We Aries people make people angry wherever we go?

This topic was created in the Aries forum by FeelingShred on Sunday, June 15, 2014 and has 38 replies.
Hello, fellow Aries suns and Aries moons.
Do you also get the feeling that people always get mad at you everywhere you go for no reason? Like at work. Most of the time I'm chilling but even that seems to annoy some people and they always come to confront me in front of the group, saying that I "am wrong" or "must change".
I withdraw from fights because I believe these types of people craves for attention, and ignoring them makes them feel so angry it's funny.
Or is it my bad luck? LOL Cheers from Brasil.
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The expectation for me is that whenever I walk into a room of people there are going to be some, maybe a lot, of those people who will instantly dislike me. I find it real interesting how many people never have to speak to me, hear my voice, get to know me in any way, but hate me anyway. I have never figured this one out.
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Posted by anjiepants
Posted by FeelingShred
Hello, fellow Aries suns and Aries moons.
Do you also get the feeling that people always get mad at you everywhere you go for no reason? Like at work.
Or is it my bad luck? LOL Cheers from Brasil.

I know what you mean. I am a reserved aries, but I have a very blunt way of approaching things. People take that as aggressive, and that's okay, that's who I am. I also think because I'm a female and I have a masculine energy about me (in terms of how I interact with ppl), I make some eyebrows raise. btw aren't you a taurus?Tongue
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I've said this a thousand times about Aries, but I'll say it again...I have no problem with bluntness coming from an Aries or any other sign. I respect anyone who can be direct with no foulness, but what I do take issue with is being blunt and rude for no reason. What you see as the "oh well, that's just who I am" is not how you come off to other people, and that's no excuse for being rude or nasty. I am a blunt and direct person myself, and I don't kiss anyone's azz or try to sugar coat my words, but I still try to be tactful with my words when I am addressing anyone because I treat people like I want to be treated.
Almost every Aries I know including the several in my family have always carried that motto "I am who I am", but when the script is flipped and you say something blunt and direct to them that they deemed rude, then all of sudden the want to feel some kinda way and get the "you hurt my feelings" syndrome.
As long as you can take in what you dish out, then I say do you.
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Posted by dofacc
The expectation for me is that whenever I walk into a room of people there are going to be some, maybe a lot, of those people who will instantly dislike me. I find it real interesting how many people never have to speak to me, hear my voice, get to know me in any way, but hate me anyway. I have never figured this one out.


You probably have an heir of arrogance about you that you are not aware of...that's kinda of an Aries trait.
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Posted by LIb4Life
Posted by dofacc
The expectation for me is that whenever I walk into a room of people there are going to be some, maybe a lot, of those people who will instantly dislike me. I find it real interesting how many people never have to speak to me, hear my voice, get to know me in any way, but hate me anyway. I have never figured this one out.


You probably have an heir of arrogance about you that you are not aware of...that's kinda of an Aries trait.
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Hmmm, an "interesting" observation. May I inquire as to what you base this comment on? I would argue that you have made my point perfectly. You really don't have much of anything to base your comment on, but you made it anyway. Why?
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Nope, not me. Everyone just loves me Big Grin
But I think it's because of my Libra moon. I can be very charming when I want to be... so people have told me smile
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You guys certainly know how to make my Mars in Aries angry. lol
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it helps to think twice before u speak
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Posted by anjiepants
Posted by FeelingShred
Hello, fellow Aries suns and Aries moons.
Do you also get the feeling that people always get mad at you everywhere you go for no reason? Like at work.
Or is it my bad luck? LOL Cheers from Brasil.

I know what you mean. I am a reserved aries, but I have a very blunt way of approaching things. People take that as aggressive, and that's okay, that's who I am. I also think because I'm a female and I have a masculine energy about me (in terms of how I interact with ppl), I make some eyebrows raise. btw aren't you a taurus?Tongue
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Yes me too; I like to think of it as being direct - but yeah not rude! Like if I need something asking at work, I don't tend to go in with pleasantries like "Heyyyyy, how are youuuuuu, hows thinggggggs; anyway can I ask..." such a waste of time. I just approach people and come straight out with my request, although I do squeeze in a "hi" lol. I usually have to explain myself more with women than men but I seem to get a better response from men; maybe because of this masculine energy you too describe.
Funny though, when most guys see me coming at work the first thing they say is "oh no!" coz they know I'm gonna ask for something from them which means more work for them. But they secretly love the attention Big Grin
I tend to get a "vibe" from some women that they don't like me, but hey who cares?
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Posted by LIb4Life
Posted by dofacc
The expectation for me is that whenever I walk into a room of people there are going to be some, maybe a lot, of those people who will instantly dislike me. I find it real interesting how many people never have to speak to me, hear my voice, get to know me in any way, but hate me anyway. I have never figured this one out.


