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Faithful/Hard to Hold Signs
...makes these signs tick:
Aries March 21 — April 19
The Ram is independent and impulsive, often acting before fully considering the consequences of their actions. They also have a voracious appetite for adventure, which could very well include multiple lovers and numerous affairs.
Gemini May 21 — June 21
The Twins are daring and curious. They thrive on excitement, and sometimes on danger. They're also incredibly mischievous and enjoy playing games, even with the hearts and minds of others. They become easily bored with a lover once the "new" has worn off.
Leo July 23 — August 22
The Lion is a perfectionist and is always on the prowl for the "perfect" mate. Unfortunately, few relationships are perfect, and once a Leo discovers that his lover can't or won't keep up with him sexually and intellectually, he'll move on to more fertile ground. The king of the jungle often has a long history of numerous lovers and relationships.
Scorpio October 23 — November 21
Scorpios are often the most powerful beings among the zodiac signs, and they love and seek power. They are difficult to get to know, as they often hide their true feelings. Reasons a relationship with a Scorpio can be difficult include the Scorpion's tendency to always thinks he's right and that he's not very forgiving. Once they feel that they've been wronged, it's difficult for them to "forgive and forget."
Sagittarius November 22 — December 21
The Archer is generally a free spirit who hates rules, including the restrictions inherent in a monogamous relationship. This sign loves exploration of all kinds, including adventurous forays into the areas of sex and relationships.
Aquarius January 20 — February 18
This sign is often flighty and unpredictable. The Water Bearer is very independent and unconventional. Many who fall under this sign might eschew the bonds of marriage or serious relationships, seeing them as boring.
Pisces February 19 — March 20
The most sensitive sign in the zodiac, Pisceans often battle conflicting inner emotions. The Fish live in their own little fantasy land and sometimes have difficulty handling the demands of the real world, including relationships. They become easily disillusioned when a lover or a relationship does not meet the high expectations of their fantasies.
Astrological Guidelines
Remember that this article just serves as a basic guide to illustrate what the faithfulness tendencies are for each zodiac sig
Aries March 21 — April 19
The Ram is independent and impulsive, often acting before fully considering the consequences of their actions. They also have a voracious appetite for adventure, which could very well include multiple lovers and numerous affairs.
Gemini May 21 — June 21
The Twins are daring and curious. They thrive on excitement, and sometimes on danger. They're also incredibly mischievous and enjoy playing games, even with the hearts and minds of others. They become easily bored with a lover once the "new" has worn off.
Leo July 23 — August 22
The Lion is a perfectionist and is always on the prowl for the "perfect" mate. Unfortunately, few relationships are perfect, and once a Leo discovers that his lover can't or won't keep up with him sexually and intellectually, he'll move on to more fertile ground. The king of the jungle often has a long history of numerous lovers and relationships.
Scorpio October 23 — November 21
Scorpios are often the most powerful beings among the zodiac signs, and they love and seek power. They are difficult to get to know, as they often hide their true feelings. Reasons a relationship with a Scorpio can be difficult include the Scorpion's tendency to always thinks he's right and that he's not very forgiving. Once they feel that they've been wronged, it's difficult for them to "forgive and forget."
Sagittarius November 22 — December 21
The Archer is generally a free spirit who hates rules, including the restrictions inherent in a monogamous relationship. This sign loves exploration of all kinds, including adventurous forays into the areas of sex and relationships.
Aquarius January 20 — February 18
This sign is often flighty and unpredictable. The Water Bearer is very independent and unconventional. Many who fall under this sign might eschew the bonds of marriage or serious relationships, seeing them as boring.
Pisces February 19 — March 20
The most sensitive sign in the zodiac, Pisceans often battle conflicting inner emotions. The Fish live in their own little fantasy land and sometimes have difficulty handling the demands of the real world, including relationships. They become easily disillusioned when a lover or a relationship does not meet the high expectations of their fantasies.
