stull shy or just lost interest

i find my self feeling weird around cancer woman, i never know what they are thinking, looks like this guy is the same way , he probably is waiting for you to give him some kind of a sign of a go ahead make your move, but if you are being aloof and sheltered he is confused of what you think of him and what you expect, for crying out loud just give the guy some kind of a sign so he feels comfortable with the situation or just forget it.
we want passion and we want it now, when we are forced to play it slow and careful its just not our thing and we behave awkward

He did sound nice, but maybe she was waiting for a bit more too. And hey, maybe there are some Arians that do want to take it slower, nothing wrong with that. Patience has its own rewards, for those willing to wait.

"well I finally spoke to aries last week, but never apologize for what happened before."



I'm really unclear why you put this sentence seperated from the rest of the paragraph. Is this some kind of hidden motivation of what you expected the two of you to be talking about during these few minutes of talking? The paragraph only goes on to describe action of walking, talking and location ... but, no real subject.

Expressing aloofness, and asking whether he might be losing interest when nothing out of the ordinary happened to suggest a lost of interest, or a reason for being aloof is present in the paragraph.

So, was all this based around an expectation of an apology for something?

"So, was all this based around an expectation of an apology for something?"

no I was just letting the board know that i chose not to do so because I felt and still feel that i did nothing wrong and if I had apologize it would have been only to make good with him, and i never apologize when I am right. so this was me telling you guys what I ended up doing. And I know it did not factor in the walk.

my point as to the walk if i kliked someone and I had the opportunity to stay around the person longer i would, as neither of us were in the spot we usually went to, and i purposly stayed in the middle area so we were not too far from our usual spot.

Crabby .. I had no clue what you were talking about, so went back and read up .. is this the situation in which you were referencing in regards to an apology?

"at that moment I felt bad, because it was not his fault just that his friend could have stayed in her own spot instead of wasting space and obstructing my ability to work.

so now, I was thinking should I apologize to aries for my attitude? what are my odds with him after this if any.

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You had said that you got advice not to apologize because you were in the right, and again in this thread, you mentioned that you were in the right, and so therefore don't feel a need to apologize ....

Yet, this apology is so powerful within you still .. that you keep mentioning it.

I have a question for you regarding this situation: How is a person responsibile for another persons action?

You had said that you were crabby at HIM because of something a girl did to interfere with your space, so I'm unclear how this Aries man has an obligation in being responsibile for the girl.

If this whole apology thing is based around this ... then, yes, you probably do owe him apology for your attitude towards him because it was the woman who ticked you off, and you even said so ..

"I felt bad, because it was not his fault"


From my perspective .. you already know this to be the truth, for even at the very beginning of this thread, which was a month later after the episode in which you got an attitude with him, when you recognize that it's not his fault ..... again, you mention the word "apology" .. this means it's so close to home that you are fretting over it. So, if this would have such a focus in your mind ... then you know you were wrong for what you did.


This man, nor any other person is responsible for anybody except themselves .... period.