Too aries for my own good!!!!!!

I deep down dislike myself right now. I can see how pathetic I am. My stubborness and my "need" to win has backfired on me. I have lost ALL respect from the only one that I really admired. I was too persistent. I wanted that person to want me so much and it backfired now I am sure this person thinks I am crazy. My "drive" and my need to overcome disgusts me. Now I must lay in my bed. The most "precious prize" that I would do anything to have, was taken away by my own ignorance.Sounds overly confident but I cannot actually recall a time when I didn't actually get what I wanted. Not this time. Am humbled.

Hello--arian friend....

I know "exactly" how you feel...been there and made my share of mistakes with love. Us aries are not great with patience and in the long run--lose what we are after. I have now learned to be less hasty in actions, and it is best to give love unconditionally. I am in love with a wonderful sag man and at times I feel as if I may get too emotional and passionate with words...and am hoping to not seem too intimidating for him.
Try not to be so hard on yourself....I know how deeply losses of love can hurt--but you must go forward as I have done so often with hopes of love that will be right--and lasting...!!

Best wishes.....and luck!!!

Dearest Aries Friend,

Congratulations on your experience! You are LIVING on planet earth. You are enrolled in the school of life. Be so thankful for what you are going through as this is the ONLY way that you will learn and discover about yourself (you KNOW aries are all about discovery and exploring). What you went through is a gift that was given to you. We cannot grow if we do not encounter lifes teachings. As long as you are alive, you will be very fortunate to have more of them come your way. Try to see what you have learned in your situation, what you will not do again, what you need to change to make yourself happy. Remember, sometimes the things we do NOT get are best gifts of all. We may not see it yet but it will be and the best is yet to come! As an Aries, you are strong, and this will not keep you down for long...you will see the strength within you emerge so that every obsticle that comes your way will get easier and easier because you will have looked at them as learning opportunities to become the BEST you.

I sure have experienced what you have in that situation as I'm sure many humans have. This is a good thing. Can you really imagine a person living on this planet who has not experienced this stuff? If so, then they are not truly living, they are existing. Us Rams do NOT exist, we grow, we learn, we overcome, we perservere...we LIVE life to the fullest. Embrace who you are and relish that you are alive to experience what life gives you...I know you can do it! 🙂

An Aries Friend.....

WOW I believe that is that most profound and best advice I have ever heard. My god how GREAT ARE YOU........THE BEST! thank you!

I am speechless (Sag-male)
I second that advice man!

My (Sag) bro is so grateful for your advice, he says yours makes the most sense and because I have been "DRIVING HIM CRAZY" with my pathetic-ness. One day at a time.

Thank you for your kind words...I'm glad that my experiences have helped. Sometimes they were yucky to go through but, I am still here on the planet and still have lots more to learn. However, you are correct, one day at a time. This is ALL that we have...actually, we only have one moment at a time and then it is gone forever, becomes a memory for us to cherish later in life. Hope you are having a great day!

Just read your message regarding losing the one person you admired...I'm curious...what sign was the person you lost? Please reply. I am going through a similar situation, am separated, but still have hope if I can tone down fast enough to not lose him for good....

HI ARIES GIRL,

YEAH I WILL SECOND THAT THOUGHT... ARIES
PEOPLE CAN BE A LITTLE OVERBEARING WHEN
IT COMES TO THE HEART... DONT GET ME WRONG I'AM A FULL BLOWN ARIES GAL MYSELF
SO DONT THINK I DONT UNDERSTAND YOUR FEELINGS... BUT NOW AS I LOOK BACK ON MY LIFE AND PAST RELATIONSHIPS, I'M GLAD
I'VE CHANGED MY PATTERN OF THINKING.. TO BE LESS POSSESSIVE AND PUSHY AND SOMEWHAT SELFISH TOO... ALL WE WANT IS LOVE...ALOT OF IT ...BUT IF WE PUT ENOUGH EFFORT INTO BEING SELFLESS THAN
SELFISH WE WILL GET ALOT MORE BACK...TRUST ME ...

"To survive love, we must become love"

I was astounded at one thing you wrote: "I wanted that person to want me so much..." I know EXACTLY what you mean. I am definately that way with my boyfriend. I live for when I know I am driving him crazy, that is what makes things fun! But then it gets in the way the minute he doesn't show me enougn atttention...I get grumpy and moody. I'm glad I am not the only one feeling this way! Would like to know if others do this too—