Moon in the 11th

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Lol that description is pretty accurate.


Even though my moon is in Cancer, I still find myself being very detached from everyone, and it's hard to make close connections. But I like it that way. I don't really care for fitting in, or making a lot of friends. I'm a loner and that's fine. It causes issues for me especially in romantic relationships because I give off the vibe that I don't really care much about anyone because I'm not affectionate and I'm very detached. I'm emotional, but don't like to show it at all. I can cut people off easily, and never look back. I don't really get sad over friendships that end.

Haha, Sag told me the same thing.


He has cut off lots of people that came into his life with no remorse. I told him if he ever cuts me off, I am gonna cut his throat. Erk.... haha I kid, I kid. lol

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Lol that description is pretty accurate.


Even though my moon is in Cancer, I still find myself being very detached from everyone, and it's hard to make close connections. But I like it that way. I don't really care for fitting in, or making a lot of friends. I'm a loner and that's fine. It causes issues for me especially in romantic relationships because I give off the vibe that I don't really care much about anyone because I'm not affectionate and I'm very detached. I'm emotional, but don't like to show it at all. I can cut people off easily, and never look back. I don't really get sad over friendships that end.

Haha, Sag told me the same thing.


He has cut off lots of people that came into his life with no remorse. I told him if he ever cuts me off, I am gonna cut his throat. Erk.... haha I kid, I kid. lol

Haha yeah like I'll see people get so heartbroken over friendships that have ended, but I never get sad over it. I'll hear that old friends miss me, but I don't even think about them lol


Ex bf's are kind of a different story depending on how it ended. I had two long term relationships that I completely cut off. But I did it in such a mean way. I didn't break up with them, I literally just stopped answering the phone lol. No closure or anything, I just didn't speak to them ever again.

Wohoah, meanie! LOL


Well, for him, he said, he likes to take things easy but some people just need to have dramas which he can't stand them at all. It's not like he doesn't have any emotions, he cried lots of times when I was with him but he said, he won't do these things to just anyone. He is so detached but I could understand because like him, I have the same issue too but not that extreme. I just need to get away from people because I hate to feel their energy, especially the negative ones.


And His mom is a Pisces sun, so, we were watching a sad movie the other day and his mom got affected so bad. He was like, mom, it's just a movie. Why are you over reacting? My 12th house moon felt the same way like his mom, but I just kept my mouth shut. Else, he will tell me off too. It was really funny.


I told him though, if you ever try to kick me off, I will make sure I'll haunt you in your dreams. He ask me how would that even works, ahhhh that's my 12th house secret.

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Aww you remember ❤️🙃

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Aww you remember ❤️🙃

yes i do. i have memory of an elephant.


btw what's that with your new tagline. that is not scorpios tag lolol

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@teena

Aww you remember ❤️🙃

yes i do. i have memory of an elephant.


btw what's that with your new tagline. that is not scorpios tag lolol

Haha. I see that 😁


LOL!! Ikr?!! But that has been my motto since forever. You think I should Scorpio-up a bit?😛

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Lol that description is pretty accurate.


Even though my moon is in Cancer, I still find myself being very detached from everyone, and it's hard to make close connections. But I like it that way. I don't really care for fitting in, or making a lot of friends. I'm a loner and that's fine. It causes issues for me especially in romantic relationships because I give off the vibe that I don't really care much about anyone because I'm not affectionate and I'm very detached. I'm emotional, but don't like to show it at all. I can cut people off easily, and never look back. I don't really get sad over friendships that end.

Posted by Senorita_LL
I am with a vìrgo moon who has his in 11th. The description given seems to be quite accurate for him.


He doesn't have lots of friends and he isolate himself most of the times. In fact, he told me he hates to socialise and prefer to just have one person, who he can called his everything.


He's good with communication on social media but if you wanted him to be around people, irl, you can just dream on.


He told me, he did feel lonely previously but to do thing with big groups is just not his cup of tea and mind you, he's a Sag sun. It goes along well with mine, because despite I'm a Gemini with a Leo moon, my moon is in the 12th. So, we both can just isolate ourselves in an Island or something and stays there with the animals. lol


I hope I am talking sense because right now. I am feeling numb and I have no idea why.

