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This topic was created in the Astrology forum by Aquarius3189 on Friday, November 3, 2017 and has 17 replies.
Found someone may it be a crush,lover

That when your with them or talk to them its like its not you?

For example me: i feel i come of stupid on this girl i have a crush on i just say the most stupid things,i dont know how to talk to her or be myself,hello! Im a great conversationalist and nothing comes to mind for a topic,im so awkward with her i just want to kill myself sometimes its so frustrating! But to others i can talk nonstop from topic to topic and im going to meet her on nov.14 im freaking out i thought i can handle it but it seems i cant

This is the first time i've experience this so what to do?😣
Posted by Dastardly


seriously dude?😂yes i feel like im going to have a heart attack whenever she is around😑
I had the same issue talking with the Aqua crush that I have but I told him that my mind always goes blank with him. He of course, admits nothing lol Story of my life.
Posted by saggurl88
I had the same issue talking with the Aqua crush that I have but I told him that my mind always goes blank with him. He of course, admits nothing lol Story of my life.

thats new your a sag but cant be the fiery princess that you are with him😂 the girl im talking about is a taurus chick,i cant seem to be all jolly and friendly with her,i do know i cant have her but she has that effect on me and im going to see her soon, so frustrating argh!!!!! Pray for me🙌
I'm 50% water, I blame it on that!! Well good luck!!! I have a step sister who is a Taurus with a Leo moon and she is picky as fuck and used to get super annoyed with guys at the slightest thing lol

She had no patience.
I only felt that with this Aries guy. Completely useless. My mind went blind every time we were alone 😂 At least he confessed that the same happened to him.

Sometimes you just have to communicate with your eyes 😉
Posted by saggurl88
I'm 50% water, I blame it on that!! Well good luck!!! I have a step sister who is a Taurus with a Leo moon and she is picky as fuck and used to get super annoyed with guys at the slightest thing lol

She had no patience.

well your sister has leo and leo=king or queen so much ego no offense i have 3 in my family its like you have to measure with my standard lmao,my taurus has virgo moon with venus in aries,earth signs i can handle but she has a lot of fire like her mercury is in aries too
Posted by pisceswoman123
I only felt that with this Aries guy. Completely useless. My mind went blind every time we were alone 😂 At least he confessed that the same happened to him.

Sometimes you just have to communicate with your eyes 😉

atleast he feels the same,this one has a lot of fire and seems to get bored fast and i dont know if i have the same effect on her seems im the only one😂
Posted by Aquarius3189
Posted by pisceswoman123
I only felt that with this Aries guy. Completely useless. My mind went blind every time we were alone 😂 At least he confessed that the same happened to him.

Sometimes you just have to communicate with your eyes 😉

atleast he feels the same,this one has a lot of fire and seems to get bored fast and i dont know if i have the same effect on her seems im the only one😂
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Well, I never noticed it on him, I was just happy to talk and be near him 😄 but he said that he felt like he could come up only with stupid conversation because he was nervous and then he will think... - why did I say that? And feel very stupid.😂

Anyway I think you will be ok 😄 I think is cute when a guy gets nervous around me. The more they notice they are getting nervous the more nervous they get. Sweet 😛
Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by Aquarius3189
Posted by pisceswoman123
I only felt that with this Aries guy. Completely useless. My mind went blind every time we were alone 😂 At least he confessed that the same happened to him.

Sometimes you just have to communicate with your eyes 😉

atleast he feels the same,this one has a lot of fire and seems to get bored fast and i dont know if i have the same effect on her seems im the only one😂
Well, I never noticed it on him, I was just happy to talk and be near him 😄 but he said that he felt like he could come up only with stupid conversation because he was nervous and then he will think... - why did I say that? And feel very stupid.😂

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because he likes you!,im the same as him,this taurus came at me aggressively then when i didnt reciprocate she backed off😂its fine though,even if she has that effect on me i know i can only be her friend

Posted by Taurusgirl513
I'm in this situation right now. My libra guy is highly intelligent (studying for the mcat) and I've always been told I'm great in conversation, i have a presence and I'm smart, but when I'm around him I go blank. He starts talking and all I can do is nod my head. I told him last night about this and he laughed and said "it's okay, all this studying is turning my brain to mush too, I like just being here with you"

So that was sweet.

