So this Aries guy

This topic was created in the Aries forum by xxixxi on Tuesday, July 23, 2013 and has 14 replies.
He's quite aggressive lol well, I'm the aggressive one most of the time & in most of my past relationships lol and I am not quite used to being pushed here - I thought that was my job. Being a bit pushy and dominating when it comes to dating.
I've a few Aries guy friends and yes, all of them are very enthusiastic and aggressive, but oh well, now I've been speaking to this guy - quite overwhelming.
So we are going to try a very scary ghost house at a theme park. And then my plan is to ride roller coasters till we puke...Laughing
Conversations are quite good - no silent moments. I am not really the type who enjoys or appreciates silence between my date and myself, so that's a plus. But I've noticed that he exhibited jealousy... over my other dates. I told him that I was speaking to/seeing some other from the beginning and he's free to do the same, too (till something turns up.) Although it seems he can be quite possessive... a trait I'm not really fond of. I think I may need to meet him a few times more and get to know him better.
So are aries men possessive in general when it comes to dating?
And do you aries guys think going to a theme park with a ghost mansion is a good and fun idea for a first date? Would you be pleased if you are offered it? (I proposed the ghost house because I have been wanting to check it out for a while lol)
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Most of the Aries guys I met were douchebags but they were still good friends. It just might be in their nature (no offense). But I do like the fact they have determination.
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Well, this Aries guy did come on too strong a few times, but then I said 'NO. Cut it out.' lol
I'm a contradiction - whilst I am not really fond of wishy washy type of men, if a guy tries to control me, then hell no, I say 'you stand back, back off.' Then he still dares lol charging forward like an angry ram lol I kind of get where it's coming from, because I'm aries rising myself.
I've also noticed that he has a bit of a macho streak (which is a big no to me) -and of course, this doesn't mean that every aries guys are machos or possibly so smile I'm not making a connection being an aries male being a macho here! I've male aries friends and they're good and fun to be around Big Grin-, but then I talked out it with him... still will watch out for that just to make things safe and sure.
After all, if we don't turn out compatible, then at least, I may have a passionate friend lol
So... is theme park thing a good idea? My question hasn't been answered?? lol
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Ah, thank you!
Hahaha even if he's not for it, I'm determined to go to the theme park anyway lol... kidding.
Good to hear that you and your guy had a good time at the theme park. Theme parks are great lol
Yes, playful... I've no problem with that.
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Jump him... LOL!
Not so fast lol I just want to have a day full of fun and excitement.
And if this date thing goes well, then I'm thinking about go skydiving or tandem flying - this aries guy seems to be interested in those sorts of activities... so even if we don't become a couple, then some activity partner lol smile
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I would say that Aries are more protective of their love ones than being possessive?
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I'm gemini but on gemini-cancer cusp.
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I haven't detected any of that 'it's all about me!' yet with this aries guy. Actually it has been more like me being 'it's about me!!' and dominant lol... but I haven't got to know him enough yet, so like tiziani said I'll take my time to learn about him more.
Thank you to you all who left replies smile
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So I happened to stay over at my guy friend's last night. There was his girlfriend, too, and we are just friends, we meet quite regularly all together with other people. Last night, this Aries guy texted me what was up and I texted back 'I'm at my friend's now, and going to sleep over at his. Hope you have a good evening and speak tomorrow!' Then I went back to my friends, we had a few drinks and all fell asleep. The next morning (i.e., this morning), when I woke up, I saw a text came in from him, it said: Did you have a party with your friends, or just the two of you? To which, I responded: I was with my friend and his girlfriend lol she read fortunes for me which I decided not to buy at all cause it was so depressing lol
I appreciate his straight-forward approach, but this seems a bit much. I am not still calling off the date, but I'm not so sure here.
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Lol he's funny though, and a good listener & conversationalist. I did tell him to stop a few times, though, when he seemed to go overboard lol He listens to me, my heeds well, which is pretty good.
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Are you Gemini? Now all makes sense. Loves to play hard to get, the same goes on with Leo girls.
If it gets too hard, I'll spend my energy at another more-rewarding place Winking
"I need love, not games" (Iggy Pop - "Candy")
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To Starlover: Yeah I mean idiots.
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I don't play hard to get. I'm very clear about what I'm on about and for, especially what I want - and if a guy is not up for it, then I have my answer. No need to play games, I know how it works, just refuse to play it and I'm also aware some people enjoy it, but it's just not for me.
If someone thinks that I'm playing hard to get, then it actually means that I'm not interested in them. I don't make things unnecessarily complicated, as things are already so in many other departments, life is hard, so I don't need to add more even that being a romance aspect. There are others things I can do and invest my time and energy instead of playing mind games, head games, or hard to get.
Guys who play games turn me off, actually lol I say just good bye to them quick, as I know there are and should be other women who want to participate in their games - and nothing wrong with it, it's their business and their style - again, just not my thing.
So I appreciate direct approach, clear communication - which this Aries guy has been prividing me with so far. We haven't met yet (but will soon, in about two weeks) but so far it's good.
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So there was another guy who I have been speaking to and meaning to hang out, but then I saw him trying to play games with me - for example, he texts me one day, I reply then he texts back a few more then I reply. Then he goes off like for three days or so with no response, but then after a few days turned up again and texting me... so the last time it happened, I asked him about the theme park & the ghost mansion (as I wrote in my original post, I have been wanting to check it out for a while and I thought I could go check it out with either of this guy or the Aries guy - and both of them knew I was speaking to other guys and open to possibilities as it wasn't like we were dating or something), then he went off again, while the Aries guy was happy to go with me there, so I made a date plan with the Aries. And just four days later, this another guy texted me what I was on about the ghost house, saying that he could go and check it out, too - to which I replied 'sorry, you're late, I already made an appointment to go there with someone else.'
And since then, this another guy has been texting me more frequent and without any delay, but well, I'm going to the theme park with the Aries, not him. He had his chance, but decided against himself to lose it. More than that, his playing games turned me off completely, so I don't think there will be another time of me offering him another chance.
I acknowledge for some playing hard to get sparks their curiosity or inspires desire for the other person, but, no, not for me. It's a major turn off for me.
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