Why did my Virgo friend told everyone that we were hooking up after TWÓ YEARS?

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Joanne_P
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9 Years

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hello,

maybe some of you would tell me why did my 'ex' told everyone we were hooking up.

it was 2 years ago.

he is a virgo- wery weird guy, now when i see him i am scared and afraid of him.

we are not together. before he was giving me mixed signals but didnt make a move. even when i wanted to ask him out, being relaxed and so one.

when he saw i am moving on, moving forward with what i am doing with my life, meeting new friends, meeting even his friends- doing ok at studies, going abroad- he changed mind(?) of me.

he acted very weird like he didnt want me to meet his friends, they like me. invite me, party with me- are nice to me.

he was acting like jealous or something. when he saw his good friend is interested in me he told everyone we were hooking up 2 years ago. i dont know why he did it.

its my and his business. its not my fault he didnt want me and didnt receive my signals ... i dont understand it.

now i think he does it in purpose like a dog in a manger.

what do you think?

i am aries, he is a virgo. maybe thats why we do not match??

xx
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Joanne_P
@joanne_p
9 Years

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The problem is that i received that info from his friend - who is actually my friend as well. He asked me if i was hooking up with the Virgo guy because he told his other friend about it and this friend told MY friend about it. So my friend had to tell me because he was caring of me or idk.

I havent seen the Virgo guy since 2-3 weeks and I am not going to see him because I am going abroad.

I think that he did it on purpose because i got friends with his and other's friends (as new ones) and maybe he got jealous or he just wanted to have his friends on his own. And i am being considered only as an 'ex'.
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Joanne_P
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Posted by bkbella86
Yup he a bitch, a hater. He wanted to try and change people's mind about you. He was also hurt that you keep it pushing and move forward.

Keep doing you girl, pushing forward and living life. Don't let this hater knock you off your game.
do you think i should consider being in the same social circle or move somewhere else? ill add i just moved to the other country for a coiple of months but its nothing comparing to 'our story' lasting almost 2 years.

so his friends like me, were in touch but i have no idea if i should be in touch with them after what he 's told them.

thanks.