You probably have an heir of arrogance about you that you are not aware of...that's kinda of an Aries trait.



Hmmm, an "interesting" observation. May I inquire as to what you base this comment on? I would argue that you have made my point perfectly. You really don't have much of anything to base your comment on, but you made it anyway. Why?
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Relatives and close friends EXPERIENCE
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i'm a scorpi and my friends are aries they piss me off all the time..
they are assholes who say things that hurt and think everyone around them are liars....
and as a scorpio if you dont trust me get out of my way...scorpios dont lie
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Posted by lololala
i'm a scorpi and my friends are aries they piss me off all the time..
they are assholes who say things that hurt and think everyone around them are liars....
and as a scorpio if you dont trust me get out of my way...scorpios dont lie


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Posted by aqulibini
Ii can't stand their impulsive "jumping to conclusions" ... not having the patience to even try to listen to someone's point.. or when they are trying to explain what you misinterpreted due to your arbitrary inferences !



LMAO..you sound just my husband on that alone..He has says that all the time especially when I "try to explain what he misunderstood", he hates that, but it's not to make him feel like his instinct or natural conclusion is just wrong, but bc we communicate differently sometimes, I wanna make sure he doesn't get the wrong impression or idea of what I'm trying to say, it just seems to happen a lot lol..
But to respond to what the OP said, when it comes to randoms, I don't really have people just be angry w/ me or dislike me right off the bat. At first greeting, I seem to get along w/ people....unless my reputation preceeds me
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Yes me too; I like to think of it as being direct - but yeah not rude! Like if I need something asking at work, I don't tend to go in with pleasantries like "Heyyyyy, how are youuuuuu, hows thinggggggs; anyway can I ask..." such a waste of time. I just approach people and come straight out with my request, although I do squeeze in a "hi" lol. I usually have to explain myself more with women than men but I seem to get a better response from men; maybe because of this masculine energy you too describe.
Funny though, when most guys see me coming at work the first thing they say is "oh no!" coz they know I'm gonna ask for something from them which means more work for them. But they secretly love the attention Big Grin
I tend to get a "vibe" from some women that they don't like me, but hey who cares?


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Exactly...and that's the attitude of MOST young Arian's..It's not until you've burned every bridge that you crossed when you then realize it wasn't so cool to have diarrhea of the mouth OR when someone DRASTICALLY flips the script and dishes you out a dose of your own medicine, which is usually the latter.
I am a direct person as well, but I don't usually walk up to anyone with a demanding tone, which I've encountered numerous times with SOME Aries folks...such as: Hey I need that or Hey I want that, and in case you are not aware, that's how your definition of "DIRECT" comes across to SOME people. If you can't address me properly, then you would get the blank stare look, which means you need to vacate my space, re-think your approach and try it again.
BUT It's cool though because for some, tact and wisdom comes with age. okay.."direct"
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The above response was from the post by @Ariesgirl74 from the UK
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Posted by aqulibini
I have fun with aries.... For the first few hours... and then ...



You nailed it! Exactly the way I was trying to say.
Everywhere I go, first meetings are usually great, feels like heaven, instant friends... A few days later everything changes suddenly, like people don't saying "good morning" anymore at the office, or you get that feel they are avoiding your presence, not interested in what you have to say, judging by the facial expressions and closed answers. Totally opposed to first day.
I was thinking "Well, maybe I was not that interesting as I thought I was". But then, why the first meeting was so great?
Over time I am noticing that I must avoid telling things that people didn't ask. Maybe the urge to express itself is the problem? But then, how could 2 people engage in conversations if both of them are "avoiding initiating things"?
Damn humans, so complicated.
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Edit: Or is it my Taurus brain that "don't handle changes so well". LOL
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I don't piss people off at first meeting. I find out after the fact, by persons I interact with, that they were intimidated in some way. I can't shake detachment. Even when intimate, I am detached. One day my children were examining my eyes at dinner. They were describing my eyes, my detachment, as though I were far away in the back of my own eyes.
I was.
I know it.
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Posted by LIb4Life
The above response was from the post by @Ariesgirl74 from the UK


