Chiron in my partners 4th house what does it mean ?

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by dewiklaessen26 on Wednesday, May 9, 2018 and has 5 replies.
I can not find anything about Chiron synastry where as i would want to know what it means whenever my chiron is in my partner's 4th house
Posted by sierra_
if your chiron falls in his 4th house (home, family, roots)..
it means that he's got some issues with those things and you will trigger them
you will trigger that pain... exactly how i don't know
Well the thing is his family didn't like me from the start they were very forceful and hated me for no reason without ever meeting me they assumed i am a Gold digger just because i am asian.

I hate to be compared with the standard stereotype i did learn my boyfriend to be more open with his family he was always afraid to speak and he depended on his parents a lot until he met me he broke free from the chains because they blackmailed if he would stay with me and go with me they would not pay anything for him anymore.

He also has Aries/Libra Interception So i had to give him that little push but since then he doesn't contact his parents and we used to fight about his parents all the time because they can't accept me and it hurts me a lot.

I am very loving warm and passionate person i do not fake love or anything i don't care about money.

I have my Chiron in the 8th house his chiron is in my 9th house btw
Posted by sierra_
if your chiron falls in his 4th house (home, family, roots)..
it means that he's got some issues with those things and you will trigger them
you will trigger that pain... exactly how i don't know
I tell him to have contact with them but he doesn't want to unless we have a fight he starts to say things such as i actually wanna see them where as i never forbid him the only thing i don't like is that everytime he goes there 2 hours before leaving they try to keep him there as he said himself they always try to keep me there right before i leave. He's says he can be straight but i don't believe him since he has issues with being straightforward towards everybody
Posted by sierra_
Posted by dewiklaessen26
Posted by sierra_
if your chiron falls in his 4th house (home, family, roots)..

it means that he's got some issues with those things and you will trigger them

you will trigger that pain... exactly how i don't know





Well the thing is his family didn't like me from the start they were very forceful and hated me for no reason without ever meeting me they assumed i am a Gold digger just because i am asian.

I hate to be compared with the standard stereotype i did learn my boyfriend to be more open with his family he was always afraid to speak and he depended on his parents a lot until he met me he broke free from the chains because they blackmailed if he would stay with me and go with me they would not pay anything for him anymore.



He also has Aries/Libra Interception So i had to give him that little push but since then he doesn't contact his parents and we used to fight about his parents all the time because they can't accept me and it hurts me a lot.

I am very loving warm and passionate person i do not fake love or anything i don't care about money.



I have my Chiron in the 8th house his chiron is in my 9th house btw click to expand



but i've read also that he will feel that familial pain more than you but you will definitely be the catalyst
it probably pains him that his family are the way that they are..

as for you with his chiron in your 9th house (philosophy, perspective, travel, belief system).. guess you'd feel that pain of being somewhere new/foreign/unfamiliar and he will be the catalyst of that 'out of your comfort zone' experience click to expand
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Yes he says he doesn't like that about his parents and he wishes that they would be more flexible but he says they will never change.
Posted by sierra_
Posted by dewiklaessen26
Posted by sierra_
if your chiron falls in his 4th house (home, family, roots)..

it means that he's got some issues with those things and you will trigger them

you will trigger that pain... exactly how i don't know





Well the thing is his family didn't like me from the start they were very forceful and hated me for no reason without ever meeting me they assumed i am a Gold digger just because i am asian.

I hate to be compared with the standard stereotype i did learn my boyfriend to be more open with his family he was always afraid to speak and he depended on his parents a lot until he met me he broke free from the chains because they blackmailed if he would stay with me and go with me they would not pay anything for him anymore.



He also has Aries/Libra Interception So i had to give him that little push but since then he doesn't contact his parents and we used to fight about his parents all the time because they can't accept me and it hurts me a lot.

I am very loving warm and passionate person i do not fake love or anything i don't care about money.



I have my Chiron in the 8th house his chiron is in my 9th house btw click to expand



but i've read also that he will feel that familial pain more than you but you will definitely be the catalyst
it probably pains him that his family are the way that they are..

as for you with his chiron in your 9th house (philosophy, perspective, travel, belief system).. guess you'd feel that pain of being somewhere new/foreign/unfamiliar and he will be the catalyst of that 'out of your comfort zone' experience click to expand
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My chiron was also in the 4th house of my ex and his parents also didn't like me at all so it feels like i am going through it all again not being accepted for who i am.

I am not afraid to get out of my comfort zone i actually like new experiences in life such as relationships and meeting parents can be scary but at the same time seeing different cultures is excting to me.

i really wanna know more but not many people know much here Sad so i really appreciate your reply