Posted by ACsquareplutocan I ask what's the significance of your name?
For an innate value for loyalty I would look for a harmonious aspect between Venus and Saturn in the natal chart. In synastry, something good to look for is a harmonious aspect between his Uranus and her moon
Posted by ACsquareplutoPluto sq my Asc is my strongest aspect lol....is it still subhuman filth if my Asc is in Cap, or a lil classier there? I've read it makes one prone to power struggles and drawn to the occult...both true in my case.Posted by MetatronInspired by a thread I posted on /x/ where I asked what in my chart makes me disgusted by the gluttony of others. The consensus was that it was Leo rising square Pluto and that this aspect makes me "subhuman filth" which I found funnyPosted by ACsquareplutocan I ask what's the significance of your name?
For an innate value for loyalty I would look for a harmonious aspect between Venus and Saturn in the natal chart. In synastry, something good to look for is a harmonious aspect between his Uranus and her moonclick to expand
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For an innate value for loyalty I would look for a harmonious aspect between Venus and Saturn in the natal chart. In synastry, something good to look for is a harmonious aspect between his Uranus and her moon
Posted by ACsquareplutolol...was kidding about the subhuman filth part....that's ridiculous....I'm pretty forgiving unless hurt really bad, then it can be difficult....You seem really good with charts. If you ever have time, I'd like to hit you up for a reading, but would definitely insist on paying you in dxp points or something. I value other peoples' time.Posted by MetatronOccult interest is true for me as well. I don't think I'm subhuman filth, just have a hard time with tolerance and forgiveness. The ascendant and Pluto in cardinal signs might be beneficial for you in making strides toward your goals versus fixed, where I tend to brood and delay actionPosted by ACsquareplutoPluto sq my Asc is my strongest aspect lol....is it still subhuman filth if my Asc is in Cap, or a lil classier there? I've read it makes one prone to power struggles and drawn to the occult...both true in my case.Posted by MetatronInspired by a thread I posted on /x/ where I asked what in my chart makes me disgusted by the gluttony of others. The consensus was that it was Leo rising square Pluto and that this aspect makes me "subhuman filth" which I found funnyPosted by ACsquareplutocan I ask what's the significance of your name?
For an innate value for loyalty I would look for a harmonious aspect between Venus and Saturn in the natal chart. In synastry, something good to look for is a harmonious aspect between his Uranus and her moonclick to expand
Posted by Froggie_Woogiecan agree with this, and OP has the placement as well....basically looking for Gemini-like qualities in a partner....If the person is continually a student of life, learning, seeking knoweldge and growth in various areas, and brings that back to the relationship, that kind of stimulation is plenty....Posted by Boots1313No placement can tell you if someone will cheat or not. Tons of loyal signs are out here cheating and mindfucking people.
Would this person be adulterous?
Since the 7th house is marriage and partner and Venus Gemini is known to be flirtatious....or does it not really work like that?
Couldn't really find info online
Venus in Gemini is all about verbal stimulation. Friendly Banter. New experiences albeit doesn't have to be about new people. Simply put, mindfuck them.click to expand
Posted by MetatronPosted by Froggie_Woogiecan agree with this, and OP has the placement as well....basically looking for Gemini-like qualities in a partner....If the person is continually a student of life, learning, seeking knoweldge and growth in various areas, and brings that back to the relationship, that kind of stimulation is plenty....Posted by Boots1313No placement can tell you if someone will cheat or not. Tons of loyal signs are out here cheating and mindfucking people.
Would this person be adulterous?
Since the 7th house is marriage and partner and Venus Gemini is known to be flirtatious....or does it not really work like that?
Couldn't really find info online
Venus in Gemini is all about verbal stimulation. Friendly Banter. New experiences albeit doesn't have to be about new people. Simply put, mindfuck them.
Just an example, as I've been with another Venus in Gem....We both were readers (probably a prerequisite for anyone I'm interested in). We would read four books at a time, rotate them....She'd pick two of her liking, and I'd pick two of mine - all completely different genres - and we'd get through chapter by chapter of each, and discuss. It was amazing....and we did things similar to that in many different ways....always felt fulfilled, always felt embedded in one another mentally, sharing the same world of ideas, etc.click to expand
Posted by Froggie_WoogiePosted by MetatronSounds like Venus in Gemini.Posted by Froggie_Woogiecan agree with this, and OP has the placement as well....basically looking for Gemini-like qualities in a partner....If the person is continually a student of life, learning, seeking knoweldge and growth in various areas, and brings that back to the relationship, that kind of stimulation is plenty....Posted by Boots1313No placement can tell you if someone will cheat or not. Tons of loyal signs are out here cheating and mindfucking people.
