Friends from the Past

Posted by xghy
Gradual fallout. No grudges but we grew apart, different paths.

Memories that we shared fade each day.

The feeling is pretty mutual.

Weirdly, i've had dreams about her over the past few years we were slowly growing apart.

I think the maturity level determines compatibility and interests.

I somewhat feel bitter about it but I can't say I made efforts to keep it glued. So we both let it go. I let it go.

This reminds me, I have to delete and throw out pictures.

Posted by TomSawyer
Not always, once in a while.

Both Scorpios too

Posted by edgelord
i have on again off again things with a few friends. one of us will think a little too much about the other one and reach out and start all over again.

i've never had that feeling with someone who i didn't reconnect with eventually.

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Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by xghy
Gradual fallout. No grudges but we grew apart, different paths.

Memories that we shared fade each day.

The feeling is pretty mutual.

Weirdly, i've had dreams about her over the past few years we were slowly growing apart.

I think the maturity level determines compatibility and interests.

I somewhat feel bitter about it but I can't say I made efforts to keep it glued. So we both let it go. I let it go.

This reminds me, I have to delete and throw out pictures.

So you're actively trying to move on? Is this recent?

See, I've already gone through that stage. That was years ago but I've find myself through these years still thinking about those memories and it hadn't quite lessened. I'm just starting to think why and if I should try to work it out.

Now I am. The slow pull was painful, sometimes you just have to rip it off.

My cap friend told me not to do that because people are just in different stages in theirbloves right now and we might cross paths again with the same interests.

I thought about it for a few years while barely making efforts (on both sides). I don't want to feel any negativity, so I decided it's time to just let it go. Our choice of friend depends on our life style . I guess.

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Posted by xghy

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by xghy

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by xghy
Gradual fallout. No grudges but we grew apart, different paths.

Memories that we shared fade each day.

The feeling is pretty mutual.

Weirdly, i've had dreams about her over the past few years we were slowly growing apart.

I think the maturity level determines compatibility and interests.

I somewhat feel bitter about it but I can't say I made efforts to keep it glued. So we both let it go. I let it go.

This reminds me, I have to delete and throw out pictures.

So you're actively trying to move on? Is this recent?

See, I've already gone through that stage. That was years ago but I've find myself through these years still thinking about those memories and it hadn't quite lessened. I'm just starting to think why and if I should try to work it out.

Now I am. The slow pull was painful, sometimes you just have to rip it off.

My cap friend told me not to do that because people are just in different stages in theirbloves right now and we might cross paths again with the same interests.

I thought about it for a few years while barely making efforts (on both sides). I don't want to feel any negativity, so I decided it's time to just let it go. Our choice of friend depends on our life style . I guess.

That's very true about people being in different stages and sometimes years after that changes and you find value in each other again, I suppose.

I don't think I want to rekindle our friendship. I had a revolving door policy before but too many accidents.

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Posted by Nixx
Yes. Same, sun, mercury, venus and mars. All conjunct the other's. His moon is Aries though. We had been friends since 6th grade. This year he told me he's been in love with me since high school and eventually blocked me. He's been in a relationship since highschool and is engaged. I assume things got too messy but I always wonder how he is all the time but I resent the fact that I was never told why we stopped talking after years of friendship. We've always been upfront with eachother, I'm equal parts pissed off and depressed about it.

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Posted by Nixx
Yes. Same, sun, mercury, venus and mars. All conjunct the other's. His moon is Aries though. We had been friends since 6th grade. This year he told me he's been in love with me since high school and eventually blocked me. He's been in a relationship since highschool and is engaged. I assume things got too messy but I always wonder how he is all the time but I resent the fact that I was never told why we stopped talking after years of friendship. We've always been upfront with eachother, I'm equal parts pissed off and depressed about it.

Did you try to reach out and find out? I'm sorry that you went through that.

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Posted by Nixx
Yes. Same, sun, mercury, venus and mars. All conjunct the other's. His moon is Aries though. We had been friends since 6th grade. This year he told me he's been in love with me since high school and eventually blocked me. He's been in a relationship since highschool and is engaged. I assume things got too messy but I always wonder how he is all the time but I resent the fact that I was never told why we stopped talking after years of friendship. We've always been upfront with eachother, I'm equal parts pissed off and depressed about it.

Did you try to reach out and find out? I'm sorry that you went through that.

I sent him a couple messages and his partner too. I almost went over to their house but I had a full on panic attack before getting in my car. I'm doing better now, I hope that someday I'll find out what happened. Hopefully we can talk about it and patch things up, even if I don't agree with how he handled things, I know he's going through a rough time too.

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