ok here it goes.i met this taurus girl a year ago. she approached me and we end up hitting it off, hung out the her friends the same night went back to my place and had a "happy ending" lol. the next week she invited me over to a party that she was having. i went but got there drunk and she was mad about that and said she couldn't see herself with me. i was bummed but continue to enjoy my summer than i met someone else. fast forward a lil its around october and she hits me up saying she misses me and she wanted to come over and hang and possibly more. i was emotionally conflicted about that because by than i was in a relationship but it was kinda rocky because of the long distance. anyways she comes over we hit it off again and i would speak to her almost everyday via text that is (if she hit me up 1st most times because i was iffy about hitting her up due to that fact that she had cut me off once before). around the new yr she said she loved me and got kinda mad cuz i didn't respond back to her until the next day than everything was going good. a month later things got a lil rocky after that between us she started to be demand of things for me like me opening, dressing the way she liked, and a whole bunch of other things. i must admit that i am guarded with her mostly because she's still dating other people and i feel like she has to earn my heart. we started to see less of each other and hook up even less because i didn't want to budge nor did she. she made me feel as if i had to audition for a spot in her heart and like i was the reason we're not exclusive. anyways i went to her bday party in april and we seem to be fine but than a few weeks after we had another big argument about me opening up again. and how I'm going to lose out on a good thing but i just didn't get it because she randomly text me all of that again when we weren't really speaking as we were before. i thought we were just friends and nothing more at the time. and i told her that if she doesn't want to talk to me or like me for me than she should continue to date other people as she has been because it seem as if nothing i do will ever be good enough for her or make her wanna just commit to only me. about a week b4 my bday she hits me up as if we didn't have the "break up" argument and said she wanted to see me again and my stupid self gave in.i don't know what to do with her anymore or if there's any hope of anything more that just a fwb. should i just let it go,does she want me 4real
Idk, it seems like you 2 spend time apart, hang out and things are good, then after awhile something bad happens and you need time apart. I've never dated a Taurus but my most recent ex-gf is a Libra and it was kinda like that where half the time we were ok but the other half we were fighting. I broke it off with her cuz I don't want a relationship like that. I'd keep looking but that's me. Good luck to ya!
i think your right. it just seems as if every time i tell myself I'm done with her she does something or hit me up and i go crawling back like an idiot. i just need to break all ties with her and allow myself to move on because i want more and deserve better :-)
I agree with both of you (except the "idiot" part because you're not an idiot). I hope everything works out for you!
update...
so i cut off ties with her. than about a week later she starts to hit me up again as if nothing happened. once again i feed into her trap. but than over the previous weekend i began to think about us again than went out for a night of drinking. that when i drunk text her and ask her what does she want from me and why does she acts as if the sun rises and sets on her a $ $ . she respond back that she didn't wanna talk to me because i was drunk and i only open up to her when I'm drinking. so from that time i told her whatever deleted her number and said to myself once again that i am done. a few days later she hits me up and i had to ask who it was since i deleted the number. anyways she goes on to say that she knows that i want more but i need to act like a woman and just submit to her demand (pretty much). smh anyways i got a new phone and text her saying I'm texting u just in case u still wanna talk to me or whatever since it seems as if you always have a problem with me.her response was why would she let go of some she cares and have love for......so annoying becuz she still con't with the hot/cold behavior...give a little and expects/demands a lot.....i don't want her out of my life. i was thinking that with some time a part we can remain friends now I'm not to sure...what it a girl to do!???
thinking about just saying the hell with all efffing taurus in general smfh!! seems like they are toxic for me!!!
I'm always drawn like a moth to a flame to taurus women.so even though i had my lil rant i don't think i could stay away from taurus women too long. lol, i just gotta find the rite one for me
thanks @ scorchedearth i really appreciate your input :-)
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Feb 13, 2012Comments: 0 · Posts: 159 · Topics: 16
taurus and cancer have comparable traits, especially when it comes to home and family and stability.
anyways, this seems like a very confusing lady, that on and off $ hit just kills me.