Would this person be adulterous?
Since the 7th house is marriage and partner and Venus Gemini is known to be flirtatious....or does it not really work like that?
Couldn't really find info online
Venus in Gemini is all about verbal stimulation. Friendly Banter. New experiences albeit doesn't have to be about new people. Simply put, mindfuck them.
Just an example, as I've been with another Venus in Gem....We both were readers (probably a prerequisite for anyone I'm interested in). We would read four books at a time, rotate them....She'd pick two of her liking, and I'd pick two of mine - all completely different genres - and we'd get through chapter by chapter of each, and discuss. It was amazing....and we did things similar to that in many different ways....always felt fulfilled, always felt embedded in one another mentally, sharing the same world of ideas, etc.
OP you can look at a chart and identify if someone will be "marriage material" or family oriented or not and that's easy. The thing is when hit by a weird progression or transit, some people do act out of their normal behavior.
Astro guarantees you nothing.click to expand
Posted by Boots1313I think the key is, whatever you're passionate about, be deeply into that as well, not just him....Boning up on things just to keep him, is just another form of making it all about him. Get into your art, your music, etc. - for its own sake. Then bring him into that world, or bring that world to him occasionally....That's what I find most fascinating about people - their passions/interests/talents. Its usually what attracts me to them initially beyond the physical. I find that this is one of the most acidic/corrosive things about relationship - that it can do away with all that, and I think its a real temptation for Taurus and any other sign, let alone two bulls, bc, as you know we can be so sensually indulgent and lazy. Its difficult for sure, and there's always going to be downtime with two bulls, but just don't get stuck in that. Boredom is *definitely* the biggest danger in my life, in many ways, not just with partners.Posted by MetatronPosted by Froggie_Woogiecan agree with this, and OP has the placement as well....basically looking for Gemini-like qualities in a partner....If the person is continually a student of life, learning, seeking knoweldge and growth in various areas, and brings that back to the relationship, that kind of stimulation is plenty....Posted by Boots1313No placement can tell you if someone will cheat or not. Tons of loyal signs are out here cheating and mindfucking people.
Would this person be adulterous?
Since the 7th house is marriage and partner and Venus Gemini is known to be flirtatious....or does it not really work like that?
Couldn't really find info online
Venus in Gemini is all about verbal stimulation. Friendly Banter. New experiences albeit doesn't have to be about new people. Simply put, mindfuck them.
Just an example, as I've been with another Venus in Gem....We both were readers (probably a prerequisite for anyone I'm interested in). We would read four books at a time, rotate them....She'd pick two of her liking, and I'd pick two of mine - all completely different genres - and we'd get through chapter by chapter of each, and discuss. It was amazing....and we did things similar to that in many different ways....always felt fulfilled, always felt embedded in one another mentally, sharing the same world of ideas, etc.
That is adorable. Neither my guy not I are big readers but we can talk for hours about different subjects. We're both in to music, art, and history so we are always sharing random facts with each other. I always refer to him as my teacher. I just find him so fascinating.
But being Taurus we can be super lazy and some days not stimulating intellectually at all. I'm just afraid he will grow bored or me, or i him (common theme in my relationships) also we have both cheated on the past on relationships. I would like to believe we have both reaped the repercussions of such and wouldn't again., but seeing that he has Gemini, Venus in the 7th freaked me out.
I did read like everyone was saying above it would be more of intellectual infidelity and not so much physical.
Looks like I have to bone up on my subject matter and interesting facts.click to expand
Posted by MetatronPosted by Boots1313I think the key is, whatever you're passionate about, be deeply into that as well, not just him....Boning up on things just to keep him, is just another form of making it all about him. Get into your art, your music, etc. - for its own sake. Then bring him into that world, or bring that world to him occasionally....That's what I find most fascinating about people - their passions/interests/talents. Its usually what attracts me to them initially beyond the physical. I find that this is one of the most acidic/corrosive things about relationship - that it can do away with all that, and I think its a real temptation for Taurus and any other sign, let alone two bulls, bc, as you know we can be so sensually indulgent and lazy. Its difficult for sure, and there's always going to be downtime with two bulls, but just don't get stuck in that. Boredom is *definitely* the biggest danger in my life, in many ways, not just with partners.Posted by MetatronPosted by Froggie_Woogiecan agree with this, and OP has the placement as well....basically looking for Gemini-like qualities in a partner....If the person is continually a student of life, learning, seeking knoweldge and growth in various areas, and brings that back to the relationship, that kind of stimulation is plenty....Posted by Boots1313No placement can tell you if someone will cheat or not. Tons of loyal signs are out here cheating and mindfucking people.
