Full moon in cancer ugh

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by BetaBanana on Tuesday, December 15, 2015 and has 20 replies.
So this lovely holiday will be spent with my children my boyfriend and his side of the family. Yay 😑. Did I mention his mother invited his ex wife? And no I don't mean for the day I mean we will both be staying under the same roof for 2 weeks. Anyways to the astrology portion my boyfriend is cancer and so is his ex wife . I'm Capricorn (bday day after Xmas) and the full moon will be in cancer on Xmas. So what are your predictions for my holiday ?
Posted by DonJohnson
your man will be thinking of his ex when you 2 are having sex.

Haha probably won't be any fucking going on
I kind of have no choice in this situation we are in between places and our new apt isn't available Til the first and his mother who is definitely crazy (Aqua) had invited his ex and their daughter to stay with them previously . I told them how I felt but there's pretty much nothing I can do now but put a smile on my face .
Posted by Vanish
Tell his mother you, him, and the kids aren't coming. Stop taking other people's shit and be a bawse. His mother sounds like a cancer nut case too smile

If I was in your situation though, I'd go and make really awkward jokes and I'd probably try to set them up just to see what would happen.

lol fun idea , I'll probably just drink the entire time and act like a nut case
Posted by dewiklaessen1991
Oh you can definitely do something what kind of Capricorn woman are you it looks like you're a soft cap and not a hard one of I were you I would just go somewhere else for Christmas with the kids and your man Disneyland or stay at your parents just change plans and if he doesn't agree you tell him you're gonna celebrate Christmas somewhere else with the kids without him sounds wrong but crying helps with cancerman haha making them feel guilty or give them the feeling they don't try hard enough sorry but I would not accept it specially ex not out of jealousy but respect you just don't do that exes belong in the past and should not be in the present anymore but that's my opinion



Yes exactly RESPECT and consideration are the two words that come to mind. He agrees that it's not ideal and in no way am I soft cap I'm as tough as they come . We are in a tight place right now like I said we don't have anywhere else to go other than with my family but he really wants to spend it with his daughter from previous marriage as well with us and I can't take that away from him .
Stupidest idea ever. Don't do it. Mind games the whole time, watch.
Posted by BetaBanana
So this lovely holiday will be spent with my children my boyfriend and his side of the family. Yay 😑. Did I mention his mother invited his ex wife? And no I don't mean for the day I mean we will both be staying under the same roof for 2 weeks. Anyways to the astrology portion my boyfriend is cancer and so is his ex wife . I'm Capricorn (bday day after Xmas) and the full moon will be in cancer on Xmas. So what are your predictions for my holiday ?


Why exactly does his ex have to stay there for 2 weeks as well?...something is off, I would not stand for this one bit.
I'd break that Cancer bitch of yours shell into pieces. Complete disrespect.



Because she was invited there for Xmas before we knew we were going to go there we thought just his daughter was going to be there but apparently her mom as well. Yes I hate the situation but nothing I can change
I can't say no because it's his only opportunity to see his daughter who lives across the country
im not asking for advice on the situation was more asking what to expect with the full moon in cancer .the situation sucks and is pretty uncomfortable I will make the best of it , there is nothing I can do to change it. I trust my boyfriend and want him to be happy and for all of us to spend time with his daughter who we rarely see.
Posted by Vixen2
Posted by BetaBanana
So this lovely holiday will be spent with my children my boyfriend and his side of the family. Yay 😑. Did I mention his mother invited his ex wife? And no I don't mean for the day I mean we will both be staying under the same roof for 2 weeks. Anyways to the astrology portion my boyfriend is cancer and so is his ex wife . I'm Capricorn (bday day after Xmas) and the full moon will be in cancer on Xmas. So what are your predictions for my holiday ?

wow...ex wife, well that's frigging awkward. That's something straight out of comedy movie. WTF
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Haha yeah I know more like a horror movie for me
Posted by DonJohnson
Posted by BetaBanana
Posted by DonJohnson
your man will be thinking of his ex when you 2 are having sex.

Haha probably won't be any fucking going on


for 2 weeks?

r u serious?


he will think of her even more whilst sexual frustration with you.
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My thoughts exactly. Not having sex for two weeks while staying with his ex-wife is a terrible plan.
Posted by BlackMamba
Look Weak one i already pegged you.

let's get back to the CAp....cap what is the story between the exes?

They have a daughter together and dated in high school then were married for less than 2 years they rarely talk because she is pretty much a bitch when it comes to their daughter but his mom loves her and thinks I'm a cold bitch which I am to her because she's fucking crazy and not in the fun way.his mom still puts pictures up of her around the house and posts them on fb . His ex had no problem with us being there she said " as long as they doesn't hate me " and my boyfriend was upset with his mom but they can't uninvite her . Pretty much a mess
Posted by duchesslibro
Posted by DonJohnson
Posted by BetaBanana
Posted by DonJohnson
your man will be thinking of his ex when you 2 are having sex.

Haha probably won't be any fucking going on


for 2 weeks?

r u serious?


he will think of her even more whilst sexual frustration with you.

My thoughts exactly. Not having sex for two weeks while staying with his ex-wife is a terrible plan.
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Lol seriously
😢 it's not that I don't want to but we will be sleeping in the living room lol I mean I can always get creative
Posted by BetaBanana
😢 it's not that I don't want to but we will be sleeping in the living room lol I mean I can always get creative

You need to get creative.
In a nutshell.. Transit Moon Conjunct Natal Sun (so the Cancers) is a comfortable, warm, lovely energy.

Transit Moon Opposite Natal Sun (you) is uncomfortable.

But the moon will change a bunch over the course of two weeks. You'll probably have 1-2 square days when it will be uncomfortable and tense for the Caps and Cancers.. depending on the dates etc. Also this only considers your Suns. It's more complicated than that of course.

I'd say your focus should be on keeping things kosher, warm, and lovey with your man. Don't get your feathers ruffled. You do not want to be the cold crazy bitch while their all feeling warm and cozy on Christmas Day. Fake it if you must.
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Posted by duchesslibro
In a nutshell.. Transit Moon Conjunct Natal Sun (so the Cancers) is a comfortable, warm, lovely energy.

Transit Moon Opposite Natal Sun (you) is uncomfortable.

But the moon will change a bunch over the course of two weeks. You'll probably have 1-2 square days when it will be uncomfortable and tense for the Caps and Cancers.. depending on the dates etc. Also this only considers your Suns. It's more complicated than that of course.

I'd say your focus should be on keeping things kosher, warm, and lovey with your man. Don't get your feathers ruffled. You do not want to be the cold crazy bitch while their all feeling warm and cozy on Christmas Day. Fake it if you must.


Thanks great advice I'm so bad at faking it seriously the worst but I shall do my best and bring lots of alcohol
If her presence makes you feel uncomfortable, just pretend she isn't there? Be kind and sweet to everyone and cordial, not rude to her. But think of her as.. like a business aquaintence. You have no obligation to be friendly with her.. but you do need to not be shitty towards her.

Does this make sense? I'm sure you understand.