Your thoughts on my Aries Man

Hello All-

I have been seeing an Aries man for about 4 months. We are both single parents (we have not met each other's children yet). We became exclusive very soon. There has been a ton of chemistry from the beginning and we both feel very comfortable around each other. So what's the problem, right? Well, my Aries sun, Venus in Pisces man does not initiate anything. He is always on board to do things however he is such a follower. His sister mentioned to me that he is a total introvert and doesn't have many friends and is very work obsessed. I really don't mind being the leader but I don't want to push him. We had a conversation not too long ago and I said he was a nice guy. I went on to say that I fell in love with the nice guy before and it blew up in my face (that was an eight year relationship). He said that no one wants to get hurt including him. I said that I promise I wouldn't hurt him and his response was I already have. I have NO clue what I could have done. I asked him what I did and he just changed the subject! He is very affectionate and remembers EVERYTHING! He isn't verbal about his emotions though. If anyone has been in this situation or has any advice, I would great appreciate feedback!

ok so whats your question i dont fallow

I have just been under the impression that Aries really push when they like someone. Are Aries men typically very quiet when it comes to their emotions? How should I handle my aloof Aries?

displaying our emotions is not our best side thats true, aries will push hard if they want something,
its a long shot but maybe he doesnt want this to be all bout sex,
kind of hrad to say as most aries i know are extrovert and some in a very odd weird way too...he might be one of the exception to the rule

Aries isn't a very emotionally expressive sign. (But I am a Libra so neither am I.)

I find fire men tend to want to make you happy. So they ask what you want to do and go along with it. My Aries lad does that as did my Leo lad long before him. After dating a Virgo it is nice and comforting.

Although it may seem like Aries is a willing follower and just wants to get along, don't be fooled. They don't do ANYTHING they don't want to do.

If he is paying attention to you, calling/emailing/what have you and you see each other frequently and have fun, stop looking for problems where there aren't any. Just enjoy damnit! 😉

little S
right on, looks like you know us fire man very well :-)

Take it slowly, go with the flow and everything will be fine :-)

You are right about needing to relax and take things slow. I just need to be reminded! I was in a relationship for 8 years and was very patient and took things slow. Well...that relationship is over. It's hard for me to feel like taking things slow and being patient is the right thing to do. My Aries is an amazing guy though so I need to enjoy him and not be such a worrier!

haha - hmmm...aries has 2 extremes - complete follower or extreme leader - we flip to both ends depending on mood and situation - you won't find compromising middle ground if that's what you're looking for.

Are Aries men typically very quiet when it comes to their emotions?
Aries is generally not good expressing emotions (it takes a while to understand the emotions - unless it's ouch, hot hot hot or damn, I'm cold type of thing) but great at acting out what they feel at the time - watch his actions.

I asked him what I did and he just changed the subject! He's being a guy ! You can't ask guys those questions, they just ignore you !

Class-Act

hee! I am a huge fan of Fire sign men. I think they are wonderful people. Having dated around the zodiac, I must say I get along the easiest and best with fire signs. Good, good people if you ask me.

🙂

damn I want me a libra man !

Well...this weekend he just invited me to Thanksgiving. I will be meeting his son and his parents for the first time! I am SOOO nervous! Any advice—

well its a big comitment on his side, dont worry im sure he will make sure that you feel comfortable, no big deal , just be fun

"Love with an Aries man is like walking a tightrope between warm interest and aloof detachment. You practically have to be a trapeze artist. Don't run after him. Don't run away from him, either. Stick a penny in your shoe, carry a four-leaf clover and wish on a star. That will get you as far as any normal, methodical strategy. Maybe farther. You have to keep him guessing, even after you're his. At the same time, he needs the assurance that your love is always there. Learn to live with it-or learn to live without an Aries."


so now i know why i feel like i do! LOL that is 150% right on, geez, so who can walk the tight rope here? lol dont worry ill catch you if you fall

Hey LS, glad to hear you and the Aries are still going strong. I met a good one, but then the outside drama. What is a scorp to do? Sigh....