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Lol that description is pretty accurate.


Even though my moon is in Cancer, I still find myself being very detached from everyone, and it's hard to make close connections. But I like it that way. I don't really care for fitting in, or making a lot of friends. I'm a loner and that's fine. It causes issues for me especially in romantic relationships because I give off the vibe that I don't really care much about anyone because I'm not affectionate and I'm very detached. I'm emotional, but don't like to show it at all. I can cut people off easily, and never look back. I don't really get sad over friendships that end.

Haha, Sag told me the same thing.


He has cut off lots of people that came into his life with no remorse. I told him if he ever cuts me off, I am gonna cut his throat. Erk.... haha I kid, I kid. lol

Haha yeah like I'll see people get so heartbroken over friendships that have ended, but I never get sad over it. I'll hear that old friends miss me, but I don't even think about them lol


Ex bf's are kind of a different story depending on how it ended. I had two long term relationships that I completely cut off. But I did it in such a mean way. I didn't break up with them, I literally just stopped answering the phone lol. No closure or anything, I just didn't speak to them ever again.

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I am with a vìrgo moon who has his in 11th. The description given seems to be quite accurate for him.


He doesn't have lots of friends and he isolate himself most of the times. In fact, he told me he hates to socialise and prefer to just have one person, who he can called his everything.


He's good with communication on social media but if you wanted him to be around people, irl, you can just dream on.


He told me, he did feel lonely previously but to do thing with big groups is just not his cup of tea and mind you, he's a Sag sun. It goes along well with mine, because despite I'm a Gemini with a Leo moon, my moon is in the 12th. So, we both can just isolate ourselves in an Island or something and stays there with the animals. lol


I hope I am talking sense because right now. I am feeling numb and I have no idea why.

yep! I have always had one friend to be close too and then some acquaintances. I feel like I liked to be more social a couple years ago. Maybe I have grown out of some of that or just in a different stage but I think I have become even more selective of who I am social with.

Yeah, he was more outgoing and social when he was in his 20s, now that brat of mine is old.


I guess it has got to do with age too, maybe? Idk...

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@teena

Aww you remember ❤️🙃

yes i do. i have memory of an elephant.


btw what's that with your new tagline. that is not scorpios tag lolol

Haha. I see that 😁


LOL!! Ikr?!! But that has been my motto since forever. You think I should Scorpio-up a bit?😛

Yeah be more meanie

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Lol! Sounds like cope. Feel misunderstood n don't fit in n so doesn't feel the need for validation/approval from others😛


I never felt like I don't fit in or am always misunderstood. Doesn't mean I always fit in. Maybe not. Thing is I never cared about fitting in or being understood anyway.So the question about being approved by others or not doesn't arise.


Moon in the 11th House people exercise the same kind of nonjudgmental attitude toward other people, especially those who become close to them. Well, one should say relatively close. These aren’t the types to really be that close to anyone But, they have an intuitive knack for making friends, usually because they know how it feels to be alone. If someone seems left out, the 11th House Moon’s instinct is to befriend them and get to know them. In fact, the more on the social fringes a person is, the more they will intrigue these individuals. They can so easily spread themselves around and become chummy with just about anyone, no matter what their race or life style or background may be. Yet, they remain inherently attached to little to no one which is less true if they’re a Water Moon. They live their private lives like mad scientists, too caught up in their experiments to be bothered.


I don't agree with the highlighted parts in this one.

-I can be pretty close to people.

-I don't make friends coz I'm scared of being alone. I enjoy being alone as much as I enjoy new friendships. Both are like fresh air to me.

- It's not that I'm not inherently attached to anyone. It's just I can detach myself easily whenever I want. There's a difference.



Actually I read other articles on this which I could relate more to. But I don't remember on what sites I read them.


But I never had problem making friends or keeping them. I just drop a few(ok more than a few) when I feel this need to filter for whatever reason n I really make too many of them tbh. I can't call them all acquaintances either coz I cherish what I had with each of them n it was great while it lasted.

Also I have long-term friends who are no less than a family to me(n more sometimes). All in all, my social life has been more than satisfactory till date. I also read it relates to mother(along with the 4th house) n gains if I remember that right. It's been great in that areas as well. So it's all good.

