The Pisces Boy

This topic was created in the Aries forum by MysticFire on Saturday, February 10, 2007 and has 5 replies.
Damnit! I get so upset with myself sometimes. I get so wrapped up in my fantasies, I forget that he's treating me like shit.
He called earlier this morning and asked if I wanted to go to a concert with him tonight. He mentioned nothing about why I haven't heard from him for the past week. . .or talked to him for the past month, really.
Then when I called him back later, he basically said he's going anyway. I have to work at 7 am tomorrow...but then I changed my mind about an hour ago and he won't respond.
So.
I guess I'm just too good natured to be spiteful? I want to see the good in everyone. I KNOW he's got abandonnment issues. And I know there's alot he isn't telling me. And for some reason, my logic is that if I hang around long enough to show him I mean well, maybe he'll open up to me.
How stupid is that?
Someone, please knock some sense into me.
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*whack*
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Thanks solitas. He's the first guy I've ever opened up to. Even just a tiny bit. Usually my charm and quick-wit confuses people. But. Doesn't work on him. I don't understand it, at all. One day he called and waited patiently until I was free. Then he said, "Well, I just wanted to tuck you into bed tonight." WTF?! It's like he wants only a taste of what it could be. And I, in turn, become afraid of any alterior motives he may have. He doesn't want to talk all serious and figure things out. Which pisses me off and results in saying, "I don't know if we should be friends, anymore."
Man, oh man.
At the 6 month mark, I'm giving him the 'ol heave, ho.
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Hang in there....its a rocky ride but he seems to be worth or else you would have been gone along time ago. Give it some time smilethey just dont know exactly what they want the way we do....we see something we want and we charge at it...they dont, they tend to take there time and fantasize about it for awhile...ha! Then they aproach it with great caution...it sounds silly but I know you get me. Think about it like this if it were easy you wouldnt be the least bit interested. Be there for him but surround yourself with friends and hobbies and he will come around in time, thats if he is interested. I dont understand my guy either but i try to stay patient and hope that every day is a good one or else he is going to take 10 steps back...lol! ITS SO HARD BUT WORTH IT WHEN HES IN MY ARMS. ERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR! RELATIONSHIPS ARE SOOOO HARD!
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He invited you to a concert...you may have taken too long to respond but regardless he knows he's going to enjoy the concert.(art and music IS life) You said no and then changed your mind and he was just passive on your return call.(it may have been too late in his book....take it lightly)
""Then he said, "Well, I just wanted to tuck you into bed tonight." WTF?! ""
He's being subtle and showing you he's not just trying to just "get some" It's his way of being sweet. All we want you to say is, "awww babe" and then rock our world!
""He doesn't want to talk all serious and figure things out. Which pisses me off and results in saying, "I don't know if we should be friends, anymore.""
Who says that him or you?
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