Do Taurus ever leave the one they are with?
This topic was created in the Astrology forum by BlueMoon on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 and has 11 replies.
Hi all : ). This is my first post here. I am a Cancer female. I have become very good friends with a Taurus male at work....lots of long talks and deep, dark secrets shared type of stuff. He is a very private person in general-friendly but private. He DOES have a live in girlfriend. They have been together for a while. He rarely mentions her. We have not done anything more than become really close friends. I am definitely interested in taking this to the next level.
So my questions are...do Taurus males usually share intimate details with someone they are not interested in? Or does it sound like he is playing with me?
Thanks for any insight.
So my questions are...do Taurus males usually share intimate details with someone they are not interested in? Or does it sound like he is playing with me?
Thanks for any insight.
Yeah I agree with MercInAries. He's a player by messing with a girl while he has a girl waiting for him back at home.
Whatever about him telling you intimate stuff why don't you ask him what's his game??!!
Whatever about him telling you intimate stuff why don't you ask him what's his game??!!
WHOA!! This is the EXACT same situation I found myself in about 2 years ago!! Trust me, he is not going to leave her.
Thank you for the input so far. I guess I was justifying it in my mind by rationalizing that they are not married, just live together.
As far as asking him what's his game, about telling me intimate stuff....we don't talk about his girlfriend or anything personal about her. We just became very close friends and there is very little that we don't talk about. I know he is attracted to me but I am seeing someone right now, and I am pretty sure that he is not 100% positive if I am interested.
As far as asking him what's his game, about telling me intimate stuff....we don't talk about his girlfriend or anything personal about her. We just became very close friends and there is very little that we don't talk about. I know he is attracted to me but I am seeing someone right now, and I am pretty sure that he is not 100% positive if I am interested.
his game appears to be exactly that... a game. i know a couple taurus guys well enough to know that some of them play those games. one of them did leave his wife of i think 4 years. the other is still with his girl but quite frequently sleeps with other girls. in all honesty, the ones i've come across seem to fall too quickly and too frequently for me to take them seriously when it comes to matters of the heart. and i just wont tolerate infidelity of any kind. thats just my opinion and my take. bluemoon you seem to think and feel differently though. you seem a ready and willing player in this game as well. to answer your question... from what i know... yes, there are those of them (and really in any sign) who will leave their s.o.
but like Merc said... once they've left and once you've accepted them, you'll have to work that much harder for self-worth and dignity, as individuals and as a couple.
but like Merc said... once they've left and once you've accepted them, you'll have to work that much harder for self-worth and dignity, as individuals and as a couple.
Well....again. Thank you for the opinions. I certainly asked for them...and I am not surprised at the answers. As far as me seeing another person-it is casual and there is no commitment. I know the right thing to do would be to step away from the situation-but truthfully-nothing has happened beyond a mutual attraction and a lot of talking. So-besides NOT talking to him there is not a lot to do to end this. I sometimes feel like sometimes the timing of when you meet the "right" guy is not always the best...but does that mean I don't pursue something that could potentially be great? On the other hand-it could be a disaster, as well. I totally get that.
some of the posts on this thread surprised me. i thought Taurus was supposed to be the steadfast, loyal type ...
some can be hedons who define loyalty like a politician. pardon the stereotype, but you get my point.
I think loyalty depends more on the individual than on his sun sign. You can find loyal and unfaithful people in all months of the year. Saying that, from an astrological point of view, moon, venus and rising sign would paint a better picture from which you can stereotype traits such as loyalty.
For you particular situation... I think he is infatuated with you. Cancer-Taurus can become a very strong attraction as I have felt on my own skin! Good thing it is that way since Cancer women are very very nice
For you particular situation... I think he is infatuated with you. Cancer-Taurus can become a very strong attraction as I have felt on my own skin! Good thing it is that way since Cancer women are very very nice
I am a Taurus female and Yes, for sure, I know firsthand I would and have left a man --- and not necessarily for someone else "waiting in the wings". It is very true, astrologically saying that Taureans take a long time to make a decision. We vascillate mentally "should I or shouldn't I", look at all angles of probable outcomes and possibilities of leaving or not. If leaving the current partner ultimately is more worthwhile, once we have made up our mind there is NO turning back-----no "I'm sorry" or anything will change it.
I know in my case I was in a LTR (2+ yr) with a lovely but demented Sag man; I hate to say it but I stayed in the rel. for the great sex we had. Unreal, but outside of that the union was crazy and just very destructive.
If the Taurus Man is unhappy in his relationship and is keeping one eye open (but still remaining physically loyal), rest assured it is just a matter of time before he WILL become single. BE patient, and if you like him, just BE YOURSELF, genuine and passionate about something important to you: a hobby, your career path, traveling, a certain subject. That will stick in his mind, and sincerity in somebody, which is hard to find nowadays.
I know in my case I was in a LTR (2+ yr) with a lovely but demented Sag man; I hate to say it but I stayed in the rel. for the great sex we had. Unreal, but outside of that the union was crazy and just very destructive.
If the Taurus Man is unhappy in his relationship and is keeping one eye open (but still remaining physically loyal), rest assured it is just a matter of time before he WILL become single. BE patient, and if you like him, just BE YOURSELF, genuine and passionate about something important to you: a hobby, your career path, traveling, a certain subject. That will stick in his mind, and sincerity in somebody, which is hard to find nowadays.
Taurus. Dated one, were engaged, broke up. I did the breaking as he wanted to sit there and not take responsibility. oh well. He was so dang difficult, obsessive compulsive sort. He hasnt even come close to dating anyone as serious as us and that was years ago. For some reason I didnt click with him as I have with a couple of other Taurus guys. Totally infatuated with (2) they are married so no playing around- but with both I feel an instant connection on a mental level, like I dont have to say a word and we know or agree. I had that with another Taurus years ago. It was so wierd, all I had to do was look at him in a situation and we both were thinking the same thing and laughing with no words- everyone else was left in the dark. I've always had this with Taurus' just not the one I was engaged too. Even when I am around him for 20 min. now (it took years to even talk to him again) its nice for like half an hour and after that I cant wait to leave. It's funny, he still has little things all over his house that I gave him or that we had during our relationship. I find that endearing.
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