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Lol! Sounds like cope. Feel misunderstood n don't fit in n so doesn't feel the need for validation/approval from others😛


I never felt like I don't fit in or am always misunderstood. Doesn't mean I always fit in. Maybe not. Thing is I never cared about fitting in or being understood anyway.So the question about being approved by others or not doesn't arise.


Moon in the 11th House people exercise the same kind of nonjudgmental attitude toward other people, especially those who become close to them. Well, one should say relatively close. These aren’t the types to really be that close to anyone But, they have an intuitive knack for making friends, usually because they know how it feels to be alone. If someone seems left out, the 11th House Moon’s instinct is to befriend them and get to know them. In fact, the more on the social fringes a person is, the more they will intrigue these individuals. They can so easily spread themselves around and become chummy with just about anyone, no matter what their race or life style or background may be. Yet, they remain inherently attached to little to no one which is less true if they’re a Water Moon. They live their private lives like mad scientists, too caught up in their experiments to be bothered.


I don't agree with the highlighted parts in this one.

-I can be pretty close to people.

-I don't make friends coz I'm scared of being alone. I enjoy being alone as much as I enjoy new friendships. Both are like fresh air to me.

- It's not that I'm not inherently attached to anyone. It's just I can detach myself easily whenever I want. There's a difference.



Actually I read other articles on this which I could relate more to. But I don't remember on what sites I read them.


But I never had problem making friends or keeping them. I just drop a few(ok more than a few) when I feel this need to filter for whatever reason n I really make too many of them tbh. I can't call them all acquaintances either coz I cherish what I had with each of them n it was great while it lasted.

Also I have long-term friends who are no less than a family to me(n more sometimes). All in all, my social life has been more than satisfactory till date. I also read it relates to mother(along with the 4th house) n gains if I remember that right. It's been great in that areas as well. So it's all good.

I think due to my libra parts I used to have more of a wanting to fit in, wanting to belong. Now that Im older I have come to my 11th house moon senses and lost all fucs. But I also read somewhere else that this placement wants to belong to a larger group or collective in which they fit. Not exactly what it said but what I got out of it. I get that too.


Agreed with the friends thing, i enjoy the right friends. Im selective. Do you have someone you call a best friend who you are really close to, or have in the past?


"It's not that I'm not inherently attached to anyone. It's just I can detach myself easily whenever I want. " So you do have a level of detachment in order for it to be so easy?


yes, it could be other parts of your chart that gives you a great social life. I also have moon opposed saturn so I'm sure that's had an effect on my dating and social life.

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Lol! Sounds like cope. Feel misunderstood n don't fit in n so doesn't feel the need for validation/approval from others😛


I never felt like I don't fit in or am always misunderstood. Doesn't mean I always fit in. Maybe not. Thing is I never cared about fitting in or being understood anyway.So the question about being approved by others or not doesn't arise.


Moon in the 11th House people exercise the same kind of nonjudgmental attitude toward other people, especially those who become close to them. Well, one should say relatively close. These aren’t the types to really be that close to anyone But, they have an intuitive knack for making friends, usually because they know how it feels to be alone. If someone seems left out, the 11th House Moon’s instinct is to befriend them and get to know them. In fact, the more on the social fringes a person is, the more they will intrigue these individuals. They can so easily spread themselves around and become chummy with just about anyone, no matter what their race or life style or background may be. Yet, they remain inherently attached to little to no one which is less true if they’re a Water Moon. They live their private lives like mad scientists, too caught up in their experiments to be bothered.


I don't agree with the highlighted parts in this one.

-I can be pretty close to people.

-I don't make friends coz I'm scared of being alone. I enjoy being alone as much as I enjoy new friendships. Both are like fresh air to me.

- It's not that I'm not inherently attached to anyone. It's just I can detach myself easily whenever I want. There's a difference.



Actually I read other articles on this which I could relate more to. But I don't remember on what sites I read them.


But I never had problem making friends or keeping them. I just drop a few(ok more than a few) when I feel this need to filter for whatever reason n I really make too many of them tbh. I can't call them all acquaintances either coz I cherish what I had with each of them n it was great while it lasted.

