will Aries ex boyfriend forgive my pscho texts

This topic was created in the Aries forum by lubbylou on Saturday, June 29, 2013 and has 13 replies.
Will my Aries ex forgive my psycho texts?
Admittedly I went nuts after I found him on a date with another woman. Although we weren't in a commited relationship I still feel he strung me along. I have sent a lot of maniacal texts and I have come across as serious nutjob and spiderlady who is obsessed. I am a virgo btw.
My Q really is after a lapse of time will he forgive my episode of mayhem and reply to a friendly neutral text?
I care that I went psycho crazy on his ass.For some reason I don't want to leave a legacy of b/s with that chapter. I know move on right?
Wait, is he really your ex if it wasn't a committed relationship?
Exactly we werent in a commited R/S. FBuddies who stayed over at each others place a lot. I had no right to go whakadoo. I'm going to miss his friendship more than anything. He said he wanted space and that he'd avoid me for a few weeks, then say hello after that. I still feel that he wanted to keep me as an option if things didnt work with this other chick though....
No...you were a fbuddy
Why would you want to be an option?
To the OP: It matters not if he forgives, he will never forget.
Posted by tiziani
Posted by Gemini530
Yes. I think they get off on that sort of thing.


+1
Aries will forgive anything. Even extortion or grand larceny. Try it and see for yourself.
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lmfao no we wont
I wouldnt apologize....that only makes one look crazier imo...stick by your crazy and DO NOT contact.
and fwb is bullshit
dont fall for it ladies
Well I finally made some headway...after mailing him a few times. Explaining somethings. I was drunk texting etc...and pretty much informed him I was sober and going to AA meetings
He replied with a rather flat response. Words to the effect that he was glad I had stopped drinking - and If he bumped into me anywhere he would likely say hello and talk a bit with me.
Whilst it isn't a gushing reply. Suppose it indicates aries have a heart in there somewhere.
I won't forgive certain things. - I will forgive the person, but not the action and in the end if the action of said person was truly hurtful it will be the death of the relationship.
Posted by starlover
why would you care a damn if he was cheating on ya?



I lost the game. But at the end of the day I don't want a romantic future with him. So I don't mind the loss of face.
When he initially told me he was on a date (I actually phoned him...and he picked up the call whilst with her)
Which infuriated me. Then he text me the next morning.... I am sure it was all done to make me loose it. It is crazy making behaviour.
I should have reacted neutrally and said enjoy etc etc... but it flipped the crazy switch....and cue the mammoth meltdown.
My mad threats to expose him to his ex wife. I threatened to pour a drink over him if I ever saw him. I drunk dialled every night. Told some lies. Basically went bad shit crazeballs.
It was shameful. And I have been hard on myself thinking it all over and ruminating it...
But he had been playing emotional games with me for months - and I had kept my dignity well. Was even able to switch it up, and make him chase me for 5months.
I should have walked away with dignity yes. But I am confrontational virgo and go a bit bi-polar in the full moon.
Suffice to say. Aries men are not for me. Its a fulltime job, even just trying to get them into bed. And I ain't ugly!!!
Cheers for advice folks.
I lost the game. But at the end of the day I don't want a romantic future with him. So I don't mind the loss of face.
When he initially told me he was on a date (I actually phoned him...and he picked up the call whilst with her)
Which infuriated me. Then he text me the next morning.... I am sure it was all done to make me loose it. It is crazy making behaviour.
I should have reacted neutrally and said enjoy etc etc... but it flipped the crazy switch....and cue the mammoth meltdown.
My mad threats to expose him to his ex wife. I threatened to pour a drink over him if I ever saw him. I drunk dialled every night. Told some lies. Basically went bad shit crazeballs.
It was shameful. And I have been hard on myself thinking it all over and ruminating it...
But he had been playing emotional games with me for months - and I had kept my dignity well. Was even able to switch it up, and make him chase me for 5months.
I should have walked away with dignity yes. But I am confrontational virgo and go a bit bi-polar in the full moon.
Suffice to say. Aries men are not for me. Its a fulltime job, even just trying to get them into bed. And I ain't ugly!!!
Cheers for advice folks.