What's wrong with this Aries?

This topic was created in the Aries forum by TxOgal on Monday, April 10, 2023 and has 13 replies.
My Aries cousin acting like he cut me off after not responding to a general invitation. We used to gather with my cousins at his parent's house on some events like new years eve and such.. and we had a group chat that we would arrange which date suits us. So, last year he sent on the group a fixed date for dinner to meet his fiancee and most of us were not able to make it cause he didn't leave room for diacussion of the date and time as usual. That time, me and my brother didn't respond cause I was not sure if I can make it or not and my house was full of troubles that I couldn't even ask my brother if he is going or not. Plus my grandma's sickness which kept us sleepless. So I remained quiet. Later I learned that he made a rude comment about us. Anyway, I explained to my aunt when she brought it up later that we didn't go to that dinner, and I met him later briefly at another event.

But after that dinner, I found out that he deleted photos of me on his instagram account. And eventhough he invited us to his wedding, which we went to, a few months later, he invited his cousins but not us, and again he invited them to his birthday this week, and didn't invite us.

We used to be close at some time in our life. When his brother passed away, and my brother was travelling abroad, he would spend all summer with me and my parents. I have always been kind with him so I don't understand what is this? and I'm not sure how to act about this?

His placements: Aries sun, Libra moon, Taurus meecury, Aries venus, Scorpio mars

Any Idea?

sry for writing such a long post x
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Posted by slug
Seems simple. You didn't respond to his invite to meet his fiance, which was probably important to him.
It seems like punishment lol He didn't come to our family invitation though after his event without explanation. So I think we're even.. I'm just confused how should I act .. like nothing happened? igmore him from now on? ...not sure
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Posted by slug
Posted by TxOgal
Posted by slug
Seems simple. You didn't respond to his invite to meet his fiance, which was probably important to him.


It seems like punishment lol He didn't come to our family invitation though after his event without explanation. So I think we're even.. I'm just confused how should I act .. like nothing happened? igmore him from now on? ...not sure
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Did you not chat at his wedding?
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Very briefly, it was not a big wedding, it was more like a 1 hr ceremony. And he seemed very normal. That's why I confused. Cause not inviting us intentionally and deleting my photos (which are really old posts by the way) looks like someone is angry
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If it matters, just ask him directly what his problem is.

Bring up the evidence you mentioned here. Find out if the door is closed(seems petty). Maybe it was something else that transpired. If he doesn’t want to resolve the problem from that point, I would move along.
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He didn't gave no room for discussion? Did you at least explain him what was going on? Until now,have you met her or tried to meet his fiance?

I mean if there was no time and nobody explained anything to him i can understand he is angry,i would be angry too.

It's always good to show there is a family behind him,which he couldn't with the absence of the family.

You should go on and ask him,why avoid a confrontation since aries likes it anyway.

If he doesn't bother or pretends like nothing is wrong you have your answer.

There is one like that in my family too. We love each other but don't get along like we used to i think we'll only meet again at funerals 🥴🥴
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The problem is that instead of explicitly saying something like "due to lack of flexibility on the date and time, sadly I'm not sure I can make it", you went silent. Any kind of explanation would have been better than not responding.

I don't think he's keeping score or trying to punish necessarily. I'd say though that he likely has majorly distanced himself from you, if not dropped altogether.
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Posted by alexscaries
Posted by slug
Seems simple. You didn't respond to his invite to meet his fiance, which was probably important to him.



Even simpler just ask him

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Yeh if he's a simple person I'd ask, I'm not one who doesn't confront, but he's really the most arrgonat person you'd meet.
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Posted by poppyflower
The problem is that instead of explicitly saying something like "due to lack of flexibility on the date and time, sadly I'm not sure I can make it", you went silent. Any kind of explanation would have been better than not responding.

I don't think he's keeping score or trying to punish necessarily. I'd say though that he likely has majorly distanced himself from you, if not dropped altogether.
This Op. Ofcourse your mind is really boggling, but eventually you did choose to remain silent.
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Posted by FValentina
He didn't gave no room for discussion? Did you at least explain him what was going on? Until now,have you met her or tried to meet his fiance?
I mean if there was no time and nobody explained anything to him i can understand he is angry,i would be angry too.
It's always good to show there is a family behind him,which he couldn't with the absence of the family.
You should go on and ask him,why avoid a confrontation since aries likes it anyway.
If he doesn't bother or pretends like nothing is wrong you have your answer.
There is one like that in my family too. We love each other but don't get along like we used to i think we'll only meet again at funerals 🥴🥴
About being family.. I've been there for him since a very long time and I always made it to all the events and been keeping in touch with my aunt (his mother) just really out of care. She even wished that her son would initiate a relationship with me lol but ofc both of us are extremely different and have brother vibes, even if he did like me that way in the past.