Astrological Guidelines
Remember that this article just serves as a basic guide to illustrate what the faithfulness tendencies are for each zodiac sig
..sign. It doesn't mean that if your love interest's sign is more monogamous that you can rest on your laurels and trust they'll never cheat on you. Similarly, you shouldn't abandon all hope and interest you might have in someone with a zodiac sign that doesn't lend itself to fidelity. All good, strong relationships require work and understanding from both participants. But why navigate the tempestuous waters of finding love on your own? Take the first step by consulting a psychic today to find out more about the specific ins and outs of your love interest and your compatibility with them.
Sorry this was so long and I had to break it up. Also someone posted before I could finish!
Lies
I'm more loyal then all the Taurus's in my life. All of them the men and women have cheated since I have known them. They won't leave you but they will cheat u.
I'm more loyal then all the Taurus's in my life. All of them the men and women have cheated since I have known them. They won't leave you but they will cheat u.
I'm a Leo and I Iove monogamy ^.^ the difference between the "hard to hold" and those who are "serial monogamous" is I look for someone that'll fulfill my needs at least 80% so I date a lot and am hard to hold on to because my standards. But honestly I'm not hard to hold on to because you're not getting too far if we don't mesh lol
But ya most earth signs (men and women) have cheated. No fire signs or air signs though, except for most Aries men I know, now they're hard to hold on to. At least to most women I've seen them with.
But ya most earth signs (men and women) have cheated. No fire signs or air signs though, except for most Aries men I know, now they're hard to hold on to. At least to most women I've seen them with.
Posted by SugarfootPosted by FireyKitty
I'm a Leo and I Iove monogamy ^.^ the difference between the "hard to hold" and those who are "serial monogamous" is I look for someone that'll fulfill my needs at least 80% so I date a lot and am hard to hold on to because my standards. But honestly I'm not hard to hold on to because you're not getting too far if we don't mesh lol
But ya most earth signs (men and women) have cheated. No fire signs or air signs though, except for most Aries men I know, now they're hard to hold on to. At least to most women I've seen them with.
Agreed on the Aries male. Every single married Aries man I know has cheated on their relationship and/or marriage.click to expand
unfortunately, this is my experience.
Welp, as an Aquarian, I'll say this...Um, I wouldn't even enter into a relationship with someone I perceived to be boring lol There's a reason Aqua's wait quite a while before committing.
We don't commit during the honey-moon phase b/c we're much more interested in how you'll be/look/act once that's all worn off. And if we still like you, still feel that you can stimulate us & still feel like you're good enough, then we'll commit.
And once we commit, we commit; we don't go run into someone else's arms during troubled times b/c we were aware from the beginning that all relationships have their troubled/boring/rough patches.
That's why we wait so long to commit in the 1st place; it's b/c we're trying to figure out whose worth sticking it out during those guaranteed rough patches in the future!!
So yes we are hard to pin down BEFORE the commitment, but once we're committed, the only thing that would cause a separation is something deal breaking. And we're not shallow enough to consider 1 rough patch/phase of "boring" to be a deal breaker lol We're not THAT cold-hearted, damn!
We don't commit during the honey-moon phase b/c we're much more interested in how you'll be/look/act once that's all worn off. And if we still like you, still feel that you can stimulate us & still feel like you're good enough, then we'll commit.
And once we commit, we commit; we don't go run into someone else's arms during troubled times b/c we were aware from the beginning that all relationships have their troubled/boring/rough patches.
That's why we wait so long to commit in the 1st place; it's b/c we're trying to figure out whose worth sticking it out during those guaranteed rough patches in the future!!
So yes we are hard to pin down BEFORE the commitment, but once we're committed, the only thing that would cause a separation is something deal breaking. And we're not shallow enough to consider 1 rough patch/phase of "boring" to be a deal breaker lol We're not THAT cold-hearted, damn!