Also I have long-term friends who are no less than a family to me(n more sometimes). All in all, my social life has been more than satisfactory till date. I also read it relates to mother(along with the 4th house) n gains if I remember that right. It's been great in that areas as well. So it's all good.

I think due to my libra parts I used to have more of a wanting to fit in, wanting to belong. Now that Im older I have come to my 11th house moon senses and lost all fucs. But I also read somewhere else that this placement wants to belong to a larger group or collective in which they fit. Not exactly what it said but what I got out of it. I get that too.


Agreed with the friends thing, i enjoy the right friends. Im selective. Do you have someone you call a best friend who you are really close to, or have in the past?


"It's not that I'm not inherently attached to anyone. It's just I can detach myself easily whenever I want. " So you do have a level of detachment in order for it to be so easy?


yes, it could be other parts of your chart that gives you a great social life. I also have moon opposed saturn so I'm sure that's had an effect on my dating and social life.

I have same Sun n Moon as yours btw. I have a Gemini rising n Sag venus n Mercury.


Lol! So it's a good thing right? Not giving any effs anymore? What did you like better tho? Not giving effs or being accepted n loved?


Yeah I did read that part about wanting to belong to a larger group. Maybe all the people in general want/feel the need to belong some where tbh. But like I said, I never gave it a thought. Coz I never felt like I didn't belong somewhere.


I'm not really selective with friends tbh. I haffun with them all. But like I said, I filter people eventually. That's not because I didn't like something about them later tho. N yes, I have ppl whom I call bffs. 3 of them. I met all the three of them almost at the same time n it's been nearly a decade since we met.

Lemme tell you something tho. I made at least one bff(other than the 3 i mentioned) in every new phase... at least one person I got pretty close to n really adore. But that had to be over too once I'm done with the phase. If I still allow someone into my life from the past, it's these ppl I once called bffs.


Haha. Nope. No detachment at all. It's like I could die for you today n you could be dead to me tomorrow if I so decide. Doesn't even remotely mean I'm not deeply attached to them. I just accept things for what they are faster.

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Lol! Sounds like cope. Feel misunderstood n don't fit in n so doesn't feel the need for validation/approval from others😛


I never felt like I don't fit in or am always misunderstood. Doesn't mean I always fit in. Maybe not. Thing is I never cared about fitting in or being understood anyway.So the question about being approved by others or not doesn't arise.


Moon in the 11th House people exercise the same kind of nonjudgmental attitude toward other people, especially those who become close to them. Well, one should say relatively close. These aren’t the types to really be that close to anyone But, they have an intuitive knack for making friends, usually because they know how it feels to be alone. If someone seems left out, the 11th House Moon’s instinct is to befriend them and get to know them. In fact, the more on the social fringes a person is, the more they will intrigue these individuals. They can so easily spread themselves around and become chummy with just about anyone, no matter what their race or life style or background may be. Yet, they remain inherently attached to little to no one which is less true if they’re a Water Moon. They live their private lives like mad scientists, too caught up in their experiments to be bothered.


I don't agree with the highlighted parts in this one.

-I can be pretty close to people.

-I don't make friends coz I'm scared of being alone. I enjoy being alone as much as I enjoy new friendships. Both are like fresh air to me.

- It's not that I'm not inherently attached to anyone. It's just I can detach myself easily whenever I want. There's a difference.



Actually I read other articles on this which I could relate more to. But I don't remember on what sites I read them.


But I never had problem making friends or keeping them. I just drop a few(ok more than a few) when I feel this need to filter for whatever reason n I really make too many of them tbh. I can't call them all acquaintances either coz I cherish what I had with each of them n it was great while it lasted.

Also I have long-term friends who are no less than a family to me(n more sometimes). All in all, my social life has been more than satisfactory till date. I also read it relates to mother(along with the 4th house) n gains if I remember that right. It's been great in that areas as well. So it's all good.

I think due to my libra parts I used to have more of a wanting to fit in, wanting to belong. Now that Im older I have come to my 11th house moon senses and lost all fucs. But I also read somewhere else that this placement wants to belong to a larger group or collective in which they fit. Not exactly what it said but what I got out of it. I get that too.