What is really bothering me is that it's the only lousy thing I've done since forever, and I did give an explanation to his mom and I'm sure she told him about it. And that was all a year ago. It seems too extreme that he decides to cut ties over this
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You ignored his invite

Aries men don’t do well with being ignored …
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Posted by TxOgal
Posted by FValentina
He didn't gave no room for discussion? Did you at least explain him what was going on? Until now,have you met her or tried to meet his fiance?
I mean if there was no time and nobody explained anything to him i can understand he is angry,i would be angry too.
It's always good to show there is a family behind him,which he couldn't with the absence of the family.
You should go on and ask him,why avoid a confrontation since aries likes it anyway.
If he doesn't bother or pretends like nothing is wrong you have your answer.
There is one like that in my family too. We love each other but don't get along like we used to i think we'll only meet again at funerals 🥴🥴



About being family.. I've been there for him since a very long time and I always made it to all the events and been keeping in touch with my aunt (his mother) just really out of care. She even wished that her son would initiate a relationship with me lol but ofc both of us are extremely different and have brother vibes, even if he did like me that way in the past.


What is really bothering me is that it's the only lousy thing I've done since forever, and I did give an explanation to his mom and I'm sure she told him about it. And that was all a year ago. It seems too extreme that he decides to cut ties over this
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So he's just an arrogant beast maybe?

He should show some understanding cause you took care of your grandmother and was exhausted.

But maybe the aunt never told him???

My cousin once invited me very very late to his wedding. I had two days and I never go to weddings without a special gift,and i always need a good amount of time to plan what i wear etc etc. I felt a bit stupid to get it so late because everyone else got it earlier so my pride was hurt and I said no way I'm coming lmao. That cousin who married he thinks in general he is so much better since he got his MBA degree from China so not gonna play his arrogant games. I'm saying this just to remind you that a bit family drama is everywhere 😅

But you should really ask him why he's doing all that since you both were so cool together before that happend

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Posted by FValentina
Posted by TxOgal
Posted by FValentina
He didn't gave no room for discussion? Did you at least explain him what was going on? Until now,have you met her or tried to meet his fiance?
I mean if there was no time and nobody explained anything to him i can understand he is angry,i would be angry too.
It's always good to show there is a family behind him,which he couldn't with the absence of the family.
You should go on and ask him,why avoid a confrontation since aries likes it anyway.
If he doesn't bother or pretends like nothing is wrong you have your answer.
There is one like that in my family too. We love each other but don't get along like we used to i think we'll only meet again at funerals 🥴🥴


About being family.. I've been there for him since a very long time and I always made it to all the events and been keeping in touch with my aunt (his mother) just really out of care. She even wished that her son would initiate a relationship with me lol but ofc both of us are extremely different and have brother vibes, even if he did like me that way in the past.

What is really bothering me is that it's the only lousy thing I've done since forever, and I did give an explanation to his mom and I'm sure she told him about it. And that was all a year ago. It seems too extreme that he decides to cut ties over this
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So he's just an arrogant beast maybe?
He should show some understanding cause you took care of your grandmother and was exhausted.
But maybe the aunt never told him???

My cousin once invited me very very late to his wedding. I had two days and I never go to weddings without a special gift,and i always need a good amount of time to plan what i wear etc etc. I felt a bit stupid to get it so late because everyone else got it earlier so my pride was hurt and I said no way I'm coming lmao. That cousin who married he thinks in general he is so much better since he got his MBA degree from China so not gonna play his arrogant games. I'm saying this just to remind you that a bit family drama is everywhere 😅
But you should really ask him why he's doing all that since you both were so cool together before that happend
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Life is short for such unnecesaary drama........ yeh I don't know, maybe if I ever saw him again. I will just send him a birthday text as usual (knowing that he invited all the rest lol) ...... maybe I get a last minute invite.. who knows
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Posted by TxOgal
My Aries cousin acting like he cut me off after not responding to a general invitation. We used to gather with my cousins at his parent's house on some events like new years eve and such.. and we had a group chat that we would arrange which date suits us. So, last year he sent on the group a fixed date for dinner to meet his fiancee and most of us were not able to make it cause he didn't leave room for diacussion of the date and time as usual. That time, me and my brother didn't respond cause I was not sure if I can make it or not and my house was full of troubles that I couldn't even ask my brother if he is going or not. Plus my grandma's sickness which kept us sleepless. So I remained quiet. Later I learned that he made a rude comment about us. Anyway, I explained to my aunt when she brought it up later that we didn't go to that dinner, and I met him later briefly at another event.

But after that dinner, I found out that he deleted photos of me on his instagram account. And eventhough he invited us to his wedding, which we went to, a few months later, he invited his cousins but not us, and again he invited them to his birthday this week, and didn't invite us.

We used to be close at some time in our life. When his brother passed away, and my brother was travelling abroad, he would spend all summer with me and my parents. I have always been kind with him so I don't understand what is this? and I'm not sure how to act about this?

His placements: Aries sun, Libra moon, Taurus meecury, Aries venus, Scorpio mars

Any Idea?

sry for writing such a long post x
Libra moons are very fickle combine that with a mars in Scorpio that loves to hold grudges not a good combo
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