Would this person be adulterous?
Since the 7th house is marriage and partner and Venus Gemini is known to be flirtatious....or does it not really work like that?
Couldn't really find info online
Venus in Gemini is all about verbal stimulation. Friendly Banter. New experiences albeit doesn't have to be about new people. Simply put, mindfuck them.
Just an example, as I've been with another Venus in Gem....We both were readers (probably a prerequisite for anyone I'm interested in). We would read four books at a time, rotate them....She'd pick two of her liking, and I'd pick two of mine - all completely different genres - and we'd get through chapter by chapter of each, and discuss. It was amazing....and we did things similar to that in many different ways....always felt fulfilled, always felt embedded in one another mentally, sharing the same world of ideas, etc.
That is adorable. Neither my guy not I are big readers but we can talk for hours about different subjects. We're both in to music, art, and history so we are always sharing random facts with each other. I always refer to him as my teacher. I just find him so fascinating.
But being Taurus we can be super lazy and some days not stimulating intellectually at all. I'm just afraid he will grow bored or me, or i him (common theme in my relationships) also we have both cheated on the past on relationships. I would like to believe we have both reaped the repercussions of such and wouldn't again., but seeing that he has Gemini, Venus in the 7th freaked me out.
I did read like everyone was saying above it would be more of intellectual infidelity and not so much physical.
Looks like I have to bone up on my subject matter and interesting facts.click to expand
Posted by Metatron
like, as a practical, in your time apart, which you've shared that he's requested (maybe more so than you would like), be into your own things....don't waste it reading too much about his chart, placements, etc.. or overthinking things about him...bc then when you meet up again, you have very little to talk about, unless you are going to discuss his astrological potential for infidelity, which could be awkward lol...
Posted by Boots1313I'm the same way, but Venus is also tied to creativity and not just romantic love/relationship....Having venus in gem, I think its key to make sure that the need for variety of expression/creativity and beauty (whether literature, music, poetry, visual art, etc.), are being met. It can be hard because bulls tend to be so one-track minded in general. I try to literally schedule a rotation of interests so I don't get too consumed, and eventually too bored with one, time with my partner is included in that....Posted by MetatronPosted by Boots1313I think the key is, whatever you're passionate about, be deeply into that as well, not just him....Boning up on things just to keep him, is just another form of making it all about him. Get into your art, your music, etc. - for its own sake. Then bring him into that world, or bring that world to him occasionally....That's what I find most fascinating about people - their passions/interests/talents. Its usually what attracts me to them initially beyond the physical. I find that this is one of the most acidic/corrosive things about relationship - that it can do away with all that, and I think its a real temptation for Taurus and any other sign, let alone two bulls, bc, as you know we can be so sensually indulgent and lazy. Its difficult for sure, and there's always going to be downtime with two bulls, but just don't get stuck in that. Boredom is *definitely* the biggest danger in my life, in many ways, not just with partners.Posted by MetatronPosted by Froggie_Woogiecan agree with this, and OP has the placement as well....basically looking for Gemini-like qualities in a partner....If the person is continually a student of life, learning, seeking knoweldge and growth in various areas, and brings that back to the relationship, that kind of stimulation is plenty....Posted by Boots1313No placement can tell you if someone will cheat or not. Tons of loyal signs are out here cheating and mindfucking people.
Would this person be adulterous?
Since the 7th house is marriage and partner and Venus Gemini is known to be flirtatious....or does it not really work like that?
Couldn't really find info online
Venus in Gemini is all about verbal stimulation. Friendly Banter. New experiences albeit doesn't have to be about new people. Simply put, mindfuck them.
Just an example, as I've been with another Venus in Gem....We both were readers (probably a prerequisite for anyone I'm interested in). We would read four books at a time, rotate them....She'd pick two of her liking, and I'd pick two of mine - all completely different genres - and we'd get through chapter by chapter of each, and discuss. It was amazing....and we did things similar to that in many different ways....always felt fulfilled, always felt embedded in one another mentally, sharing the same world of ideas, etc.
