Can you tell me specifically what signs

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by NikkiMse1978 on Wednesday, January 11, 2012 and has 4 replies.
Will "ignore" you if they needs space, are through with you/and or the relationship?
Do they do this for fun? Bcus they don't know what to say? As protection for themselves? To hurt the other person?
Doesn't ignoring instead of talking about what bothers you, defeat the purpose. Just curious. smile
I think they all do, to a certain extent. If you type into the Google search bar literally "~any sign~ disappear," it will auto-fill in several phrases for that sign and its tendency to pull a vanishing act at times.
I would say it depends on the individual as well as the circumstances. My ex (Aquarius) was the king of avoidance and would go to ridiculous lengths to ignore, hide, and disappear than have an honest (potentially uncomfortable) conversation. As for me (Scorpio), I would much rather face the situation head on and have a real discussion, but if I determine that any further talking is useless, I am OUT.
Posted by KittyKnitter
Men and women cope with stress in different ways. Whereas a woman will likely talk her problems out because that is what de-stresses her, a guy may not do so and will likely require space till he has thought things out and come up with a solution.
i know a taurus guy who keeps busy when he is stressed. he says it helps him think to work with his hands. it helps him to cope with grief and it also helps him to work on any personal issues he may have, if he gets his space as he needs then he gets what he needs from me, which is my support.
this might be a personality difference rather than a sign or gender difference. but no matter what, if someone doesn't want to talk and asks for space, they need it to sort things out. if you respect each other, you will understand their need to be alone and not take it personally and they will do their thing and come back to talk when they are ready.


That we are! Men are from Mars, woman are from Venus. I have read that book, and it is true. That is a huge fundamental diffrence between men and woman, how we cope with stress and how we communicate.
For me, the Aqua ex ALWAYS asked for space and for him, he meant he didn't want to be together. I just need to differentiate between the need to think and sort rather than the need to leave. Two totally different aspects of which I need to learn.
Posted by AutumnalChick
I think they all do, to a certain extent. If you type into the Google search bar literally "~any sign~ disappear," it will auto-fill in several phrases for that sign and its tendency to pull a vanishing act at times.
I would say it depends on the individual as well as the circumstances. My ex (Aquarius) was the king of avoidance and would go to ridiculous lengths to ignore, hide, and disappear than have an honest (potentially uncomfortable) conversation. As for me (Scorpio), I would much rather face the situation head on and have a real discussion, but if I determine that any further talking is useless, I am OUT.



Human nature-our environment, how we were raised, our social status, our personal beliefs and morals all influence whether we may need "space" at one point or another in our lives. I need space as well-for me though its not so much to think or to organize my thoughts as it is I just need peace and quiet!
My Aqua ex was notorious for asking for space, but he never meant it as in thinking or getting his thoughts straight. He meant it is, "I am done. I am breaking up with you." After hearing that, on and off for the last 3 years, it is what I have come to know. Now, it is a pattern (negative pattern) I need to break.
I am like you! Face the situation head on to come to a compromise and move on from it.

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