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Jan 25, 2012Comments: 8 · Posts: 20090 · Topics: 685
To decide you'll never be in a relationship with another person of the same sign of your ex? Or several ex'es. It doesn't have to be just sun, could be a planet placement as well.
Say, you realize that the core differences are way too much and understanding and love take too much effort and work?
Would you base it on one long term experience or would you have to have had several experiences with different people to make that decision?
Or would you say F astrology and keep going for it?
Just curious to what others would think.
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Aug 01, 2013Comments: 212 · Posts: 1202 · Topics: 67
I have been with an Aries and Virgo those are 2 signs I dont want to ever try with again...
Although I have an Aqua driving me nuts, no 1 ive been with has made me as happy as she has...despite the drama..
Another Aqua-more evolved maybe...
Aries & Virgo never AGAIn.
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Jan 25, 2012Comments: 8 · Posts: 20090 · Topics: 685
I'll admit I'll never try with another Gemini. 18 years with the contradictory behavior was enough for me. Doesn't mean I don't like Gems, I do. They are fun and make good friends. I just don't think Gem and cap are good in a relationship.
I guess that makes me sign prejudice.
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libra moon
gemini moon
pisces sun
Yeah, it does and to me it's a shame because I don't think astrology should be used to separate people just like many other belief systems do.
But then again every single one of us are prejudiced in one way or another. Especially when we've been hurt in the past, which makes prejudice one of the most common defense mechanisms.
i have two exes...one is a taurus. the other is an aquarius. the aquarius hurt me way more than the taurus ever could, but i would still date another aqua because i get along with them so well, being opposite sun signs. staying the eff away from the bulls though. the guy i dated had a taurus sun, aries moon. i'm a leo sun, cap moon. abort mission!!! or maybe what i should stay away from are aries moons...all the people i've met with that placement can get on my nerves so quickly.
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Jan 25, 2012Comments: 8 · Posts: 20090 · Topics: 685
This is such a great discussion!!
My Scorpio mother says this about Aries men. I think it's general (and understandable) ignorance. Especially in matters of the heart, ignorance seems like bliss sometimes. If someone found a toxic pattern while having romantic interests for a certain sign, he or she would perhaps want to become ignorant to someone who may or may not exhibit the same pattern, before ever desiring to find out and risk getting hurt again.
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Nov 17, 2012Comments: 22 · Posts: 6178 · Topics: 30
For me astrology is not a way to compartmentalize & categorize peopleinto ones I don't want to date or have contact with.
Astrology for me is an exceptionally good way of understanding people different from myself so as to help me better relate to them.
I would probably be up for anything. You would think me being a air sign particularly me being Aquarius that a cancer is a no no for me but I have a good friend who is a cancer, my brothers wife is a cancer... There are things each sign can learn from one another.
Just my thoughts