What is too much partying for a married man
This topic was created in the Aries forum by MsCali209 on Monday, October 9, 2017 and has 1 replies.
So, my husband and I have been married for a few months, we have lived together and been in a committed relationship for about 5 years now.
Here is the problem, he loves to party. LOVES to party and I honestly do not mind that he goes out, but its every freaking weekend, Fri-Sun with his boys (which are single) and it's irritating me a bit. He never wants to take me, he only take me if his boys are bring new dates and then I'm "allowed" to go. Last year we ended up breaking up for 6 months because of that, he came back to me and put a ring on my finger and told me he would do better and that he will calm down. I agreed, because I don't care that he parties with his boys, but damn bro, every weekend. No married man should be in the clubs and bars every weekend. Thats what single men/women do. Like I said before I do not mind that he goes out, just tone it down. Maybe like 1 time a week, butter...
Anyway, he was a partier back in the day before I met him, and then we got together he would only go out like once every 2 months, so I thought he had out grew it. Last year is when he picked up on the parting hard and he is 32 years of age and his friends are younger than 25 years of age. Thats a big age different, especially with men.
But he takes good care of me, I do not work and he pays all the bills. So, yes I do understand a man needing to have male bonding time and enjoy his life, since he works so much.
But all my friends are grown and have families. We go out for some wine like once every month or two, majority of the time they are with their husbands and kids. I don't have many friends and my husband I do not have kids either. So, I'm home alone every weekend from 10p-4a. And I'm tired of it.
Also, I tried to communicate..DOES NOT WORK, all he ends up saying is my stressing him out and I'm becoming a burden. So, expressing how I feel doesn't seem to be the trick.
Has any of you guys experience kind of behavior with your husbands and what did you guys do?
Here is the problem, he loves to party. LOVES to party and I honestly do not mind that he goes out, but its every freaking weekend, Fri-Sun with his boys (which are single) and it's irritating me a bit. He never wants to take me, he only take me if his boys are bring new dates and then I'm "allowed" to go. Last year we ended up breaking up for 6 months because of that, he came back to me and put a ring on my finger and told me he would do better and that he will calm down. I agreed, because I don't care that he parties with his boys, but damn bro, every weekend. No married man should be in the clubs and bars every weekend. Thats what single men/women do. Like I said before I do not mind that he goes out, just tone it down. Maybe like 1 time a week, butter...
Anyway, he was a partier back in the day before I met him, and then we got together he would only go out like once every 2 months, so I thought he had out grew it. Last year is when he picked up on the parting hard and he is 32 years of age and his friends are younger than 25 years of age. Thats a big age different, especially with men.
But he takes good care of me, I do not work and he pays all the bills. So, yes I do understand a man needing to have male bonding time and enjoy his life, since he works so much.
But all my friends are grown and have families. We go out for some wine like once every month or two, majority of the time they are with their husbands and kids. I don't have many friends and my husband I do not have kids either. So, I'm home alone every weekend from 10p-4a. And I'm tired of it.
Also, I tried to communicate..DOES NOT WORK, all he ends up saying is my stressing him out and I'm becoming a burden. So, expressing how I feel doesn't seem to be the trick.
Has any of you guys experience kind of behavior with your husbands and what did you guys do?
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