Are the "good looking girls" the loneliest ones?

Posted by stardustscorpio
Ok so I think it's a given that guys don't care if their friends are lookers or not, but I've started seeing a different pattern with girls and it's pretty sad.


I've seen this A LOT but I will specifically bring up two cases here.


So there's one girl I've known since I was a kid, she's a cancer/libra rising/pisces moon (all I can remember from her chart), and she's literally the sweeeeeeetest person. She's so nice to everyone and just a genuinly kind hearted person. But for some reason people have envied her for as long as I know (if she wasn't my best friend I'd probably envy her really bad too, but after so many years I'm used to her getting all the attention haha). People always talk shit behind her back and try and put her down (people = girls) and it's just so completely unfounded. She's very lonely and not many girls wants to be her friend, she only has me and one other person. Like , people see her and they don't even wanna give her a chance although she's incredibly funny and caring and just a good friend overall. It seems to me she has accepted this fact and that she genuinly believes she's just not "likeable". This was when I started thinking "It must actually suck being so damn attractive, no one wants to befriend you."


My other example appeared recently at work. This scorpio rising/scorpio sun woman started at my work. She's slender, blonde and has a great sense of style . To most people she seems a bit shy but being a scorpio myself I just know she likes her privacy. She's very nice and tries to join in on conversations and stuff, but the girls always shut her out. The guys at work drool over her but the girls just try and freeze her out all the time. Whenever the girls decide to go for drink afterwards, everyone gets invited except her. It's actually ridiculous. When people walk in groups from work to the buss stop, she always walks alone. Sometimes I join her and that's how I've discovered how nice she is. She really makes an effort to be nice to the girls but all they do is try to find flaws with her that just aren't there..


That being said, I've always hated how "average" I look but now I can't imagine how bad it gets for really attractive girls, I mean you guys get both harassed by men all the time AND treated badly by jealous girls. Any thoughts to why this is?

Posted by xghy
Being attractive doesn't equate being likeable. You have to master your own gift/talent/skill.

Work with what you have and know how to use it -that goes for attractive people.

Posted by TheTinMan

Posted by stardustscorpio
Ok so I think it's a given that guys don't care if their friends are lookers or not, but I've started seeing a different pattern with girls and it's pretty sad.


I've seen this A LOT but I will specifically bring up two cases here.


So there's one girl I've known since I was a kid, she's a cancer/libra rising/pisces moon (all I can remember from her chart), and she's literally the sweeeeeeetest person. She's so nice to everyone and just a genuinly kind hearted person. But for some reason people have envied her for as long as I know (if she wasn't my best friend I'd probably envy her really bad too, but after so many years I'm used to her getting all the attention haha). People always talk shit behind her back and try and put her down (people = girls) and it's just so completely unfounded. She's very lonely and not many girls wants to be her friend, she only has me and one other person. Like , people see her and they don't even wanna give her a chance although she's incredibly funny and caring and just a good friend overall. It seems to me she has accepted this fact and that she genuinly believes she's just not "likeable". This was when I started thinking "It must actually suck being so damn attractive, no one wants to befriend you."


My other example appeared recently at work. This scorpio rising/scorpio sun woman started at my work. She's slender, blonde and has a great sense of style . To most people she seems a bit shy but being a scorpio myself I just know she likes her privacy. She's very nice and tries to join in on conversations and stuff, but the girls always shut her out. The guys at work drool over her but the girls just try and freeze her out all the time. Whenever the girls decide to go for drink afterwards, everyone gets invited except her. It's actually ridiculous. When people walk in groups from work to the buss stop, she always walks alone. Sometimes I join her and that's how I've discovered how nice she is. She really makes an effort to be nice to the girls but all they do is try to find flaws with her that just aren't there..


That being said, I've always hated how "average" I look but now I can't imagine how bad it gets for really attractive girls, I mean you guys get both harassed by men all the time AND treated badly by jealous girls. Any thoughts to why this is?

goddamn you got that shit right. as an attractive dude no one wants to befriend me. but I'm good with the hand full of my Pisces besties.

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