Fixed signs and Cardinal signs relationships

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by leo500 on Sunday, July 5, 2015 and has 17 replies.
I see very often these pairs. Specially long term relationship, but often they do not last.

I see a lot of Aquas with Capricorns, Leos with Cancers, Scorpios with Libra. As for Taurus and Aries i don??t see them together. I had a 2 year relation with a Cancer woman. My bestfriend Aqua, his girlfriend is Capricorn, they seem to understand eachother. Lot of Libras do everything they can to help Scorpios lol.. It??s fantastic, it might be coincidence but Fixed signs with Cardinal signs can work long term.
I am First Decan Taurus and my ex bff was First Decan Arian, we lasted six years 3 of it friends and 3 of it living together. When he wasn't thinking with his dick we got along just fine...I stopped everything eventually and left him and moved on....we were both the same age just two weeks apart.. From 19-25 years of being with someone like this, opened my pretty hazel eyes for sure...

I met another Aries 3rd Decan and we are extremely alike in personality traits which are good and bad. The thing is who is going to be less stubborn and more willing to compromise. It is more a nature bond of friendship we have.. Nothing is rushed.

I also met Aquarian alot more than Aries though. And lots of spontaneous moments which are fun..
Yup fixed are on their own..
The only cardinal sign that I can tolerate is Cancer. Every other cardinal sign (at least this is the case with the people that I've might) is unbelievably obnoxious one way or another. In Aries, I'm primarily irritated by their arrogance, and Capricorn by their stubborn ignorance.

I can tolerate Aries a bit, but Capricorns.. I've never met a group of people so stubbornly stupid and aggressive as them. I get that sometimes they're just trying to help (which is when it's tolerable), but other times, it's just painful to watch and listen to them. They'll randomly jump from having fun, to being serious (at the wrong times), and they have a poor sense of humor as they tend to (mis)interpret light-hearted jokes as attacks or insults. I do believe that there are some of them whom are genuinely intelligent, but I don't think they know how to properly apply their knowledge. Also, the ones I've met like to think that they're my dad or something.
to be honest, majority of relationships i know in real life are mutable and cardinal suns and fixed and fixed. so weird. lol there's a few that are mutable and fixed.Majority of them are mutable and cardinal then fixed and fixed.

that's our uncle pisces with cardinal double libra

and the other uncle pisces with fixed leo aunty.

my aqua gf with Scorpio 2nd decan husband. (both airy)

neighbor lady leo with virgo hubby. (now i remember they too are mutable and fixed but they are not related)

ohh yeah mutable and mutable are virgo father in law with gemini step mom and gemini grandpa with pisces grandma.



there's alot of mutable with mutable i realize. i guess mutability "get" eachother.
@YourGrace- Yeah they say Taurus is polar opposite to Scorpio because they are six months apart or so and very much compatible, so that is what we look for or what? Hm after that next would be Capricorn, Pisces, and Cancer for Taurus and that is in Alot of Astrology Guides everywhere....
Yes, the interesting point here is that the Fixed element goes for the cCardinal sign just behind him astrological speaking lol.. Since when a Leo date a cancer? such diferent personalitys? but the fact is that the Cancer knows the deep side of a Leo. Aquas too. They get along with the cardinal sign just behind them, Capricorn. Same situation with Scorpios and Libras.

Now if we see these relations in a different view. Fixed signs with the same cardinal element. Leo Aries, Aqua Libras, Scorpio Cancer, and Taurus Capricorn?

That??s totally diferent, it is cool, it is long relation and mutual respect in my view.
But we need space for mutable signs... :/
Yes were are @ Ssupes..
Posted by wecarealot
LOL this thread is showing how arrogant fixed signs are. No wonder they're on their own. "No one can handle us because we're special!!1"

K.Laughing

Just let them have that.
A fish will come by and crush their delusion eventually.
I will only address the work environment.
I once worked with all cardinal and fixed.
And it was beautiful. Things just run smoother like a well oiled machine.

Now we have a few Mutables in the mix and it's all gone to hell.
Trying to get rid of them idiots. Sag, Pisces and Gemini. The Gem is leaving and the Fish is trying. Thank goodness.
If only we could give the Sag the boot. But she loves drama too much to leave.
The Sag is one of those types that sees you in a difficult place and decides to put more grief on you for good measure.

I am most comfortable with other Cardinals.
We have the same get up and go energy levels.
But if I had to choose between a Fixed and a Mutable it would be Fixed.
Fixed signs are a lazy lot, but they are much easier to work with than Mutables.

Mutables come in and all of a sudden we have manipulations, misunderstandings, sensitive ego's and stupidity.

