Okay, so this guy I've been dating for almost two years and I broke up. He's a Cancer and I'm a Leo. We haven't talked for over a week now, but my question is should I wait it out? Is it likely he'll come back? Should I reach out to him? I feel like he doesn't trust me, but I don't know how to coax him out of his shell. He said he loves me, but he's not in love with me. He seems kind of spiteful and mean, but I know that cancers can pinch. Usually if I've waited, he'll open up. I don't know what to do. Any advice or help is appreciated much..
Here's his signs
Sun - Cancer
Rising - Leo
Moon - Cap.
Venus - Gem.
My Signs
Sun - Leo
Rising - Taurus
Moon - Cancer
Venus - Cancer
Aww, thanks Exxtasyx. I completely thought that was my emotional cancer moon talking. I guess I always thought of Leos as being too proud to reach out.
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Mar 18, 2013Comments: 0 · Posts: 1355 · Topics: 6
When a man tells you he loves you but is not in love with you, he's trying to break up with you and soften the blow. You might be able to manipulate him to keep seeing you *for awhile* out of guilt but he's gone. You can't hold a man who doesn't love you enough. You can make yourself miserable chasing after this but it will end in bitter failure. Cut bait and swim.
I didn't break up with him. I felt like we had an intense emotional connection, but I don't know what to do when he retreats into his shell. I feel like I've been drenched in water. I love him. I want to work on things, but he gets pinchy and it hurts. I'm just afraid that his cancer sun sign will keep him from ever coming back.
I'm aware of that. I'm just wondering if I hurt him, if he's likely to change his heart. If talking it over or staying away is a better approach.