That is adorable. Neither my guy not I are big readers but we can talk for hours about different subjects. We're both in to music, art, and history so we are always sharing random facts with each other. I always refer to him as my teacher. I just find him so fascinating.
But being Taurus we can be super lazy and some days not stimulating intellectually at all. I'm just afraid he will grow bored or me, or i him (common theme in my relationships) also we have both cheated on the past on relationships. I would like to believe we have both reaped the repercussions of such and wouldn't again., but seeing that he has Gemini, Venus in the 7th freaked me out.
I did read like everyone was saying above it would be more of intellectual infidelity and not so much physical.
Looks like I have to bone up on my subject matter and interesting facts.
Truer words have never been spoken.
Sadly I always have a tendency to put my hobbies and interests on the backburner when I'm in a relationship. I realize this is counterproductive and even harmful to the relationship but alas, it happens everyone!
I just love to love. :/click to expand
Posted by Boots1313you can bring up the subject of astrology, and I have with partners, and its been great....me pretending to be an expert, looking at our charts together, really delving into deeper discussions around what our needs are though, what the pitfalls are - which I think is GOOD convo for venus in geminis to have....I am very vocal about my need for variety, for learning, conversation, etc. bc I know how dangerous it is not to be....Just don't do it in an accusatory way....If he's into it, a couple where both have knowledge of astro can be all sorts of fun, speculating about the signs of actors in shows, gossiping astrologically about your friends lol....I don't think there's anything inherently negative about astro. Your tendency to obsess and overthink the relationship is just kinda using that as its latest template, so you have to watch your tendency to filter for negative things.....Posted by Metatron
like, as a practical, in your time apart, which you've shared that he's requested (maybe more so than you would like), be into your own things....don't waste it reading too much about his chart, placements, etc.. or overthinking things about him...bc then when you meet up again, you have very little to talk about, unless you are going to discuss his astrological potential for infidelity, which could be awkward lol...
Lmao, it a like you know me.
I was actually going to bring it up to him, I guess I shouldn't then *crosses off list of subjects *
So binge watching" shameless" in my alone time isn't going to be stimulating enough huh?click to expand
Posted by tizianiso true...its interesting the dynamic that social media, even dxp, brings to a relationship....bc here you are having this thoughtful literary interaction with all these different people, that you don't have with your partner...something I'm sure the entire culture has to deal with in some way, whatever form of SM they are most into....a little hard to tell her about the stripper wars on the dxp frontpage, while she's trying to sleep next to you in bed lol....this might be one world not worth sharing...Posted by MetatronI had that with the Bull yeah, Ands said the same thing about the Leo though.Posted by Boots1313I think the key is, whatever you're passionate about, be deeply into that as well, not just him....Boning up on things just to keep him, is just another form of making it all about him. Get into your art, your music, etc. - for its own sake. Then bring him into that world, or bring that world to him occasionally....That's what I find most fascinating about people - their passions/interests/talents. Its usually what attracts me to them initially beyond the physical. I find that this is one of the most acidic/corrosive things about relationship - that it can do away with all that, and I think its a real temptation for Taurus and any other sign, let alone two bulls, bc, as you know we can be so sensually indulgent and lazy. Its difficult for sure, and there's always going to be downtime with two bulls, but just don't get stuck in that. Boredom is *definitely* the biggest danger in my life, in many ways, not just with partners.Posted by MetatronPosted by Froggie_Woogiecan agree with this, and OP has the placement as well....basically looking for Gemini-like qualities in a partner....If the person is continually a student of life, learning, seeking knoweldge and growth in various areas, and brings that back to the relationship, that kind of stimulation is plenty....Posted by Boots1313No placement can tell you if someone will cheat or not. Tons of loyal signs are out here cheating and mindfucking people.
Would this person be adulterous?
Since the 7th house is marriage and partner and Venus Gemini is known to be flirtatious....or does it not really work like that?
Couldn't really find info online
Venus in Gemini is all about verbal stimulation. Friendly Banter. New experiences albeit doesn't have to be about new people. Simply put, mindfuck them.
