7th House Saturn - the challenges

How are your relationships and business partnerships if any? How do you handle the relationship challenges of Saturn in the 7th house and all the negativity spread around about it. Like you'll never marry, you'll never have a happy relationship, if you marry, you'll end up divorced, you'll only marry when you're old, you'll only marry somebody old etc.?

Yeah I have Capricorn in that house. I believe when it's time, earth signs just know how to handle life easily, it comes naturally obviously... I am always progressively doing alot of things by myself.. Sometimes there is always high hopes in regards to love. So I try to have the patience to even begin dating. As I get older I do have expectations and priorities in friendship..I am picky of my social life. I want a best friend to be my lover. That is my dilemma.

@Season- how do you view love? how many times have you had long term relationships and failed? What do you do about it?

If someone makes twice more or less financially do you work it out or drop them because stability is important?

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@Season- how do you view love? how many times have you had long term relationships and failed? What do you do about it?

If someone makes twice more or less financially do you work it out or drop them because stability is important?

I view love both romantically and practically. I'd like someone who can be a life long friend as well as a lover because otherwise it wouldn't work, right. My serious relationships both ended with the death of my loved one who was older than me in both instances.

I wouldn't drop someone who made twice more than I do but I wouldn't encourage a man who made twice less because you have to be honest with yourself. Money is important to a Taurus and I'm a Tau. - Sun and Tau. - Asc. So a secure financial future is very important to me. I'd be setting myself up for trouble if I was untrue to myself in this regard. No offense to anyone.

@Season- I understand I am a Taurus stellium fixed woman. I get it. I also believe if it's not the right one I won't get married for the sake of it. I also won't have kids if I am not married. I believe in hard work in relationship status. I don't give up unless it's cheating involved no longer. I don't believe in divorce either commitment and communication is all I need to be hapoy. That's my sun sign and 7th house.

My Saturn is in the 7th house and in Taurus.......
as you can imagine, I take one-to-one relationships death seriously...... I am 40+, never been married, some long term relationships where I turned down marriage proposals ....... For me, a possible divorce would be the worst thing in my life.....

@Pandora101- How do you like to start off with a potential lover, even friendship? Do you have standards? Do you have particularly deal breakers that you stick by as you get older with age?

@RumiLove- I don't think I could handle divorce at all. I barely handle my longest relationship of my life well. I had alot of health issues and depression. I don't want or need that. I have been through education over lover. I decide to drop out when I was younger because I already had trust issues with my ex. I wanted to be there all the time. He was sneaky and it had me on alert. I could not concentrate on school.

In college I was barely taking dating seriously after my break up. I focused on college classes only. I succeeded. And another vocational school I attended later on in life. I tried talking to some people. But I couldn't I felt I wasn't ready.. Even after graduating. I became more detached and still am and just work now. I am again planning school on last time. And I am okay with that at my age. I am not missing out on anything. It's all bought to you here on dxp. Lol. Drama ...