Advice Please

I am a Pisces and Iv been seeing a Virgo for a few months,we clicked right away,we open up to each other and have amazing talks.Our 1st date he didnt try to kiss me,but we hugged alot,which was fine,Iv been hurt alot so i also want to go very slow. Now over past while this virgo man compliments me and few weeks ago virgo man told me he has feelings for me.But he doesnt date alot for fear of bad relationship and rejection.I also developed feelings for virgo man,an so that he wouldnt feel rejected I told him,and we both said we want to go slow..He still hasnt kissed me.This past weekend he took me to meet is father and step mom,and his parents told me Im all he talks about..Now that was 4 days ago,after meeting his parents and before i left to go home I kissed him on his cheeks.now since he said he has feelings for me he doesnt treat me the same,he ignores me and pushs me away.And today i get a message telling me he only wants to be friends and this isnt ment to hurt me.How can it not hurt me,He just a few weeks ago told me exactly this..in such a short time youv have become a very special woman in my life,and always know you are very special to me.Then his parents tell me that im all he talks about,he tells all his friends about me,Im so Hurt and dont understand..PLEASE HELP

and... all this in a few months though? really?

I can see either of two things.... you are too over the top emotionally for a virgo to deal with long term...

or easy come... easy go

what age bracket are we dealing with here?

good lord... I thought I was on the fish board.

now i have explained why i answered here. your turn... why would you post this here of all places?

sorry everyone..i know but just trying to get advice..we are both in our 40s .. and yes only a few months... No I havent shown him any emotions at at all actually. He doesnt have a clue that im upset. and it was him that revealed to me that he has feelings for me. it was only 4 days ago that he took me to meet his family and his whole family said they were happy to finally meet me and that all he talks about is me..so yes im confused and hurt and trying not to show it to anyone except here to get advice..yes posted a little much an im sorry..im sure you all have had a broken heart .

Posted by southerncharm71
I am a Pisces and Iv been seeing a Virgo for a few months,we clicked right away,we open up to each other and have amazing talks.Our 1st date he didnt try to kiss me,but we hugged alot,which was fine,Iv been hurt alot so i also want to go very slow. Now over past while this virgo man compliments me and few weeks ago virgo man told me he has feelings for me.But he doesnt date alot for fear of bad relationship and rejection.I also developed feelings for virgo man,an so that he wouldnt feel rejected I told him,and we both said we want to go slow..He still hasnt kissed me.This past weekend he took me to meet is father and step mom,and his parents told me Im all he talks about..Now that was 4 days ago,after meeting his parents and before i left to go home I kissed him on his cheeks.now since he said he has feelings for me he doesnt treat me the same,he ignores me and pushs me away.And today i get a message telling me he only wants to be friends and this isnt ment to hurt me.How can it not hurt me,He just a few weeks ago told me exactly this..in such a short time youv have become a very special woman in my life,and always know you are very special to me.Then his parents tell me that im all he talks about,he tells all his friends about me,Im so Hurt and dont understand..PLEASE HELP

Sorry to see this, it sounds like he freaked out...And it likely has something to do with control on his end...

and insecurities, forgot to throw that one in there.