VIRGO falling for younger ARIES
This topic was created in the Aries forum by augustbaby on Tuesday, May 7, 2013 and has 5 replies.
Hello.
I'm a 24 y/o Virgo (Aug. 30) falling for a 21 y/o Aries guy (April 13).
About 6 months ago, this young Aries and I started really communicating. We've gone out for dinner four times now, but it's an on and off thing.
On our first dinner together, I tried to keep it casual. I wasn't nervous or anything even though I felt insecure. He's younger, good-looking (he's a model), and could get any girl he wants. I was relaxed and confident the entire time while he looked shy and surprisingly couldn't even hold eye contact. He texted me daily after that even though I wasn't that responsive at first. We went out the second time, and it was going great. But there are moments when he just grows distant and disappears. And when he does that I usually just let him be and do the same. I never chase. I ignore him, he keeps coming back.
He appeared again and we've been talking for over 4 weeks now and had gone out twice. This time, I thought that maybe I should give it a try and lower my Virgo defences a little. He's nothing but sweet to me ever since. Except I don't know what to expect. He's so charming. I'm scared that when I'm finally starting to fall, he'll disappear again. :-/ Isn't that an Aries thing?
Also, can you take a look at our charts? Thanks!
His chart:
Sun Aries 23.29
Moon Leo 29.53
Mercury Pisces 29.23
Venus Aries 7.14
Mars Pisces 12.28
Jupiter Virgo 5.06 R
Saturn Aquarius 16.51
Uranus Capricorn 17.59
Neptune Capricorn 18.57
Pluto Scorpio 22.21 R
Lilith Aquarius 9.16
Asc node Capricorn
Mine:
Sun Virgo 7.12 ----- Ascendant Aquarius 21.42
Moon Aries 18.14 ----- II Pisces 25.19
Mercury Virgo 29.19 ----- III Aries 28.16
Venus Cancer 21.37 ----- IV Taurus 28.06
Mars Aries 11.23 R ----- V Gemini 25.19
Jupiter Gemini 5.06 ----- VI Cancer 22.19
Saturn Sagittarius 25.56 ----- VII Leo 21.42
Uranus Sagittarius 27.03 R ----- VIII Virgo 25.19
Neptune Capricorn 7.32 R ----- IX Libra 28.16
Pluto Scorpio 10.15 ----- Midheaven Scorpio 28.06
Lilith Virgo 12.01 ----- XI Sagittarius 25.19
Asc node Pisces 14.02 ----- XII Capricorn 22.19
I'm a 24 y/o Virgo (Aug. 30) falling for a 21 y/o Aries guy (April 13).
About 6 months ago, this young Aries and I started really communicating. We've gone out for dinner four times now, but it's an on and off thing.
On our first dinner together, I tried to keep it casual. I wasn't nervous or anything even though I felt insecure. He's younger, good-looking (he's a model), and could get any girl he wants. I was relaxed and confident the entire time while he looked shy and surprisingly couldn't even hold eye contact. He texted me daily after that even though I wasn't that responsive at first. We went out the second time, and it was going great. But there are moments when he just grows distant and disappears. And when he does that I usually just let him be and do the same. I never chase. I ignore him, he keeps coming back.
He appeared again and we've been talking for over 4 weeks now and had gone out twice. This time, I thought that maybe I should give it a try and lower my Virgo defences a little. He's nothing but sweet to me ever since. Except I don't know what to expect. He's so charming. I'm scared that when I'm finally starting to fall, he'll disappear again. :-/ Isn't that an Aries thing?
Also, can you take a look at our charts? Thanks!
