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Aug 02, 2014Comments: 177 · Posts: 2392 · Topics: 92
Would you get a birthday gift for a female friend you've known for 15+ years, but you never got her any gifts before?
and would you ask her out and not mean anything outside friendship?
You're married, she's single.
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Nov 10, 2010Comments: 285 · Posts: 30788 · Topics: 649
So you want to know whether or not you should step in the big pile of shit in front of you or nah?
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Aug 02, 2014Comments: 177 · Posts: 2392 · Topics: 92
Feeling too naive now, our friendship was more like brotherly one, so I never thought of anything bad. Only after I agreed to it, I thought something seems odd, why now he brought me a gift and why now does he want to meet up (he's living abroad and asked me to meet up when he's back for a visit) Thinking of being in his wife's place, I won't feel any good about it.
I won't go, I'll probably be out of the country by that time anyway so will let him know that.
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Jan 19, 2013Comments: 1552 · Posts: 9503 · Topics: 11
Do not judge anyone unless they have done something wrong.
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Apr 10, 2023Comments: 1087 · Posts: 1562 · Topics: 24
He's on holiday and wants to sleep with you
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Aug 02, 2014Comments: 177 · Posts: 2392 · Topics: 92
wow that escalated so quickly .. we were just going for coffee. But yeh without any laws, I wouldn't want to be a reason for anyone's distress. When in doubt about someone's intentions, I just would avoid them altogether.
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Jan 27, 2012Comments: 4343 · Posts: 13269 · Topics: 69
My husband would not do that. He's the farming, naturist type, "simple kinda man" with a dose of chauvinism. Chauvinism where he told me he doesn't want jobs working with women and has never had a female friend. It would be completely out of character. I buy all "his gifts" to others. So, if he did this (much less got on a plane, lol), it would be over. I have never dealt with any infidelity and it's been damned near 30 years. Yes, I would be certain and it would be over.
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Oct 11, 2017Comments: 3 · Posts: 3193 · Topics: 7
My Aries male friend is always giving me gifts and discounts. I never think anything of it except he's generous and considers me a good friend. I buy him gifts as well, but not as many as he buys me.
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Apr 26, 2013Comments: 4917 · Posts: 19264 · Topics: 148
maybe he wanted to ask for advice about something