I have been working with a group of ladies and almost all whom have come and gone have been either fixed or cardinal and we just work wonderful together.
There are exceptions. A Cancer gal who is very outspoken got into with two fixed, Leo and Scorpio.
She ran her mouth too much so she had to go.Laughing

When a mutable comes along it's a disaster. They can't handle the straight talk and dynamic. One Pisces just walked off the job because she didn't like how a fixed and cardinal were doing things. So sensitive and slow as fuck. A Gemini is leaving for another unit. She hates the place.
I say good riddance, she came in with drama and deceit when she should have just done her job and been straightforward.

A straight talking bunch the Cardinals and Fixed signs make.
It can be a bit annoying with the drama but it also can be fun.Laughing

Our boss is a Virgo which explains why we continue to have ongoing issues that frustrate us all.
And the heifer stole my art work and hung it in her office. Scared
Because I like the Virgo personality, I give her a pass. She's kind of funny though.

A Taurus from the other side of the unit has built a close bond with us.
She is a pathological liar and keeps drama going, I believe she has a Gemini moon.
She clashes with the Leo on our side but the Leo try's to keep peace by keeping her distance from her.Laughing
Her side has ongoing drama, her immediate supervisor is a Gemini.
I rest my case. Things tend to work better when I work with Mutables at a distance like they stay in the office and rarely if ever come to the unit.
We just have an acquired taste and not so high maintenance.. tbh.. What's wrong with that?

And I am perfectly fine with learning from someone else....geez not that stubborn. But my moon makes me opinionated on your actions and thought process..

I am a stellium fixed element of surprises.
Posted by LunarMaiden
I will only address the work environment.
I once worked with all cardinal and fixed.
And it was beautiful. Things just run smoother like a well oiled machine.

Now we have a few Mutables in the mix and it's all gone to hell....


Laughing

I love this.

Since others are bringing up their (current) relationships with mutables and other fixed signs, I might as well.

So, as of right now, I'm currently working on a "secret" project with a Taurus. It's not a huge secret, there are people that know about it, but they don't know the details. Essentially it's a project that we hope will contribute to a community that we're both a part of. I've got to say, it's pretty amazing. The project itself isn't super-amazing because it isn't really anything *new*, but our end-goal is something that nobody's done before, and it's likely to have a phenomenal impact on the community. I really like how persistent Taurus are when it comes to getting stuff done, especially when they don't exactly know what they're dealing with. That's not meant to be an offensive statement, by the way; on the contrary, it's meant to be a compliment. Some of the work is something new to the Taurus; this project has been a learning experience for the both of us. Once the project is complete, I hope to collaborate on more in the future with them.

Same with Scorpio - they also enjoy getting stuff done.

As far as Aquarians are concerned, they make good friends. Leos too, but our friendships are usually short-lived.

For mutables, my favorite of the bunch is Pisces. They're really sweet and make me feel comfortable in a way no other sign has ever been able to. The only thing that bugs me about them is that they're kinda slow.

I don't like Gemini and Virgo. Geminis are attention-whores, and Virgos are cranky and manipulative. Most Virgos I've met have ugly characters deep-down. On the outside, they seem nice and helpful, and they can be, but on the inside, they're attention whores, and are looking to cause trouble.

My mother had a Virgo boyfriend, and he was an OK guy to me(from an objective standpoint he was scum), but he was homeless. A mistake on the behalf of my mother for allowing him to live in her closet, but yeah. He'd make up shit about how he was a music producer and had met people like Snoop Dogg. One day he didn't show up for an important event so my mother ended her relationship with him; she was done with his shit. He didn't have a job, and was out smoking weed with his friends regularly. Months later he kept calling my mom, stating that he was successful, etc. We don't care.

As far as Sagittarians go, they're ok.
Posted by Curiousram
I'm mutable dominant and fixed signs scare me (aqua,scorpio, and taurus esp) Lol. I also hate being controlled, so if you wanna take the lead you gotta do it in a different manner. I'm pretty bossy for a mutable dominant person. I think cardinals can only handle me.

but i read that it's cardinals that control or are controlling.

fixed is more stubborn and set in their ways.

mutable is just all over the place lol

look at the title for Capricorn forum: "ambitious but controlling!!" Laughing

Posted by Curiousram
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Curiousram
I'm mutable dominant and fixed signs scare me (aqua,scorpio, and taurus esp) Lol. I also hate being controlled, so if you wanna take the lead you gotta do it in a different manner. I'm pretty bossy for a mutable dominant person. I think cardinals can only handle me.

but i read that it's cardinals that control or are controlling.

fixed is more stubborn and set in their ways.

mutable is just all over the place lol

look at the title for Capricorn forum: "ambitious but controlling!!" Laughing



LMAO i dont even know then. Fixed signs are very bossy...
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my husband is double fixed, he jokes to me, "Im the boss of you and don't you forget it."

Laughing

heehee.