Posted by SugarfootPosted by FireyKitty
I'm a Leo and I Iove monogamy ^.^ the difference between the "hard to hold" and those who are "serial monogamous" is I look for someone that'll fulfill my needs at least 80% so I date a lot and am hard to hold on to because my standards. But honestly I'm not hard to hold on to because you're not getting too far if we don't mesh lol
But ya most earth signs (men and women) have cheated. No fire signs or air signs though, except for most Aries men I know, now they're hard to hold on to. At least to most women I've seen them with.
Agreed on the Aries male. Every single married Aries man I know has cheated on their relationship and/or marriage.click to expand
My Aries male friend tried to cheat on his fiance with me, calling me the prototype. I think it has a lot to do with arrogance of thinking they can do whatever with whomever and whenever.
Ahhh NOT THE RULES!
@Feby,
Ive never met an aries man who didnt cheat...ive never dated an aries by the way or had sex with one...i think
Ive never met an aries man who didnt cheat...ive never dated an aries by the way or had sex with one...i think
Posted by DonJohnson
The world will be a better place when you accept the man for cheating. The union will be happier.
Not emotional cheating like taking another girl out or buying her gifts etc. If the guy can bang out side pieces.
just accept that you are with a desireable prize alpha male.... and be content with what you have. For you are the only one that he showers with attention and love.
Posted by DonJohnson
every alpha male in history have sidepieces.
this is a fact of life.
MAO
Caesar
Fidel Castro
Alexander The Great
Genghis Khan
Arnold
Do I need to go on?
Your brainwashed perception of the real nature of alpha male isn't reality. You are thinking of the exact opposite of the alpha male.
He's so secure he doesn't need to work out
He's so secure he walks away from every fight
He's so secure he doesn't care about how he looks or smells
He's so secure he'll never cheat on you. He's thanking God everyday he has you.
ALPHA MALE!
WRONG
talk about a brain washed perception...for one, most "alpha males" are that way because they are never happy with themselves, are insecure and have a desperate need for control and admiration. That's a fact of life. It's good in that it always pushes them to be greater and they will never be complacent, but those are weaknesses in character when it comes to everything but professional lives and power. We are talking about relationships here. Secondly, you act like it's either complete alpha male or 90 pound computer geek. no. lol.
the alpha male is the leader, who's SEEN as strong, confident, and in control...but usually aren't beneath the surface. Let's not try to be condescending because i disagree with you. Sorry, but what i said was true of most male leaders in history, definitely not "utter horsecrap." It does in fact take some serious insecurity to drive someone to gain as much power as the men you listed. But of course, being an "alpha male," you're right and i'm clueless because i disagree...lolll
Posted by MellyMel909
From urbandictionary:
6. Alpha Male
One of the 10% of males who engages in 90% of the total fucking.
LOL now that i cannot argue with
Posted by DonJohnsonPosted by ANRivas
the alpha male is the leader, who's SEEN as strong, confident, and in control...but usually aren't beneath the surface. Let's not try to be condescending because i disagree with you. Sorry, but what i said was true of most male leaders in history, definitely not "utter horsecrap." It does in fact take some serious insecurity to drive someone to gain as much power as the men you listed. But of course, being an "alpha male," you're right and i'm clueless because i disagree...lolll
insecurity drives alpha males, but because YOU don't define that as alpha, then it's no longer alpha?
This is how delusional people think.
You're welcome. seek help.click to expand
Uh no, the DEFINITIONS of alpha don't define insecurity as alpha...in fact YOU just said i was brainwashed for even thinking this. You are clearly arguing just to argue though(quite childishly by the way) so i'll just leave this one alone.
Cancer men
Taurus men
Aquarius - should probably be #1 on the list after Cancer
That's all that really qualifies.