His chart:
Sun Aries 23.29
Moon Leo 29.53
Mercury Pisces 29.23
Venus Aries 7.14
Mars Pisces 12.28
Jupiter Virgo 5.06 R
Saturn Aquarius 16.51
Uranus Capricorn 17.59
Neptune Capricorn 18.57
Pluto Scorpio 22.21 R
Lilith Aquarius 9.16
Asc node Capricorn
Mine:
Sun Virgo 7.12 ----- Ascendant Aquarius 21.42
Moon Aries 18.14 ----- II Pisces 25.19
Mercury Virgo 29.19 ----- III Aries 28.16
Venus Cancer 21.37 ----- IV Taurus 28.06
Mars Aries 11.23 R ----- V Gemini 25.19
Jupiter Gemini 5.06 ----- VI Cancer 22.19
Saturn Sagittarius 25.56 ----- VII Leo 21.42
Uranus Sagittarius 27.03 R ----- VIII Virgo 25.19
Neptune Capricorn 7.32 R ----- IX Libra 28.16
Pluto Scorpio 10.15 ----- Midheaven Scorpio 28.06
Lilith Virgo 12.01 ----- XI Sagittarius 25.19
Asc node Pisces 14.02 ----- XII Capricorn 22.19
There are so many experts on here I think someone be along soon to give you a detailed breakdown.
But, so far I think it looks pretty positive =) Aries men are attractive people and I think get along well with Virgos to a point...
It's early days yet by the sounds of it too, so I think you keep doin' what you're doin' and try and enjoy yourself...
Aries have a real bubbly side to 'em Virgos can find refreshing, when it's not annoying lol...
But, so far I think it looks pretty positive =) Aries men are attractive people and I think get along well with Virgos to a point...
It's early days yet by the sounds of it too, so I think you keep doin' what you're doin' and try and enjoy yourself...
Aries have a real bubbly side to 'em Virgos can find refreshing, when it's not annoying lol...
@ wagtail - Thank you for leaving a reply. Yes, he's very attractive. It surprises me sometimes how we get along despite being total opposites of each other--he's popular with everyone while I keep my circle of friends small. We even like different things. Another thing I noticed is that he's VERY spontaneous while I like to PLAN everything. OMG, it's hard to keep up. lol
Posted by sugaries
I'm kind of a newbie but your synastry looks pretty good. Just keep doing whatever you're doing. His mercury is in Pisces (like me) sometimes we are really sh*t at communicating. We get stuck in our head a lot. If you can bring us out, we will talk your head off. His mars is pretty passive...I don't know how venus aries works coupled with a passive mars.
Would you do your synastry chart together? I'm curious of your aspects. I can't really read them from the degrees and such.
@sugaries -- Hi! thanks for commenting. I'm also a newbie and don't know much about astrology yet. :/
I'm not sure but did you mean this? It seems our planet placements have some negative/challenging aspects.
08/30/1988------Aspect------04/13/1992 Orb/Value
Sun ------Conjunction------Jupiter 2.15 177
Mercury ------Opposition----Mercury 0.01 106
Venus ------Square------Sun 2.08 -206
Venus ------Opposition------Uranus 3.46 -42
Venus ------Opposition------Neptune 2.47 -48
Venus ------Trine------ Pluto 0.36 63
Mars ------Conjunction------Venus 3.39 113
Jupiter ------Square------Jupiter 0.01 -133
Saturn ------Trine------Sun 2.04 89
Uranus ------Trine------Sun 3.11 64
Uranus ------Square------Mercury 2.28 -86
Neptune ------Square------Venus 0.12 -119
Neptune ------Trine------Jupiter 2.27 44
Pluto ------Trine------Mars 2.31 44
700 -634 66
-206 Square Sun - Venus
Negative aspect: The two persons are drawn towards each other, but the union is unstable, because there will inevitably be division, probably through misunderstanding on the sexual level, which may frustrate the partner.
177 Conjunction Sun - Jupiter
Positive aspect: Here is a couple you like to be with. They are charming, agreeable and know how to entertain their friends generously and warmly. They go well together, and love each other in a discrete and sincere way, and appreciate the joys of life together.
-119 Square Venus - Neptune
Challenging aspect: The attraction is certainly there, but the relationship can lose its innocence quite easily. Venus misunderstands the other and may end up feeling as if they were the only one who really was in love. Neptune might
I would suggest you keep your defenses up until you know for a fact that he has fallen first. Aries men love a chase, as all men do, however they take it to a whole other level. If you are not a challenge or a mystery they can loose interest very fast and search for someone more intriguing and interesting. Don't let him know your every move. All he needs to know is you like him enough to spend time with him. No mushy talk, no picking up or dropping everything every time he calls. None of that. Cat and mouse until he cant stand to be without you with him as the cat of course 
. That's just my opinion.
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