Yep... hearing you loud and clear.
Maybe this is the exact reason why I have no Libra friends...
Mmmm...bothered??
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Posted by Denver34
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I don't piss people off at first meeting. I find out after the fact, by persons I interact with, that they were intimidated in some way. I can't shake detachment. Even when intimate, I am detached. One day my children were examining my eyes at dinner. They were describing my eyes, my detachment, as though I were far away in the back of my own eyes.
I was.
I know it.


Are you a Scorpio rising?
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I am a Capricorn ascendant. Capricorn is on the cusp of my 12th house as well... what is know as the 12th house ascendant.
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Posted by LIb4Life
Posted by dofacc
The expectation for me is that whenever I walk into a room of people there are going to be some, maybe a lot, of those people who will instantly dislike me. I find it real interesting how many people never have to speak to me, hear my voice, get to know me in any way, but hate me anyway. I have never figured this one out.


You probably have an heir of arrogance about you that you are not aware of...that's kinda of an Aries trait.
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Aries will always seem arrogant to a Libra; just as Libras always seem falsely self-effacing and deceptive to an Aries. It's just the way it is with opposing signs.
You may want to look into the common placements these Aries in your life share. As you can see here, on this thread, we all share a theme, but variations on that theme.
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VenusAquarius, yeah I am sort of detached also, and my Asc is Cap too.
Someone said about imagining competitions that are only in our heads, maybe that's the case too. Aries is said to take everything personally. I have extreme difficulty to perceive sarcasm also, I'm too literal.
Another "theme" I noticed in my life is that I always manage to achieve the impossible things, but too often I fail to do the easiest ones. It's this constant up-down curve, "success, fail, success, fail".
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Posted by dofacc
The expectation for me is that whenever I walk into a room of people there are going to be some, maybe a lot, of those people who will instantly dislike me. I find it real interesting how many people never have to speak to me, hear my voice, get to know me in any way, but hate me anyway. I have never figured this one out.


I know EXACTLY what you mean. I'm a Pisces Sun Aries Moon and get evil stares and glares wherever I go. I get along fine with men, but girls ughh that's an entire different story and it sucks because people automatically assume that if you don't get along with girls its a character flaw with yourself. I've just learned to role with it because sometimes there are cases where its really a case of the individual having a personal problem, not you.
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I should also mention that I have a Leo Ascendant so I really have no clue what's up but perhaps it is the Aries moon...although I'm not susceptible to violent outburst nor do I hold petty grudges but if anything my guess would be the aries moon is the issue over my Leo rising and Pisces sun.
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Posted by LIb4Life
Posted by dofacc
The expectation for me is that whenever I walk into a room of people there are going to be some, maybe a lot, of those people who will instantly dislike me. I find it real interesting how many people never have to speak to me, hear my voice, get to know me in any way, but hate me anyway. I have never figured this one out.


You probably have an heir of arrogance about you that you are not aware of...that's kinda of an Aries trait.


Aries will always seem arrogant to a Libra; just as Libras always seem falsely self-effacing and deceptive to an Aries. It's just the way it is with opposing signs.
You may want to look into the common placements these Aries in your life share. As you can see here, on this thread, we all share a theme, but variations on that theme.
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And you're probably right, but if anyone is falsely-self effacing, it's the Aries.
You maybe direct on the surface, but behind that so called tough exterior, is a whiny azz little toddler, that when in private, cries and throws temper tantrums like a little biatch!
And you're also right about the similarities in direct opposition with the two signs.
Most Aries may see Libran's as fake because their not used to genuine kindness since they initially come off as being just the opposite, and again, I have no issues with anyone being direct, but I do take issue with rudeness.
Besides, I can appreciate almost every other trait in Aries because of our other similarities, but being rude will never sit well with any Libra, so as long as we agree to disagree, it is what it is, and Aries will continue doing Aries and Libra will continue doing Libra's.
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VenusAquarius, yeah I am sort of detached also, and my Asc is Cap too.
Someone said about imagining competitions that are only in our heads, maybe that's the case too. Aries is said to take everything personally. I have extreme difficulty to perceive sarcasm also, I'm too literal.
Another "theme" I noticed in my life is that I always manage to achieve the impossible things, but too often I fail to do the easiest ones. It's this constant up-down curve, "success, fail, success, fail".


