Share Experience - Aries Woman and Aquarius Man

This topic was created in the Aries and Aquarius Compatibility forum by aries4268 on Thursday, August 7, 2008 and has 8 replies.
Could anyone please share their experience with sleeping with an Aquarius man on the 1st date? Did the relationship develop or fall? I met this Aquarius man and slept with him on the 1st date. THis was 4 days ago. He is still around and seems to like me. He just asked me to quit my second job; which I am not. After sleeping with him, the following day he asked me to a Ranger's game..I couldn't make it; yesterday he asked me out to dinner; I couldn't make it because I had to work my part time job. Do you see any potential for a relationship even though I gave up the "cookies" too early?
I am not surprised there were sparks like this for you and your Aqua. Consider yourself a little special because they usually like to be friends first. You're off to a good start, now read the other posts about what to do when they start to distance themselves and act aloof, only because they are so intellectual and love their freedom. Stay ahead of the game on this one. You're in for a very challenging, lovely, and unique ride.
''Consider yourself a little special because they usually like to be friends first.''
Astrologically, sparks will fly with Aries and Aqua pairing but fizzles out quickly. The friends first thing doesn't always hold with Aqua - there's no set formula for any relationship.
i slept with an aqua on the first date too and we dated a pretty long time. people say aqua is the only sign more spontaneous and unpredictable than aries and i really believe this. i dont think all is lost. you'll be fine
I think spontaneous and unpredictable with Aries is done without much forethought.
Aqua is not that spontaneous - a LOT of thought goes into their actions - they are also consciously unpredictably. Especially when they know you have expectations of the norm.
Aries hates to be led and Aqua wants to think about it first before doing anything - both signs hate boredom so will inject some excitement eitherway...
Every sign is capable of sleeping with someone on the first date.
So I was thinking out loud...
- What happened to just observing people you're in a relationship with and getting to know them as they are from them and working out your problems together?
- Do you think knowing about basic sign characteristices gives you a relationship trump card? Are you being critical about astrology or taking it as gospel?
- Is giving up the said 'cookie' that much of a big deal these days? At the end of the day, if we want to define this stuff, should anyone be having sex before marriage? Who is to judge or who makes these rules?
- Are we as women bending over backwards so much for so little in return?
- Are we no longer able to make critical judgements about our own lives and need strangers for validation and approval? Where does objectivity end an subjectivity begins? Do you want to base your life on other people's experiences?
- Do you want to run to dxp everytime you get in a problem? Exactly how long is this relationship going to last for? smile
This is all kinda too serious and sad methinks Sad
zen you thought too hard on this one smile hopefully nobody takes astrology as gospel...but it sometimes just feels good to be able to classify things in life that you have no control over. it sounds all well and good to observe people and rationally talk about problems but if it were that easy there wouldnt be so many crazy people running around. people in general are fascinating, and what drives them is even more fascinating. the only way to learn is through experience and other people so it seems only natural to depend on others...it also just feels good sometimes
I hear ya ewe smile