Taurus men
Aquarius - should probably be #1 on the list after Cancer
That's all that really qualifies.
i was just brainwashed and completely wrong about what an alpha male is and full of horsecrap because i was saying EXACTLY WHAT YOU'RE SAYING NOW, only adding that this is not positive in a relationship.
me: "most "alpha males" are that way because they are never happy with themselves, are insecure and have a desperate need for control and admiration. That's a fact of life. It's good in that it always pushes them to be greater and they will never be complacent, but those are weaknesses in character when it comes to everything but professional lives and power."
you: "every thing you regurgitated right there is utter horsecrap."
either you are totally trolling right now or you really can't even get your own argument straight.
me: "most "alpha males" are that way because they are never happy with themselves, are insecure and have a desperate need for control and admiration. That's a fact of life. It's good in that it always pushes them to be greater and they will never be complacent, but those are weaknesses in character when it comes to everything but professional lives and power."
you: "every thing you regurgitated right there is utter horsecrap."
either you are totally trolling right now or you really can't even get your own argument straight.
lol go ahead, keep calling me names and trying to change your argument to be right. I said they LOOK to be strong but in fact are weak-a strong leader=/= a strong person- and i've proven that. Being condescending and childish won't change anything here.
a blink of an eye ago YOU didn't think insecurity was alpha so please spare me this "see i was right all along" nonsense
ugh. men. lol
if you think i'm the one circling the facts here, you must not even be able to read what you are typing. but you're right...my father always says you can't argue with a fool, so i'll stop here. 🙂
OMG go to the "How do YOU define an Alpha male?" page and post there! sheeesh lol!
Sorry!! but hey, it applies...kinda...about the sleeping around anyway lol.
Posted by tw1nk1e
Don doesn't know how to discuss anything but sluts and alpha males. Don't give him too many expectations.
LOL!
Posted by tw1nk1e
Don doesn't know how to discuss anything but sluts and alpha males. Don't give him too many expectations.
lesson learned!
either way, to get back on topic, i think it's just insecure men of any and all sign who cheat. tons of stories of cheating on the boards of the "faithful" signs listed here, tons of men from the "hard to hold" list who are faithful. It's definitely a matter of character IMO.
all signs*
Posted by krysrenee7
Welp, as an Aquarian, I'll say this...Um, I wouldn't even enter into a relationship with someone I perceived to be boring lol There's a reason Aqua's wait quite a while before committing.
We don't commit during the honey-moon phase b/c we're much more interested in how you'll be/look/act once that's all worn off. And if we still like you, still feel that you can stimulate us & still feel like you're good enough, then we'll commit.
And once we commit, we commit; we don't go run into someone else's arms during troubled times b/c we were aware from the beginning that all relationships have their troubled/boring/rough patches.
That's why we wait so long to commit in the 1st place; it's b/c we're trying to figure out whose worth sticking it out during those guaranteed rough patches in the future!!!
+1
Posted by GemStar05
OMG go to the "How do YOU define an Alpha male?" page and post there! sheeesh lol!
That's hilarious! LMAO!!
Posted by aquarius09Posted by GemStar05
OMG go to the "How do YOU define an Alpha male?" page and post there! sheeesh lol!
That's hilarious! LMAO!!click to expand
LOL!
Posted by krysrenee7
Welp, as an Aquarian, I'll say this...Um, I wouldn't even enter into a relationship with someone I perceived to be boring lol There's a reason Aqua's wait quite a while before committing.
We don't commit during the honey-moon phase b/c we're much more interested in how you'll be/look/act once that's all worn off. And if we still like you, still feel that you can stimulate us & still feel like you're good enough, then we'll commit.
And once we commit, we commit; we don't go run into someone else's arms during troubled times b/c we were aware from the beginning that all relationships have their troubled/boring/rough patches.
That's why we wait so long to commit in the 1st place; it's b/c we're trying to figure out whose worth sticking it out during those guaranteed rough patches in the future!!
So yes we are hard to pin down BEFORE the commitment, but once we're committed, the only thing that would cause a separation is something deal breaking. And we're not shallow enough to consider 1 rough patch/phase of "boring" to be a deal breaker lol We're not THAT cold-hearted, damn!
idk Krys
my ex aqau friend cheated on her man so badly he was a pisces...that girl messed with so many dudes while they were together.
