things we hate about ourselves

This topic was created in the Aries forum by jennaT on Friday, July 28, 2006 and has 7 replies.
i hate my impatience and the fact that i am constantly rushing around. why do i rush so damn much? why is that necessary?
i also hate getting mad so damn easily. but like any good little aries, i am soon over it...like within seconds..lol
Hi jennaT - I think when Aries are young they are impatient. We want everything NOW by golly! As we evolve, we do gain patience and realise - everything in good time no need to hurry, no need to control - we allow for the flow of life to carry us and life becomes simple and fun.
Why is it necessary? because it is a part of growth - these experiences teach us understanding - what works, and what does not. If we don't like something, we have the ability to make a change. Adversity, challenges, and bumps in the road, are often the first signs that a great healing has begun.
Yeah boyeeeeeeee - we don't hold grudges, we say what we need to say and then like the smoke from a cigarette - it is gone! Winking
I'm with ya JennaT... my worst inner battle is my lack of patience.. i have NONE. And please don't put me in traffic... or have some one waiting on me, and they are talking on the phone about some personal BS or some shit like that.
My other one is I'm a complete procrastinator. I try sooo hard.. some times i win.. some times i don't. I will find excuses.. that seem valid at the time.. or not.. and not do what i'm supposed to do. Now that i'm older i have a LITTLE better handle on it. And being around people that get 'it done' help me and give me inspiration, and I'll just get on things. I do take care of things that HAVE to be done..lol but let there be no pressure.. LOL no bill.. or something.. lol you can bet on me it's done at the last minute.
Yup, patience, patience, patience. I wish I had more patience...but it's so difficult. Makes me want to scream!!! I gotta tell my self all the time "OK, take a deep breath, count backwords beginning with 100...if that doesn't work start with 1000". PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE, yes it is.
wooooooo saaaaaaa
girl!!
like EVERYTHING you just said is COMPLETELY me!!!!!
were we separated at birth?
I HATE THAT I AM SO DEDICATED TO MY DAUGHTER AND WANT HER TO BE HAPPY AND FULLY ROUNDED THAT I REFUSE TO CHASE AFTER THE POSSIBILITY OF HAVING TRUE LOVE WITH MY SAG EX..BEING AFRAID OF WHAT PEOPLE WILL HAVE TO SAY ABOUT ME IF I DO...
THATS WHAT BEING AN ARIES PARENT DOES TO YOU ..