Agreed with the friends thing, i enjoy the right friends. Im selective. Do you have someone you call a best friend who you are really close to, or have in the past?


"It's not that I'm not inherently attached to anyone. It's just I can detach myself easily whenever I want. " So you do have a level of detachment in order for it to be so easy?


yes, it could be other parts of your chart that gives you a great social life. I also have moon opposed saturn so I'm sure that's had an effect on my dating and social life.

I have same Sun n Moon as yours btw. I have a Gemini rising n Sag venus n Mercury.


Lol! So it's a good thing right? Not giving any effs anymore? What did you like better tho? Not giving effs or being accepted n loved?


Yeah I did read that part about wanting to belong to a larger group. Maybe all the people in general want/feel the need to belong some where tbh. But like I said, I never gave it a thought. Coz I never felt like I didn't belong somewhere.


I'm not really selective with friends tbh. I haffun with them all. But like I said, I filter people eventually. That's not because I didn't like something about them later tho. N yes, I have ppl whom I call bffs. 3 of them. I met all the three of them almost at the same time n it's been nearly a decade since we met.

Lemme tell you something tho. I made at least one bff(other than the 3 i mentioned) in every new phase... at least one person I got pretty close to n really adore. But that had to be over too once I'm done with the phase. If I still allow someone into my life from the past, it's these ppl I once called bffs.


Haha. Nope. No detachment at all. It's like I could die for you today n you could be dead to me tomorrow if I so decide. Doesn't even remotely mean I'm not deeply attached to them. I just accept things for what they are faster.

I thought you did have the same moon and sun. Interesting! Just from those other placements I am sure we are very different.


It feels liberating! lol. I like how I am now, because really I am at my core being more true to myself and not caring so much about fitting in, or what others think. Back then my sense of self not as stable. It was easier for me to look outside for approval.


Friendships with phases of life I definitely understand. I am the same way, but for me it was because I think I had a larger level of detachment from those people, so it made it easier. There is only one friend who we grew apart that I would consider to be a friend for life even though we no longer talk, and will probably never be close. It was hurtful at first, but I just come to accept it and move on. With love I am different, its more hurtful.


"I just accept things for what they are faster." Yeah, for me, depending on the person and the relationship it can be easy or hard. acceptance has been an overall theme in my life for me to learn though (im fixed dominant)

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Lol! Sounds like cope. Feel misunderstood n don't fit in n so doesn't feel the need for validation/approval from others😛


I never felt like I don't fit in or am always misunderstood. Doesn't mean I always fit in. Maybe not. Thing is I never cared about fitting in or being understood anyway.So the question about being approved by others or not doesn't arise.


Moon in the 11th House people exercise the same kind of nonjudgmental attitude toward other people, especially those who become close to them. Well, one should say relatively close. These aren’t the types to really be that close to anyone But, they have an intuitive knack for making friends, usually because they know how it feels to be alone. If someone seems left out, the 11th House Moon’s instinct is to befriend them and get to know them. In fact, the more on the social fringes a person is, the more they will intrigue these individuals. They can so easily spread themselves around and become chummy with just about anyone, no matter what their race or life style or background may be. Yet, they remain inherently attached to little to no one which is less true if they’re a Water Moon. They live their private lives like mad scientists, too caught up in their experiments to be bothered.


I don't agree with the highlighted parts in this one.

-I can be pretty close to people.

-I don't make friends coz I'm scared of being alone. I enjoy being alone as much as I enjoy new friendships. Both are like fresh air to me.

- It's not that I'm not inherently attached to anyone. It's just I can detach myself easily whenever I want. There's a difference.



Actually I read other articles on this which I could relate more to. But I don't remember on what sites I read them.


But I never had problem making friends or keeping them. I just drop a few(ok more than a few) when I feel this need to filter for whatever reason n I really make too many of them tbh. I can't call them all acquaintances either coz I cherish what I had with each of them n it was great while it lasted.

Also I have long-term friends who are no less than a family to me(n more sometimes). All in all, my social life has been more than satisfactory till date. I also read it relates to mother(along with the 4th house) n gains if I remember that right. It's been great in that areas as well. So it's all good.