Here's where we diverge. People having been putting the handle "Ms." on my name since I was born. I cringe every time but, understand. I do not imagine competition... there is no such thing in my head or otherwise. If anything, the competition is within - Aries Motto: "I am."
Question: "We Aries people make people angry wherever we go?"
Answer: Fear/Anger - Behind anger often lies fear. It's a protective mechanism for most people to disguise this "weakness."
???People fear what they don't understand and hate what they can't conquer.?? ?? Andrew Smith.
So, when people "...always get mad at you everywhere you go for no reason," consider the relationship of fear and anger. With an Aries Moon, the first thought is to self. However, in this case, it would serve you better to analyze the other person - is this person afraid of me. Why? If you are detached, nothing is personal. You always look outside of yourself.
As far as "...I fail to do the easiest ones. It's this constant up-down curve, "success, fail, success, fail..." Aries Moons and Suns have to learn how to control, concentrate, and sharpen our energy.
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And you're probably right, but if anyone is falsely-self effacing, it's the Aries.
You maybe direct on the surface, but behind that so called tough exterior, is a whiny azz little toddler, that when in private, cries and throws temper tantrums like a little biatch!
And you're also right about the similarities in direct opposition with the two signs.
Most Aries may see Libran's as fake because their not used to genuine kindness since they initially come off as being just the opposite, and again, I have no issues with anyone being direct, but I do take issue with rudeness.
Besides, I can appreciate almost every other trait in Aries because of our other similarities, but being rude will never sit well with any Libra, so as long as we agree to disagree, it is what it is, and Aries will continue doing Aries and Libra will continue doing Libra's.


Falsely self-effacing and direct on the surface? Think about it.
Falsely self-effacing and have a tough exterior?
If you really gave thought and contemplation to this opposition, you would begin to understand the Aries-Libra axis in an evolutionary way.
Just look at the tone of your post for example.
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Posted by VenusAquarius
Posted by Denver34
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I don't piss people off at first meeting. I find out after the fact, by persons I interact with, that they were intimidated in some way. I can't shake detachment. Even when intimate, I am detached. One day my children were examining my eyes at dinner. They were describing my eyes, my detachment, as though I were far away in the back of my own eyes.
I was.
I know it.


Are you a Scorpio rising?


I am a Capricorn ascendant. Capricorn is on the cusp of my 12th house as well... what is know as the 12th house ascendant.


Well that'll explain the detachment...lol smile
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Capricorn Rising childhood: #killers4babysitters
"More often than not, Capricorn rising individuals are success stories. Their childhoods may have been difficult, but they slowly but surely turn their lives around. Saturn rules this Ascendant, and this generally means a kind of backwards way of living--as children, they are serious and bear a lot of responsibility; and as they grow up, they age beautifully, learning how to loosen up."
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Posted by AriesGirl74
Posted by LIb4Life
The above response was from the post by @Ariesgirl74 from the UK


Yep... hearing you loud and clear.
Maybe this is the exact reason why I have no Libra friends...
Mmmm...bothered??
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Nope..not at all..Aries friendship/association is not that serious to me...
I only interact with the few that I HAVE to come in contact with because their family and close friends..BUT you know you LOVE us Libran's and everything about us..You secretly wish you were a Libra....don't yasmile
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Posted by LIb4Life

And you're probably right, but if anyone is falsely-self effacing, it's the Aries.
You maybe direct on the surface, but behind that so called tough exterior, is a whiny azz little toddler, that when in private, cries and throws temper tantrums like a little biatch!
And you're also right about the similarities in direct opposition with the two signs.
Most Aries may see Libran's as fake because their not used to genuine kindness since they initially come off as being just the opposite, and again, I have no issues with anyone being direct, but I do take issue with rudeness.
Besides, I can appreciate almost every other trait in Aries because of our other similarities, but being rude will never sit well with any Libra, so as long as we agree to disagree, it is what it is, and Aries will continue doing Aries and Libra will continue doing Libra's.


