Dealing with a Taurus Male - Help!!!! Help!!! Help
This topic was created in the Astrology forum by marsey on Monday, April 16, 2007 and has 11 replies.
We are still getting acquainted and I don't know how to take this man. He says he is really interested and at times his actions confirm this. But other times he is very noncommittal - not saying much or acting disinterested...actually at times he seems shy...He doesn't seem to open up easily. I try to make him feel comfortable and get him to relax but he just clams up....any idea what is going on with this man?
don't listen. there are answers. when i first started hanging out with my taurus, he seemed like he only wanted to be friends. we'd watch movies together and laugh but there was nothing that said "I'm interested" from him. He would even put his arms around me while we watched the movie and i would be sooooooooo turned on by him... i mean positively wet... hope im not being too forward, but there was nothing. no anything from him at all. he would take me home and walk me to the door and say okay, talk to you later. no kiss, no hug, not even a hand shake.
so i got it in my head that we would only be friends. and i got to a point where i think i was okay with that. and we were chilling at his house one day, watching tv and i was laying on his bed. i didnt think much of it because we were just cool, as i said, he didnt seem interested. but then he layed his head on my stomach and i was stroking his head, which is nothing, i do that all the time to my male friends and it seemed perfectly okay to me, but then he looked up at me and was really close to my face, and i was like boy move, and shoved him playfully, and he just moved closer and ended up kissing me. I was soooooooo surprised. and then he was like "mmm, i've been waiting forever for that and your lips are just as soft as i imagined."
I was shocked! I thought he didnt like me and i thought he hadnt given me a thought at all like that. But after that day he was in heavy pursuit. I guess he had decided that he wanted me and was going to have me no matter what
so i got it in my head that we would only be friends. and i got to a point where i think i was okay with that. and we were chilling at his house one day, watching tv and i was laying on his bed. i didnt think much of it because we were just cool, as i said, he didnt seem interested. but then he layed his head on my stomach and i was stroking his head, which is nothing, i do that all the time to my male friends and it seemed perfectly okay to me, but then he looked up at me and was really close to my face, and i was like boy move, and shoved him playfully, and he just moved closer and ended up kissing me. I was soooooooo surprised. and then he was like "mmm, i've been waiting forever for that and your lips are just as soft as i imagined."
I was shocked! I thought he didnt like me and i thought he hadnt given me a thought at all like that. But after that day he was in heavy pursuit. I guess he had decided that he wanted me and was going to have me no matter what
like two weeks later, we had sex and he was really hooked then. he was determined that i was going to be his girlfriend if it was the last thing he did. i mean he was DETERMINED. Finally i gave in. And it's been me and him since then. That was eight months ago.
so you must understand, Taureans move at their own pace. they can't be rushed. thats because your guy is probably mulling it over in his head, making decisions on whether you would be good for him. just be yourself and let him observe you. In time, you'll see how he feels about you.
so you must understand, Taureans move at their own pace. they can't be rushed. thats because your guy is probably mulling it over in his head, making decisions on whether you would be good for him. just be yourself and let him observe you. In time, you'll see how he feels about you.
lol that was two weeks after i had been spending like two months worth of time with him Merc... did you even read the post?
yep bulls move slowly. they like to be really sure of what they are getting into... at least thats the vibe i get from my little bull. But they certainly dont stick around unless they are pretty sure that they want to. As I said, i was hanging around my bull for like two months or more before he even attempted to be up under me. I used to feel really rejected until i convinced myself that i didnt care and he'd just be my hang out buddy. thats when they get ya, when you're not looking. I always tell him that he snuck up on me and i didnt see him coming. stealthy little bulls.
aint that the truth. clamp down is EXACTLY what you do. clamp down and never let go. just stuck forever. hit you over the head with a club and say "MINE!"
Now marsey, is that really what you want? Cause I tell you once they latch on, that bull isnt going anywhere
Now marsey, is that really what you want? Cause I tell you once they latch on, that bull isnt going anywhere
Thanks everyone. I really appreciate your comments and insight, especially Lilmermaid...what a hot sexy story of how you got together....anyway, I will just chill and see what happens with this bull....
WOW I have just come across this and it could be about me right now. I am an Aries woman very very slowly "online dating" a taurus man who just doesn't seem at all interested in meeting up with me. We have been texting, emailing and more recently phoning each other, for the last 3 months. We met through a very good dating website. I am at the stage now where I am presuming that he's not all that interested and maybe I should give him space and perhaps a way out of this. I have had a couple of run-ins with him about it, but he always reassures me and never loses his cool over it and just manages to convince me that he does really care and like me and that he does want to meet me. BUT won't actually say the words "can we meet up". And it's doing my head in I can tell you. But I am somewhat heartened though after reading this. So any advice anyone?????
I dont know... as I said, they take their time and mull things over in their little minds until they take that SLOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW step forward. I havent figured out how to make my bull move faster yet, unless it's with gentle nudging or sometimes i play a mind trick with him where i gently suggest something and convince him to do it by making him believe he came up with the idea himself. hahahahhaa yes, quite a useful trick.
why dont you just be upfront and honest and say "look here you little bull, let's do the damn thing and meet up already. im tired of phone tag and im interested. if you're interested you'll say yes, if not, you'll say no and we can be done with it instead of going on and on with this cyber crap. Now what's it going to be bucko?"
Of course you should probably try not to be so blunt with it, like i am. they kinda get turned off by that... well my bull doesnt now that he is attached to me, but if i had said that in the beginning he would have been. but you get the point. maybe it's time to nudge him a little by being straight forward and getting right down to the nitty gritty.
why dont you just be upfront and honest and say "look here you little bull, let's do the damn thing and meet up already. im tired of phone tag and im interested. if you're interested you'll say yes, if not, you'll say no and we can be done with it instead of going on and on with this cyber crap. Now what's it going to be bucko?"
Of course you should probably try not to be so blunt with it, like i am. they kinda get turned off by that... well my bull doesnt now that he is attached to me, but if i had said that in the beginning he would have been. but you get the point. maybe it's time to nudge him a little by being straight forward and getting right down to the nitty gritty.
Message posted by: MercInAries on 4/17/2007 11:05:36 AM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.37
...technically, if I can't easily leave it, I have to carefully pick it.
i like that - good philosophy, Merc
...technically, if I can't easily leave it, I have to carefully pick it.
i like that - good philosophy, Merc
Um.....good luck and GodSpeed? lol
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