Hey guys I just need a little advice. I started talking to this Aquarius man 3 weeks ago, I’m a female Scorpio. We met online and we met after 1 week and a half of talking. He asked me to be his girlfriend on the first date. I declined just because i thought it was a little too fast. He did seem a little hurt by it but we still continued on conversing as normal and nothing was awkward. We also both deleted our online profiles in front of each other. We finished the night off really good and still continued texting. 2 days after I reconsidered his girlfriend offer because i liked the way things were going and although i still felt things were moving fast I agreed because i really like him and I feel that if it’s what we both want we’ll make it work no matter what. He declined me this time and said that he did think we were moving too fast. I was little upset and butthurt by it but we continued on as normal again. Here’s where things get rocky, i noticed him getting a little detached but not too much which I’ve read detachment is normal Aqua behavior. I began to overthink somethings but overall tried remaining calm. I asked him on Friday if we’d be able to hangout on Saturday, he agreed. We continued texting all night until i fell asleep. I texted him in the morning when i woke up (which was super early) to which he just read it so i assumed he fell back asleep, a couple hours later i sent him a meme which is something we both did pretty often to each other. He only read it and did not respond so i again assumed that he was busy. Later on around the time we were supposed to hangout i expected him to text me or something and let me know if we were still on being that he had offered a different time than what i originally planned. As it got closer, still nothing so i posted a Snapchat story of a tv show that i was watching and said “Looks like this is going to be my night” he viewed it but didn’t say anything. After seeing that i became really upset and texted him telling him that I was done and that he could’ve just said that he wasn’t interested instead of standing me up. I then posted another Snapchat of food that my friends bought me and wrote “When your friends come through for you to make you feel better p.s. don’t let boys make you sad” I know that it’s super childish i just felt emotional and upset but it’s still no excuse. After viewing my last Snapchat he blocked me on Snapchat and we both unfollowed each other on Instagram. I’ve tried reaching out twice to apologize to him because I was overreacting. I reached out to him yesterday morning apologizing and blaming myself for everything and again this morning but he still hasn’t responded. I’m going to give him his space but do you think that he is just upset and annoyed with me and he will come back? Or is everything over with?
@SpaceBird hahahah your video, but yeah i just really like him. I fall too fast
@Smidge I know right 🙃
@Leowwwww I kinda just wanna give him space now since I’ve reached out already, I don’t wanna be super pushy you know
@Raakac Our personalities and humor are pretty similar, but Idk i guess I’ll just wait it out
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Apr 18, 2017Comments: 65 · Posts: 1066 · Topics: 13
He’s done. Take this from an Aqua... if I don’t respond AND block you! I’m done!
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Jun 27, 2016Comments: 975 · Posts: 5791 · Topics: 44
Give him space. Don’t bother him. That’s the only way you might have a chance. But it’s a small chance soooo just move on right now.