OceanDeep
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The best revenge
Posted by OceanDeep
is no revenge at all.
Make them wonder. That
is and will be the key in
getting and keeping them.
Never to be had, but always
elusive keeps the curious in
the chase.
You are so right. Negative attention is still attention & when you pay no attention, it bothers people.
Posted by OceanDeep
is no revenge at all.
Make them wonder. That
is and will be the key in
getting and keeping them.
Never to be had, but always
elusive keeps the curious in
the chase.
Yes, 100% right. People begin to get so frustrated and crazed when they believe someone has just stopped giving a care.
The best revenge against an Aries is to bore us to death. lol.
lol...yep
Lesseee
Before revenge, there will need to be a "grudge."
A very good proverb is "To hold a grudge is to take the poison yourself and expect the other person to die."
To stoop to "revenge" is just that, to stoop. If someone does something to you that is so low that "revenge" would seem to be needed, it is the other person that is the slimy ball, not you. Their behavior defines who they are. There will be any number of people who will find their behavior acceptable, and perhaps even applaud that behavior.
Next proverb is "Know me by my enemies!"
Our "friends" can be a rather curious mix of people who we really like, and for some reason are required to tolerate. Those who despise us, and whom we despise, is much more clear.
Let's be clear though, there is a difference between "revenge" and "Justice." To allow clearly unjust behavior to go unchallenged is a very un-Aries like trait. The difference being that revenge tends to be back alley, underhanded, and cowardly. Justice requires standing up and demanding a "Wrong" be made "Right" in a very public manner. Justice does not sneak around and hide in the bushes waiting to ambush, Justice walks up to you in the full light of day and demands explanation and Reckoning!!!
Before revenge, there will need to be a "grudge."
A very good proverb is "To hold a grudge is to take the poison yourself and expect the other person to die."
To stoop to "revenge" is just that, to stoop. If someone does something to you that is so low that "revenge" would seem to be needed, it is the other person that is the slimy ball, not you. Their behavior defines who they are. There will be any number of people who will find their behavior acceptable, and perhaps even applaud that behavior.
Next proverb is "Know me by my enemies!"
Our "friends" can be a rather curious mix of people who we really like, and for some reason are required to tolerate. Those who despise us, and whom we despise, is much more clear.
Let's be clear though, there is a difference between "revenge" and "Justice." To allow clearly unjust behavior to go unchallenged is a very un-Aries like trait. The difference being that revenge tends to be back alley, underhanded, and cowardly. Justice requires standing up and demanding a "Wrong" be made "Right" in a very public manner. Justice does not sneak around and hide in the bushes waiting to ambush, Justice walks up to you in the full light of day and demands explanation and Reckoning!!!
Posted by dofacc
To allow clearly unjust behavior to go unchallenged is a very un-Aries like trait.
The difference being that revenge tends to be back alley, underhanded, and cowardly. Justice requires standing up and demanding a "Wrong" be made "Right" in a very public manner.
Justice does not sneak around and hide in the bushes waiting to ambush, Justice walks up to you in the full light of day and demands explanation and Reckoning
Posted by firewaterearthpiscesvenus
The best revenge against an Aries is to bore us to death. lol.
The best revenge against an Aries is to punish us but never tell us how we wronged you or what we did to deserve to deserve the punishment.
Posted by OceanDeep
is no revenge at all.
Make them wonder. That
is and will be the key in
getting and keeping them.
Never to be had, but always
elusive keeps the curious in
the chase.
I'm with you on this one! 🙂 🙂 🙂
Why would you want to "get and keep" someone who warrants a revengeful action even though you decide to punish by not seeking the revenge?
Those of you who get it, get it. Those of you who don't, seek thoughts outside of the 'literal'. There is no sweet revenge. The point is that to get and keep an Aries is you always keep them guessing, be aloof, and elusive. Stay the fuck busy, and don't give up anything always and forever...don't give up your girlfriends, work, hobbies, sports, etc.
When they think they 'have' you, or 'get you' and "grow bored" that so many cry/ask/wonder/why THAT is the answer. So all these women plotting how to get back at them, how to get them, and make it so damn complicated? The answer is right in front of you. And has been, and will be. Aries men are smart. But simple.
I'm laughing literally ... there is no revenge. Too many people need to get the pole outta their asses, and loosen up. Cheeeez. I'm so tempted to say "duh" but I won't let my sarcasm come into this thread.
When they think they 'have' you, or 'get you' and "grow bored" that so many cry/ask/wonder/why THAT is the answer. So all these women plotting how to get back at them, how to get them, and make it so damn complicated? The answer is right in front of you. And has been, and will be. Aries men are smart. But simple.
I'm laughing literally ... there is no revenge. Too many people need to get the pole outta their asses, and loosen up. Cheeeez. I'm so tempted to say "duh" but I won't let my sarcasm come into this thread.
Thats true...good you got that.. aries are actually not used to all this... they are very straight forward, simple and direct...
Posted by OceanDeep
is no revenge at all.
Make them wonder. That
is and will be the key in
getting and keeping them.
Never to be had, but always
elusive keeps the curious in
the chase.
Yup. +100
Posted by firewaterearthpiscesvenus
The best revenge against an Aries is to bore us to death. lol.
Lol. Gems too I think.
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Make them wonder. That
is and will be the key in
getting and keeping them.
Never to be had, but always
elusive keeps the curious in
the chase.