I think due to my libra parts I used to have more of a wanting to fit in, wanting to belong. Now that Im older I have come to my 11th house moon senses and lost all fucs. But I also read somewhere else that this placement wants to belong to a larger group or collective in which they fit. Not exactly what it said but what I got out of it. I get that too.


Agreed with the friends thing, i enjoy the right friends. Im selective. Do you have someone you call a best friend who you are really close to, or have in the past?


"It's not that I'm not inherently attached to anyone. It's just I can detach myself easily whenever I want. " So you do have a level of detachment in order for it to be so easy?


yes, it could be other parts of your chart that gives you a great social life. I also have moon opposed saturn so I'm sure that's had an effect on my dating and social life.

I have same Sun n Moon as yours btw. I have a Gemini rising n Sag venus n Mercury.


Lol! So it's a good thing right? Not giving any effs anymore? What did you like better tho? Not giving effs or being accepted n loved?


Yeah I did read that part about wanting to belong to a larger group. Maybe all the people in general want/feel the need to belong some where tbh. But like I said, I never gave it a thought. Coz I never felt like I didn't belong somewhere.


I'm not really selective with friends tbh. I haffun with them all. But like I said, I filter people eventually. That's not because I didn't like something about them later tho. N yes, I have ppl whom I call bffs. 3 of them. I met all the three of them almost at the same time n it's been nearly a decade since we met.

Lemme tell you something tho. I made at least one bff(other than the 3 i mentioned) in every new phase... at least one person I got pretty close to n really adore. But that had to be over too once I'm done with the phase. If I still allow someone into my life from the past, it's these ppl I once called bffs.


Haha. Nope. No detachment at all. It's like I could die for you today n you could be dead to me tomorrow if I so decide. Doesn't even remotely mean I'm not deeply attached to them. I just accept things for what they are faster.

I thought you did have the same moon and sun. Interesting! Just from those other placements I am sure we are very different.


It feels liberating! lol. I like how I am now, because really I am at my core being more true to myself and not caring so much about fitting in, or what others think. Back then my sense of self not as stable. It was easier for me to look outside for approval.


Friendships with phases of life I definitely understand. I am the same way, but for me it was because I think I had a larger level of detachment from those people, so it made it easier. There is only one friend who we grew apart that I would consider to be a friend for life even though we no longer talk, and will probably never be close. It was hurtful at first, but I just come to accept it and move on. With love I am different, its more hurtful.


"I just accept things for what they are faster." Yeah, for me, depending on the person and the relationship it can be easy or hard. acceptance has been an overall theme in my life for me to learn though (im fixed dominant)

Cool that you like how you are now. The reason I asked what you liked better is, I did see people who has been both(initially wanted to be accepted then tried to not give any effs) n went back to being people pleasers coz all they want is to be accepted. That is what they felt is more comfortable.Which is fine too. Whatever works for you really. Just carry whatever you choose well is all. I won't say one way is better than the other. It's just each of our personalities are different n not all of us feel comfortable being in a certain way.


Why do you think you were detached with your friends all throughout? Does something scare you or what is it?

And I didn't see friendships different from love tbh(talking about bffs).Just a different kind of love maybe.But I understand why you say it's more hurtful when it comes to love. How different was your dating life from friendships?(difference in the way you dealt with each I mean)


I'm fixed dominant as well

Letting go has been my theme too I guess. But for me, it doesn't vary with the relationship I share with the person somehow. It can be anyone really.

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Lol! Sounds like cope. Feel misunderstood n don't fit in n so doesn't feel the need for validation/approval from others😛


I never felt like I don't fit in or am always misunderstood. Doesn't mean I always fit in. Maybe not. Thing is I never cared about fitting in or being understood anyway.So the question about being approved by others or not doesn't arise.


Moon in the 11th House people exercise the same kind of nonjudgmental attitude toward other people, especially those who become close to them. Well, one should say relatively close. These aren’t the types to really be that close to anyone But, they have an intuitive knack for making friends, usually because they know how it feels to be alone. If someone seems left out, the 11th House Moon’s instinct is to befriend them and get to know them. In fact, the more on the social fringes a person is, the more they will intrigue these individuals. They can so easily spread themselves around and become chummy with just about anyone, no matter what their race or life style or background may be. Yet, they remain inherently attached to little to no one which is less true if they’re a Water Moon. They live their private lives like mad scientists, too caught up in their experiments to be bothered.


