About Taurus Men

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leobabygirl
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ok. I am soooo confused right about now. There is this Taurus guy that I knew before but weren't really that close. Recently, we sort of ran into each other and he started showing alot of signs of interest in me but I wasn't sure what was going on because I never really took it to the head. So I decided to ask him about it and he told me that he did in fact like him and I told him that I was starting to like him also. Before I confessed my feelings for him, he kept sending me messages, and calling me and leaving voicemails on my cell phone. This went on for about 3 weeks, maybe a little over. I remember him asking me questions, kind of like testing me or w/e. Then we started talking about relationships and he was like that he was looking for love or something of the sort. I said that's what most people are looking for. Anyway, once he found out that I liked him, he stopped showing signs of interest. He isn't making any moves to prove to me that he is actually interested. I'm not sure what's going on, but I dont feel like he is trying to hurt me in anyway. I'm not sure if I should wait for him or drop the whole idea altogether. What does that mean?
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ScorpGirl83
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Oh trust me... I have these very same issues with the Taurus guy of mine. One week, he acts like I'm the only girl for him and the next he's making it sound like I'm a nobody to him. Apparently, this is not all that unusul for Tauruses though. As for my own personal issue, it's hard to move on completely since both of our behaviors are so back and forth.

I don't really understand Tauruses supposedly need all this stability and security; yet, when you try to give that to them.. it seems like they need time to back away??
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leobabygirl
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I found that extremely weird. In the beginning, I didn't really pay him any mind because I didn't take him pursuing me to the head. Now that I'm showing signs of interest he backs off and I'm like wtf. I'm not sure how to deal with it because in a way it's hurting me you know.

when you said:
"I don't really understand Tauruses supposedly need all this stability and security; yet, when you try to give that to them.. it seems like they need time to back away??"

It makes no sense to me because in a way I'm trying to make him feel secure because I wouldn't want to hurt him anyway. And I understand exaclty how you feel when you said that "he made you feel like you were the only girl and then the next like nobody". The thing is he was pursuing me for about 3 weeks and I wasn't even playing hard to get so I clearly don't get it. I dont know what to do..... How long did it take for your taurus guy to decide if he wanted to be with you or not.
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ScorpGirl83
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You wouldn't believe it... it's been going on for over 7 months now with this back and forth stuff. We've even gone a month at a time without even speaking and then all of a sudden, it's back to him calling me every single night for weeks. Yea.. I don't get it either. I have never been so confused about a guy in my life! Ever since I put the ball in his court, I feel like he's been almost torturing me in figuring out what it is that he really wants. I'm sorry that I'm not much more help to you.
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leobabygirl
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You know what ladies... I've found the solution to our little problem. They like security right? How about we take that from them, of course not to the point where they may believe that you will actually leave them; but more like a taste of their own medecin. When you think about it, are these taurus men really worth all of this aggravation. Believe it or not, to them we are like a toy and he has the strings. He is basically controlling us by making us worry about them. FUCK THAT... I am not beat. I'm taking my freedom back and turning the tables around and if can't handle it then he is not worth it. THE END
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in my experience of taurus men... they prefer to be pursued. in fact they almost expect it. when they are getting what they were previously 'saying' they want, are they really acting like they need space? or are they acting like they're just giving up the reins and enjoying the attention? there's a big difference with these guys. If they need space, they'll probably just say it. taurus and straightforward you know. and yes, they do blossom in security as do all earth signs. security to them is time tested sureness of feelings. up and down, back and forth, hot and cold is enough to make anyone be unsure and do the same things as well. remember that guys in general dont open up as much. if you have to dig to get your answers then show your feelings and constancy and dig. if he's still acting like a princess then tell him so. he'll probably love it. lol
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ScorpGirl83
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Well... I finally told my Taurus guy all of my feelings last night. And as it turned out, he just really had no clue that I ever felt so strongly for him, so I guess most of the reason he was pushing me away was actually because I wasn't giving him enough security. He always made it sound like he didn't like it when I complimented him or talked about my feelings, but by the way things went last night... I can tell that was just what he's been wanting.
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leobabygirl
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That's good at least now you know what is on his mind so you won't have to keep guessing if he is taking you seriously or not.

With my case, the taurus guy that I was talking to stood me up on a 'date'. And I thought these guys were more likely to keep their words. As you can see I was proven wrong. Anyway, I realize that he is basically playing games with me, not that I didn't see it before but I didn't want to jump to a conclusion. Anyway, I decided to send him a little message describing exactly how I feel about the whole situation and how he is acting and trust me it's not pretty. (I even scared myself when I read it over, that's how bad it is). At the moment I'm just waiting to hear what he has to say. If he doesn't respond or his answer isn't a reasonable one, you best believe that I'm cutting this one off. He made me so mad to the point where I don't even care anymore, and when I get like that, it's extremely hard to get me to be soft again. So I wish him luck with that one.
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Ladies....i agree with all of you.

My experience with my bull...phewwwww.....

Its like a roller coster ride. It all about control. If you want your bull to chase you...just leave them alone dont bother about them....he will come back to you. Treat him like he treats you.

My bull....will call me 5 times a day then suddenly not even a text.....i dont contact him...unless i have to. I dont say I love him or miss him anymore and now he longs to hear it...its like you only want something when its not there.

Just have fun with your life and dont take them too seriously coz you'll end up hurting yourself. Remember to take the power back by make other things in life important...such as urself!!