lol a Leo shocked he's not good in the sack for her.
What a shocker. I heard that these guys can be killer in the sack, but they're so self absorbed, it ends up being no fun for the lady in some instances.
I've been spoiled by guys who got off more on the idea of getting me off. I don't think I could tolerate someone who made sex all about them and their needs. That'd get boring and old real fast.

Posted by bkbella86
there is an abundance of Leo/m Aries f/stories flying around dxp in the last three weeks. What gives?



Right? I've noticed this too. And it makes me lol because I've had a potential Leo interest flit into my life recently, too.
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I dating one at the moment too lol
My first Leo....what an experience thus far.
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Posted by AriesGirl74
Posted by rockyroadicecream
lol a Leo shocked he's not good in the sack for her.
What a shocker. I heard that these guys can be killer in the sack, but they're so self absorbed, it ends up being no fun for the lady in some instances.
I've been spoiled by guys who got off more on the idea of getting me off. I don't think I could tolerate someone who made sex all about them and their needs. That'd get boring and old real fast.

Posted by bkbella86
there is an abundance of Leo/m Aries f/stories flying around dxp in the last three weeks. What gives?



Right? I've noticed this too. And it makes me lol because I've had a potential Leo interest flit into my life recently, too.


Yeah they don't take the criticism well lol
Wtf is going on with Leo/Aries atm.. Lmao
Rocky you know how to treat this Leo interest of yours... Distain lol he will love it if that's what u want Big Grin
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Why disdain?
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Posted by Taino
Probably what do you mean about the sex?


Do you make sure she gets off?!?
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Thank you everyone for your comments I appreciate it
I need to communicate and make sure her needs are meant first
I hope she calls me
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Posted by arietteheart2

My personal experience with Leo is that they are wayyyy overeager...which Aries is kind of eager too but it's so much more pleasurable when you take your time and kiss and touch each other. Rub each other over your clothes. Run your nails over their body. Try to produce different sensations...etc Instead of just whipping it out and sticking it in. I don't know about older women's sexual arousal but I believe their sex drive goes down? At least that's what I've heard a few older women say. So then it's EXTRA important to put in that extra effort.
Yes yes yes this is my exact experience with my Leo. It must be a Leo thing. I had to tell my Leo straight up "you have to tease me baby" . he listened and each time it gets better. He wants to please me and that turns me on. I'm smitten.


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@arriette
Yes yes yes this is my exact experience with my Leo. It must be a Leo thing. I had to tell my Leo straight up "you have to tease me baby" . he listened and each time it gets better. He wants to please me and that turns me on. I'm smitten.
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We'll she called. It's over. It's wired
Last night I text her good night sweet dreams she responded good night sweetie? I guess in the beginning when we agreed to be gf bf that our love can fix any bumps that come up was just words to her. Did't even give me a chance?
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Sorry to hear this Taino. I guess it wasn't compatible off her Sad
Sometimes men and women throw around the words sweetie/hun/babe when it doesn't really mean anything romantically.
Just chalk it up to experience and keep the communication lines open in the bedroom. Even asking them what they like might be a start
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Let another Aries / Leo issue begin!!! LOL
At least now we're dealing with a sex issues instead of typical Leo's appearing/disappearing act.
If a woman says that sex isn't good then it means that it is NOT GOOD!!! Dear Leo male: what did you NOT do to make her complain?
You've been together for only 1 month and already said "love yous"?
Is your precious Leo's ego took a little beating that you were told that you're not that good in sex?smile Boo hooo??_Ask her playfully what works for hersmile
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She said its over because we are not a good match. The first 2 weeks a met her dad mom brothers the whole family she was making plans for Easter like we were together a long time I thought it was going to fast I just went with her lead why would someone say they love you and meet there whole family and dump you 30 days later?
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Posted by Taino
She said its over because we are not a good match. The first 2 weeks a met her dad mom brothers the whole family she was making plans for Easter like we were together a long time I thought it was going to fast I just went with her lead why would someone say they love you and meet there whole family and dump you 30 days later?



Imho it was moving way too fast. 30 days isn't enough time to figure anything out even if you're older. Burned out too quickly. Usually, people who move too fast end things just as quickly. It's a rarity when relationships like that work out but it happens.
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Posted by ariesgirl402
Posted by Taino



Usually, people who move too fast end things just as quickly.

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+1 although I do think BOTH of these signs here can be guilty of this ..
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She now says she we need a time out. We are talking about the sex
She feels it's my problem and how I can fix it. I told her but I can't do it alone she thinks sex should be natural?
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Posted by Taino
She now says she we need a time out. We are talking about the sex
She feels it's my problem and how I can fix it. I told her but I can't do it alone she thinks sex should be natural?


Try to take it a bit slower if you are giving each other a second chance. Don't jump straight back in the sack coz she will be barking orders at you like you're in the military lol.
Don't let her walk over you either. We need a guy to stand up to us. Don't be scared about that, be confident and don't let her lead the show all the time like she appears to be.
Keep talking and keep your cool smile
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Thanks ariesgirl74 for being to the point I'm kind of a pleaser I put my ladies on a pedestal I hope it is going to work out
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Posted by Taino
Thanks ariesgirl74 for being to the point I'm kind of a pleaser I put my ladies on a pedestal I hope it is going to work out


No problem - we can get a little carried away if we are on that pedesatal and take advantage; be strong coz we like strong men. Dont let her set the pace but keep talking through things - being the pleaser is about pleasing the recipient. I think its a good sign she is giving you both a second chance.
Good luck and keep us posted!!
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Well it's really over
I saw that she removed her from my Facebook
I called and left a msg that you could of told me. She didn't call back
I texted her quit playing games and give into to me straight she did it's over since you won't give me time
Don't call or text me
I think she was trying string me along
Until someone better comes along?
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Taino; you're getting pissy over a Facebook thing???? Calm the hell down!
I don't understand your post.. Did she actually text back???
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Yes she said its over
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Ok... Well sometimes we do open our mouth and engage before our brain so she might even come back. But ultimately it's not fair what she's doing so ice her out and do not respond if she contacts.
Sorry she's done this Sad
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She sounds like a bitch.
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What is a Cookie Monster?
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A bee-atch
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Posted by AriesGirl74
Posted by ariesgirl402
Posted by Taino



Usually, people who move too fast end things just as quickly.



+1 although I do think BOTH of these signs here can be guilty of this ..
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+2 He should have been slowing it down a bit, but he allowed himself just to move as quickly.
Not surprised by the Facebook move, either.
With individuals who rush in all crazy as shit in dating, are going to do something equally as crazy to end it. They're just emotionally retarded and have no place dating. Count your blessings that it ended only a month in and not further down the road when you'd actually invested more time and emotion.
It's annoying, but do your best to move on. She doesn't deserve any more of your time.
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Thanks for the comments and advice
I think I will take a break dating and do some meditation
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