It helps to maybe look up conversation topics ahead of time. Or play one of those "would you rather games" to break the ice.


thats very sweet of him if he only knew haha!,im a great conversationalist too according to my gemini moon friend its fun to talk to me,but when we are together she is the one who always initiate a convo and i always give 1 anwer,you gave me an amazing idea thank you,now the problem is what question to ask😂

Posted by pisceswoman123
Anyway I think you will be ok 😄 I think is cute when a guy gets nervous around me. The more they notice they are getting nervous the more nervous they get. Sweet 😛

she doesnt seem to notice how nervous i am with her,im pretty good at making my face stoic,and the problem is i hate being vulnerable i dont like showing that im shy,fake it till you make it
Posted by Aquarius3189
Posted by pisceswoman123
Anyway I think you will be ok 😄 I think is cute when a guy gets nervous around me. The more they notice they are getting nervous the more nervous they get. Sweet 😛

she doesnt seem to notice how nervous i am with her,im pretty good at making my face stoic,and the problem is i hate being vulnerable i dont like showing that im shy,fake it till you make it
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Hahaha Aqua. 😁
I tend to come off as really relaxed at first, if I like someone I can be super charming and chill.

It's after we start dating and my feelings for them start to become real that I fall apart and get super anxious and clingy, and it can happen for months or even the first few years until I feel settled and like I can trust them enough with my heart that I chill out and even come off as bored, and then they wonder what the fuck happened.

I'm secure now, is what happened. I can let them do what they need to do and I won't freak out.
Posted by ariesno
Posted by Aquarius3189
Found someone may it be a crush,lover

That when your with them or talk to them its like its not you?

For example me: i feel i come of stupid on this girl i have a crush on i just say the most stupid things,i dont know how to talk to her or be myself,hello! Im a great conversationalist and nothing comes to mind for a topic,im so awkward with her i just want to kill myself sometimes its so frustrating! But to others i can talk nonstop from topic to topic and im going to meet her on nov.14 im freaking out i thought i can handle it but it seems i cant

This is the first time i've experience this so what to do?😣
In my experience, this happens when you meet someone who brings out the best side of you/sees you for who you truly are. You say it’s «not you», but I think it is. You’re not able to fake it with this girl, she challenges the mask you usually put on, and you’re going to have to adjust to that if you’re going to have a relationship with her (any kind of relationship), and that will help you grow. Does that make sense? Maybe I’m reading too much into this, I probably am, but in my experience, when a guy makes me feel and act like that, it’s because he gets me, and I can’t hide from him or just use my charm on him. And then everything I say will sound stupid in my opinion, but I think we’re being too hard on ourselves in that regard.

Just be yourself, really yourself, and she will like you for who you are. If not, then screw her. Talk about your interests, ask her about her interests etc.

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really is that so?hmm i gotta think this through if your saying is true,or ill see when we hang out

Posted by xyinsaturn
Posted by Aquarius3189
Found someone may it be a crush,lover

That when your with them or talk to them its like its not you?

For example me: i feel i come of stupid on this girl i have a crush on i just say the most stupid things,i dont know how to talk to her or be myself,hello! Im a great conversationalist and nothing comes to mind for a topic,im so awkward with her i just want to kill myself sometimes its so frustrating! But to others i can talk nonstop from topic to topic and im going to meet her on nov.14 im freaking out i thought i can handle it but it seems i cant

This is the first time i've experience this so what to do?😣


The best thing is to address your feelings to that person. Get if off your chest and you won't have that discomfort.

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i god no! I cant ill die of embarassment infront of her😳

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