I don't agree with the highlighted parts in this one.

-I can be pretty close to people.

-I don't make friends coz I'm scared of being alone. I enjoy being alone as much as I enjoy new friendships. Both are like fresh air to me.

- It's not that I'm not inherently attached to anyone. It's just I can detach myself easily whenever I want. There's a difference.



Actually I read other articles on this which I could relate more to. But I don't remember on what sites I read them.


But I never had problem making friends or keeping them. I just drop a few(ok more than a few) when I feel this need to filter for whatever reason n I really make too many of them tbh. I can't call them all acquaintances either coz I cherish what I had with each of them n it was great while it lasted.

Also I have long-term friends who are no less than a family to me(n more sometimes). All in all, my social life has been more than satisfactory till date. I also read it relates to mother(along with the 4th house) n gains if I remember that right. It's been great in that areas as well. So it's all good.

I think due to my libra parts I used to have more of a wanting to fit in, wanting to belong. Now that Im older I have come to my 11th house moon senses and lost all fucs. But I also read somewhere else that this placement wants to belong to a larger group or collective in which they fit. Not exactly what it said but what I got out of it. I get that too.


Agreed with the friends thing, i enjoy the right friends. Im selective. Do you have someone you call a best friend who you are really close to, or have in the past?


"It's not that I'm not inherently attached to anyone. It's just I can detach myself easily whenever I want. " So you do have a level of detachment in order for it to be so easy?


yes, it could be other parts of your chart that gives you a great social life. I also have moon opposed saturn so I'm sure that's had an effect on my dating and social life.

I have same Sun n Moon as yours btw. I have a Gemini rising n Sag venus n Mercury.


Lol! So it's a good thing right? Not giving any effs anymore? What did you like better tho? Not giving effs or being accepted n loved?


Yeah I did read that part about wanting to belong to a larger group. Maybe all the people in general want/feel the need to belong some where tbh. But like I said, I never gave it a thought. Coz I never felt like I didn't belong somewhere.


I'm not really selective with friends tbh. I haffun with them all. But like I said, I filter people eventually. That's not because I didn't like something about them later tho. N yes, I have ppl whom I call bffs. 3 of them. I met all the three of them almost at the same time n it's been nearly a decade since we met.

Lemme tell you something tho. I made at least one bff(other than the 3 i mentioned) in every new phase... at least one person I got pretty close to n really adore. But that had to be over too once I'm done with the phase. If I still allow someone into my life from the past, it's these ppl I once called bffs.


Haha. Nope. No detachment at all. It's like I could die for you today n you could be dead to me tomorrow if I so decide. Doesn't even remotely mean I'm not deeply attached to them. I just accept things for what they are faster.

I thought you did have the same moon and sun. Interesting! Just from those other placements I am sure we are very different.


It feels liberating! lol. I like how I am now, because really I am at my core being more true to myself and not caring so much about fitting in, or what others think. Back then my sense of self not as stable. It was easier for me to look outside for approval.


Friendships with phases of life I definitely understand. I am the same way, but for me it was because I think I had a larger level of detachment from those people, so it made it easier. There is only one friend who we grew apart that I would consider to be a friend for life even though we no longer talk, and will probably never be close. It was hurtful at first, but I just come to accept it and move on. With love I am different, its more hurtful.


"I just accept things for what they are faster." Yeah, for me, depending on the person and the relationship it can be easy or hard. acceptance has been an overall theme in my life for me to learn though (im fixed dominant)

Cool that you like how you are now. The reason I asked what you liked better is, I did see people who has been both(initially wanted to be accepted then tried to not give any effs) n went back to being people pleasers coz all they want is to be accepted. That is what they felt is more comfortable.Which is fine too. Whatever works for you really. Just carry whatever you choose well is all. I won't say one way is better than the other. It's just each of our personalities are different n not all of us feel comfortable being in a certain way.


Why do you think you were detached with your friends all throughout? Does something scare you or what is it?