Falsely self-effacing and direct on the surface? Think about it.
Falsely self-effacing and have a tough exterior?
If you really gave thought and contemplation to this opposition, you would begin to understand the Aries-Libra axis in an evolutionary way.
Just look at the tone of your post for example.
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AGREED + 1000
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Leo Sun/Aries Moon...yeah I can wreck havoc....that is why I "try" to keep my mouth shut or I get in trouble.
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Posted by LIb4Life
BUT you know you LOVE us Libran's and everything about us..You secretly wish you were a Libra....don't yasmile



LOL Yeah, I love libra people. They have all the social skills I wish I could have, but they lack a real important one: hability to make quick decisions.
The more I learn about astrology, based on real life examples, the more I see that opposites actually results in good relationships, because they think alike and they complement each other.
But neighbour signs relationship usually are hell on earth, they are so different.
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Posted by LIb4Life
BUT you know you LOVE us Libran's and everything about us..You secretly wish you were a Libra....don't yasmile



LOL Yeah, I love libra people. They have all the social skills I wish I could have, but they lack a real important one: hability to make quick decisions.
The more I learn about astrology, based on real life examples, the more I see that opposites actually results in good relationships, because they think alike and they complement each other.
But neighbour signs relationship usually are hell on earth, they are so different.
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Now, that is so true...That is the one thing I do LOVE about an Aries....even though their decisions maybe hasty and rash at times, they do it anyway, and unbelievably, most of the time it's the right decision..don't know how, but it is. I also think Aries have very little regret when they do make hasty decisions because their outlook on life is this: IF AT FIRST YOU DON'T SUCCEED, BRUSH YOURSELF OFF AND TRY AGAIN, and that's what I love!!
Libra's on the other hand, does just the opposite and sometimes we can wait a little too long to make a decision. Thing is..it still works out..don't know how..it just does.
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BUT you know you LOVE us Libran's and everything about us..You secretly wish you were a Libra....don't yasmile



LOL Yeah, I love libra people. They have all the social skills I wish I could have, but they lack a real important one: hability to make quick decisions.
The more I learn about astrology, based on real life examples, the more I see that opposites actually results in good relationships, because they think alike and they complement each other.
But neighbour signs relationship usually are hell on earth, they are so different.


Now, that is so true...That is the one thing I do LOVE about an Aries....even though their decisions maybe hasty and rash at times, they do it anyway, and unbelievably, most of the time it's the right decision..don't know how, but it is. I also think Aries have very little regret when they do make hasty decisions because their outlook on life is this: IF AT FIRST YOU DON'T SUCCEED, BRUSH YOURSELF OFF AND TRY AGAIN, and that's what I love!!
Libra's on the other hand, does just the opposite and sometimes we can wait a little too long to make a decision. Thing is..it still works out..don't know how..it just does.
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you all are attracted to your opposites, or those with strong mars energy. You all can't help yourself.
it's as if you need help making decisions. and the aries need help slowing down.
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Posted by LeRoman
Im an Aries with a Pisces Moon as well.

I'm either very loved or hated. Their is no real middle ground with me but I don't make it my business to get involved with anyone outside of my immediate life. My work colleges and school mates are just that....work and school. I socialize and talk and we laugh about things but I don't make it personal with these people however they tell me everything.
I always get along with people I work or go to school with. I'm their to do a job and its about performance. The only person I really had an issue with at work no longer works there. She was let go because she couldn't manage her schedule. Ive only been there a few weeks and I was given her responsibilities the first week. So she had reason to dislike me I guess.


I know that I do make people angry on here and chat but I don't do it intentionally. I'm just a wee Aries lol, I mean no harm. I just like to keep it real.

In my daily life I dont come across many people who dislike me. On the rare occasion a total stranger will attempt to try and be rude to me but I'm very quick with the quips.

I think Aries just have this zone around them that alerts others...were very aware and are not meek mice. So some people see that as something to challenge. Reality is Aries don't really care to be in conflict, we just wanna be boss. So just bow down already.

maybe it's cause you're an aries/taurus cusper.
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People relax in my presence instantly, despite my Aries Moon. They relax and they laugh a lot.
Unless we're competing in a contest, in which case I take intensity to 11.
Sometimes my sarcasm it's confused with arrogance because I'm that good at it Big Grin.
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People have had enough of me. LOL
i know what u mean
They say im cheeky and just too much of a troublemaker Nd id not that its rude
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