Just an example, as I've been with another Venus in Gem....We both were readers (probably a prerequisite for anyone I'm interested in). We would read four books at a time, rotate them....She'd pick two of her liking, and I'd pick two of mine - all completely different genres - and we'd get through chapter by chapter of each, and discuss. It was amazing....and we did things similar to that in many different ways....always felt fulfilled, always felt embedded in one another mentally, sharing the same world of ideas, etc.
That is adorable. Neither my guy not I are big readers but we can talk for hours about different subjects. We're both in to music, art, and history so we are always sharing random facts with each other. I always refer to him as my teacher. I just find him so fascinating.
But being Taurus we can be super lazy and some days not stimulating intellectually at all. I'm just afraid he will grow bored or me, or i him (common theme in my relationships) also we have both cheated on the past on relationships. I would like to believe we have both reaped the repercussions of such and wouldn't again., but seeing that he has Gemini, Venus in the 7th freaked me out.
I did read like everyone was saying above it would be more of intellectual infidelity and not so much physical.
Looks like I have to bone up on my subject matter and interesting facts.
Something about how she would tell him "it seems like you enjoy talking to your internet friends more than you do texting me"
I'm thinking ok, that's all right if that's the case. I mean a relationship cannot just be us paying one another lower and lower quality attention every day by gazing at one another. Eventually you have to go outside, discover things in a different context so you can have something fresh to share with the one person that you want to share it with, each other.click to expand
Posted by MetatronVirgo moon dude, over think, over analyze.Posted by Boots1313you can bring up the subject of astrology, and I have with partners, and its been great....me pretending to be an expert, looking at our charts together, really delving into deeper discussions around what our needs are though, what the pitfalls are - which I think is GOOD convo for venus in geminis to have....I am very vocal about my need for variety, for learning, conversation, etc. bc I know how dangerous it is not to be....Just don't do it in an accusatory way....If he's into it, a couple where both have knowledge of astro can be all sorts of fun, speculating about the signs of actors in shows, gossiping astrologically about your friends lol....I don't think there's anything inherently negative about astro. Your tendency to obsess and overthink the relationship is just kinda using that as its latest template, so you have to watch your tendency to filter for negative things.....Posted by Metatron
like, as a practical, in your time apart, which you've shared that he's requested (maybe more so than you would like), be into your own things....don't waste it reading too much about his chart, placements, etc.. or overthinking things about him...bc then when you meet up again, you have very little to talk about, unless you are going to discuss his astrological potential for infidelity, which could be awkward lol...
Lmao, it a like you know me.
I was actually going to bring it up to him, I guess I shouldn't then *crosses off list of subjects *
So binge watching" shameless" in my alone time isn't going to be stimulating enough huh?click to expand
Posted by Boots1313gotcha...and definitely understand...my daughter has that Moon....sometimes to stop herself from overthinking, she just lines up all 600 of her stuffed animals in neat little rows in her bedroom lol...always categorizing, organizing, etc. to stop & soothe her mind....Posted by MetatronVirgo moon dude, over think, over analyze.Posted by Boots1313you can bring up the subject of astrology, and I have with partners, and its been great....me pretending to be an expert, looking at our charts together, really delving into deeper discussions around what our needs are though, what the pitfalls are - which I think is GOOD convo for venus in geminis to have....I am very vocal about my need for variety, for learning, conversation, etc. bc I know how dangerous it is not to be....Just don't do it in an accusatory way....If he's into it, a couple where both have knowledge of astro can be all sorts of fun, speculating about the signs of actors in shows, gossiping astrologically about your friends lol....I don't think there's anything inherently negative about astro. Your tendency to obsess and overthink the relationship is just kinda using that as its latest template, so you have to watch your tendency to filter for negative things.....Posted by Metatron
like, as a practical, in your time apart, which you've shared that he's requested (maybe more so than you would like), be into your own things....don't waste it reading too much about his chart, placements, etc.. or overthinking things about him...bc then when you meet up again, you have very little to talk about, unless you are going to discuss his astrological potential for infidelity, which could be awkward lol...
Lmao, it a like you know me.
I was actually going to bring it up to him, I guess I shouldn't then *crosses off list of subjects *
So binge watching" shameless" in my alone time isn't going to be stimulating enough huh?
I've brought up the subject of astrology to him before. He found it fascinating to an extent and then I was like "you think it's all bullshit don't you?" And he said kind of yeah...and we laughed. He has a habit of trivializing everything. We both do.
And the above is me mostly being playful and joking. I would never say "your astro chart says you are a cheater " to be honest mine has cheating placements as well...click to expand