And I didn't see friendships different from love tbh(talking about bffs).Just a different kind of love maybe.But I understand why you say it's more hurtful when it comes to love. How different was your dating life from friendships?(difference in the way you dealt with each I mean)


I'm fixed dominant as well

Letting go has been my theme too I guess. But for me, it doesn't vary with the relationship I share with the person somehow. It can be anyone really.

I think I was detached bc honestly I never fully trusted them or felt like a great bond to where it wouldn't be easy for me to get out. I dont know if its due to the 11th house moon, or just because I wasn't the person, and friend I am today. Could have been fear. I am curious to see how things will be in my life moving forward, if I will always be alittle detached.


My dating life has been kind of funny when I think of it because once things are not going well ill just leave, as I do with past friends. Again, there was only one guy that I 'Left" and then wondered about it because I thought I was more detached than I actually was. I think its due to my cancer rising that tends to look back and have a littler regret, but once i have decided to leave there is very little space for me to go back.


So many aspects to consider! Its interesting to see if from your side having the same moon and sun. I think its a positive that it doesn't vary on the person for you to be able to detach. You seem to have equal relationships. I think I like some people more than others whether it be friend or romantic lol,

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Yeah, my analysis has concluded that alot of my dissapearing in love is due to fear lol. Side note I also have Jupiter in the 7th which I think has a lot to do with this mix- You think Jupiter is gonna make things rosy but he only does that probably AFTER you figure out your relationship issues . Hes tricky like that! haha


I do think I have been unforgiving, though, but yea like you mentioned its a part of growth. Are you like that? I thought it might be a combo of my sun and moon. I have read we can be unforgiving.


"When it comes to detaching, it all becomes about me than them."

Def think this is a Taurus moon thing in general! For me it just can be harder sometimes.

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Moon in Aquarius in 11th House here. I don’t have a lot of friends, I do have ample supply of acquaintances I keep in contact with. Most would call them networks.

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The forum doesn't seem to get used much, leta hope there is someone out there!


Moon in the 11th house. Do you have it and what's been your experience with friendships, social life, dating?


I found this site to be, maybe a little sadly, accurate.


http://astroarena12.blogspot.com/2014/09/moon-in-11th-house_2.html?m=1


I thought this moon positionwould be more positive in making friends and for my social life but it's been a little up and down for me. Would love to hear what others think especially with diff moon signs.

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The forum doesn't seem to get used much, leta hope there is someone out there!


Moon in the 11th house. Do you have it and what's been your experience with friendships, social life, dating?


I found this site to be, maybe a little sadly, accurate.


http://astroarena12.blogspot.com/2014/09/moon-in-11th-house_2.html?m=1


I thought this moon positionwould be more positive in making friends and for my social life but it's been a little up and down for me. Would love to hear what others think especially with diff moon signs.

me AF.


i also have chiron conjunct my virgo moon there, so i experienced a lot of pain and lessons through friendships & groups as well. i never fit in and never will.


uranus is currently opposing my ascendant which i think is finally making me realize if i’m weird, i need to embrace it. i’ve gotten better at that lately.


i dont get very close to people. reading that actually creeped me out because i told my best friend today that she knows the most about me. and i told her that i used to always tell myself that if all of my friends came together as a whole, they could write a book. and they could only write this book because each friend knew a totally different side of me, a different secret of mine. i’d be like a puzzle. they’d be surprised when they put together all of the pieces. it’s weird. i’ve always thought like that.

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ay I have moon in 11th and it's hard for me to care bout acquaintances and friends I just don't care to have em if they're not ride or die and reliable

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ay I have moon in 11th and it's hard for me to care bout acquaintances and friends I just don't care to have em if they're not ride or die and reliable

I feel the same but because I'm a Scorpio if i *know* a person will not pass my "tests" as a friend I will probably keep them as an aquaintance and have it noted. I could never get close to that person. So yeah usually it's the case. I've only had a couple instances where I lost a friend and didn't realize how attached I was until they were gone, but it was not enough to beg or follow someone. As I get older though I'm finding those aquantances even are growing less and less bc I just don't feel like keeping ppl around.

ME TOO!!! I take mental notes on which acquaintances i should keep at bay from one previous conversation I'm like def not fucking with them

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