7th house prob lol

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by pixiepisces314 on Wednesday, December 16, 2015 and has 2 replies.
stellium in the 7th house - Neptune, Uranus and Venus all conjunct

I always feel like I lack a personality that's truly my own because I often lose myself in relationships (whether it be romantic, familial, platonic, etc.)
Especially when I was younger id always have this strong desire to please everyone and go out of my way for people
Sharing has always been a major theme in my life
because of that I feel major parts of my personal development have suffered a bit

I always feel like I have to take time and be with myself sometimes to truly keep myself grounded

Anyone else experience this with similar placements? Lol 😭
Yep, I have 4 planets there (sun, mercury, mars, pluto). I don't have amy kind of identity crisis, but I'm extremely adaptable. I just AM.

I do think people have a hard time getting to know me; I don't really have a consistent personality so I need to be around people who can go with the flow and tale me as I am on any given moment.

I do find it impossible to not be in a relationship; I think there wer maybe 3 years in my late teens where I didn't have a boyfriend, and those years were spend trying to get one, lol.

Something I read about 7th house stelliums really hit home for me, and that is we tend to put all of our energy into one relationship at a time, like when we're with one peraon (even just a friend), we tend to forget or not pay any attention to any obligations we have to other relationships. I know I do that.

And I don't have anything in my 11th house, so groups of friends and friendships aren't very important to me.

It's an unusual stellium, I think, and I don't think most people really understand how strong it can be.