Posted by bkbella86Posted by krysrenee7
Welp, as an Aquarian, I'll say this...Um, I wouldn't even enter into a relationship with someone I perceived to be boring lol There's a reason Aqua's wait quite a while before committing.
We don't commit during the honey-moon phase b/c we're much more interested in how you'll be/look/act once that's all worn off. And if we still like you, still feel that you can stimulate us & still feel like you're good enough, then we'll commit.
And once we commit, we commit; we don't go run into someone else's arms during troubled times b/c we were aware from the beginning that all relationships have their troubled/boring/rough patches.
That's why we wait so long to commit in the 1st place; it's b/c we're trying to figure out whose worth sticking it out during those guaranteed rough patches in the future!!
So yes we are hard to pin down BEFORE the commitment, but once we're committed, the only thing that would cause a separation is something deal breaking. And we're not shallow enough to consider 1 rough patch/phase of "boring" to be a deal breaker lol We're not THAT cold-hearted, damn!
idk Krys
my ex aqau friend cheated on her man so badly he was a pisces...that girl messed with so many dudes while they were together.click to expand
sigh. some people believe a certain sign/placement is above the law.
Faithful: All 2 feminine elements. After all, they seek security and stability.
Hard to hold: All 2 masculine elements. Maybe except for Leo and Libra - they appreciate romance to the core. Everyone else is fiercely independent and freedom-oriented.
That also depends on interplanetary aspects. For example, if Uranus forms an aspect with your Venus or Mars, then you might have some commitment issues. With Pluto and/or Saturn, however, the whole thing is all set for more deep and serious experiences.
Hard to hold: All 2 masculine elements. Maybe except for Leo and Libra - they appreciate romance to the core. Everyone else is fiercely independent and freedom-oriented.
That also depends on interplanetary aspects. For example, if Uranus forms an aspect with your Venus or Mars, then you might have some commitment issues. With Pluto and/or Saturn, however, the whole thing is all set for more deep and serious experiences.
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Faithful Zodiac Signs
The following signs generally tend to need and desire a long, stable relationship. That's not to say that every individual will always be faithful to any given partner. Their emotional requirements must be fulfilled, and a trained psychic can help you discern how best to meet your partner's needs, as well as your own.
Taurus April 20 — May 20
The Bull loves his "creature comforts" and is very sensual. He thrives on stability and is usually extremely dependable, reliable, and loyal. Taureans are great planners and are always looking ahead, ready to tackle any problems that might arise in their lives, including possible obstacles in their marriage or relationship.
Cancer June 22 — July 22
Of all the 12 signs, Cancer is the most concerned with a secure, loving relationship. The Crab loves home and family and is not happy unless he has deep emotional ties. The Cancerian is usually very nurturing and tends to take good care of everyone he cares about.
Virgo August 23 — September 22
Virgos are sensitive, creative and tend to be intuitive when it comes to the feelings and needs of others. They are usually very supportive of friends and lovers, always ready to provide a "shoulder to cry on." The kind Virgin often makes a wonderful life partner.
Libra September 23 — October 22
This sign seeks peace and harmony (especially in relationships) due to an innate longing for justice and fairness. Libras are creative and multifaceted, and when trouble rears its ugly head in a relationship, the Libra will often escape into his own little world to sort things out. Usually an exciting lover, Libras tend to be trustworthy and loyal.
Capricorn December 22 — January 19
The Goat loves stability, especially in a relationship. Most Capricorns realize that success in any form requires hard work and determination, and the Goat is not afraid of either. When obstacles in a relationship arise, as they always do, Capricorn has the patience required to work things out.
Signs That Are Often "Hard to Hold"
Some zodiac signs have personalities that just don't mesh well with the demands of fidelity. If you've encountered one of these individuals in your quest for finding love, tread carefully. They are capable of deep emotional ties, but it sometimes goes against their nature. A professional psychic can help you tame any of these "beasts," however, by offering advice about what really mak