will he EVER speak to me again

My aries ex refuses to speak or deal with me. About 6 weeks ago his sister and her bf came over, already drinking by ten am. As im asking my neighbor to do the tune up on my car i offer him 60 dollars to do it. Suddenly my exs sisters bf offers to do it. I never told him he could.
Next thing i know her comes my exes sister, getting in my face and pushing up on me, bc she thinks i asked her bf to do my car, getting in between my ex and i.
My ex and i werent even arguing. I knew he wasnt able to do my car bc he was on call and i didnt want to tie him up.
I go to take care of my grandparents and then i get this text from my ex asking wth my problem was making him look like an ass to his family. Caught off guard, i call him. I cant get a word in bc all he can do is yell at me, so i hung up...
I am assuming that his sister thinking that i tried to get her bf to do my car was probably in his ear and the drunker she got, the worse she got. The one time i did get to talk to him he told me i sent him to a very dark place and to leave him alone.
It wasnt me who did that, it was his sister and all of the other drunks over there.
After confronting me, she did it to my neighbors wife when i left.
He refuses to speak to me. Will he ever speak to me again.
Everyone that knew us told me we were a great couple, but his sister would be a thorn in our relationship bc they all live together and that i was a threat of taking him away from her.

Posted by tiziani
Lol when are women going to stop blaming each other for things?


Look, if an Aries doesn't want to talk - that's pretty serious. But the bottom line is the problem is him and you. You want to talk, he doesn't. He's likely decided the relationship is done with for now. That's not his sister's fault or her decision. It's his.

^^^this

If I were you I wouldn't want him, because any man that lets his family have that much range over his emotions will always let them interfere in your relationship. I like my relationship to stay on a 1+1 basis not +2,3,4 and 5. Save yourself the drama, and move on. And don't call him either; he doesn't deserve your sympathy. When you wanted to talk he didn't want to listen. If it were me he??d be begging to listen to what I had to say WHEN I finally unblocked his number. I hate to be yelled at I don't care what the problem is, a person better simmer down and take a few days before they speak to me out of character or it will be our last conversation. But then again, I'm a Libra and you??re a cap, you handle things completely different than me.

Geesh! He can't stand up to his sister and tell her to shut up?

Sounds like too much drama in that family and I don't think a capricorn (you?) is going to want to be around that all the time. I wouldn't.

I agree with pinklibra. I wouldn't call him and wouldn't answer his calls, for a while anyway. Then if, a big if, we reconciled, I would make it very, very clear that all that drama will NOT be allowed at my house.

We actually had a great relationship until his sister would get on one of her drunks and become angry at everything. Then we would have problems. All of my friends loved us together. His family didnt,but then again i was his only ling term gf, EVER
Dealing with her always drained my energy. I love life and live tobe happy, but i noticed that wbem she was around i always had this worn out draining feeling.
Im not even sure why i care except that i love him and its a love that ive never experienced. Im in my 40s, so i have had my experiences...

The problems were in the relationship all along.

Posted by ladycappi41
My aries ex refuses to speak or deal with me. About 6 weeks ago his sister and her bf came over, already drinking by ten am. As im asking my neighbor to do the tune up on my car i offer him 60 dollars to do it. Suddenly my exs sisters bf offers to do it. I never told him he could.
Next thing i know her comes my exes sister, getting in my face and pushing up on me, bc she thinks i asked her bf to do my car, getting in between my ex and i.
My ex and i werent even arguing. I knew he wasnt able to do my car bc he was on call and i didnt want to tie him up. I go to take care of my grandparents and then i get this text from my ex asking wth my problem was making him look like an ass to his family. Caught off guard, i call him. I cant get a word in bc all he can do is yell at me, so i hung up...I am assuming that his sister thinking that i tried to get her bf to do my car was probably in his ear and the drunker she got, the worse she got. The one time i did get to talk to him he told me i sent him to a very dark place and to leave him alone.
It wasnt me who did that, it was his sister and all of the other drunks over there. After confronting me, she did it to my neighbors wife when i left. He refuses to speak to me. Will he ever speak to me again. Everyone that knew us told me we were a great couple, but his sister would be a thorn in our relationship bc they all live together and that i was a threat of taking him away from her.

That's kinda odd behavior for a Cappy woman..even at age 41. Their usually like Libra's....the first one's to JET at any hint of disrespect. You don't get to scream and holler at me and throw a temper tantrum like a little biatch. Why would you give anyone that much power over you? I agree with some of the other posters, maybe there were already problems in your relationship that you refuse to acknowledge? At age 40 I would think that you would definitely not put up with that kinda bullshiggity. Life is too short and AIN'T NOBODY GOT TIME FOR THAT! fU*^'EM~~FEED'EM FISH!