Have you destroyed jealousy and possessiveness?
This topic was created in the Astrology forum by Shul on Sunday, November 10, 2013 and has 16 replies.
Have you managed to defeat these two demons, who are keeping you captured within the nets of insecurity and draining all your vital energies? And then making you slaves of Fear? From what I've noticed, this is very true for people with their Moon and Venus being in Scorpio, making them extremely obsessive.
Please, share your thoughts, experiences and stories, if you like.
Please, share your thoughts, experiences and stories, if you like.
Jealousy & possessiveness is almost always never about the other person. They are this way with many.
The most important thing you can do to get rid of these demons is to acknowledge that. If you think others are the reason for your demons, you're sub-consciously pushing the work to get rid of them onto other people & since other people never were responsible to begin with, of course the problem will keep on lingering until you have the epiphany that the problem was YOU
Fear is sooooo powerful!
The most important thing you can do to get rid of these demons is to acknowledge that. If you think others are the reason for your demons, you're sub-consciously pushing the work to get rid of them onto other people & since other people never were responsible to begin with, of course the problem will keep on lingering until you have the epiphany that the problem was YOU
Fear is sooooo powerful!
I've come to the conclusion that I'm down right scared of feeling jealousy (in a romantic sense) so I try to neglect it as much as possible. Still I'd like to think that I'm not as jealous as yout typical Taurean.
Possessiveness I find sexy. Can't help it.
Possessiveness I find sexy. Can't help it.
Posted by tw1nk1ePosted by Theatrum
I've come to the conclusion that I'm down right scared of feeling jealousy (in a romantic sense) so I try to neglect it as much as possible. Still I'd like to think that I'm not as jealous as yout typical Taurean.
Possessiveness I find sexy. Can't help it.
I love it if it's done playfully. Not psychotically.click to expand
Of course. Goes without saying that I wouldn't find it sexy if someone wanted to keep me locked up from any possible social interaction haha. There's a middle ground for everything.
Posted by sandynads
for me to not be the 2 above i have to not give a fuck and that's not love to me... but many say it's insecurity and not love as well. idk...
scorpio mars/ venus in taurus. i don't think i can get 2 other mars/ venus combos more jealous and possessive than that.
i'm willing to compromise of course.
You strike me as the type who would feel funny just seeing your partner in the company of someone that's not you and would resist saying anything about it. Going by your chart. True?
Posted by tw1nk1ePosted by TheatrumPosted by tw1nk1ePosted by Theatrum
I've come to the conclusion that I'm down right scared of feeling jealousy (in a romantic sense) so I try to neglect it as much as possible. Still I'd like to think that I'm not as jealous as yout typical Taurean.
Possessiveness I find sexy. Can't help it.
I love it if it's done playfully. Not psychotically.
Of course. Goes without saying that I wouldn't find it sexy if someone wanted to keep me locked up from any possible social interaction haha. There's a middle ground for everything.
Haha, yeah.
But no, I like when my man makes everyone in the room see that I am his. Of course I will go off and chatter, but I like the security that he wants everyone to know that my heart is his.
Balance is key.click to expand
I believe how you present possessiveness/jealousy is the key. There is a difference between "THE FUCK WERE YOU DOING BUYING THAT BITCH COFFEE AT STARBUCKS 08:06 THIS MORNING" and whispering "Where were you last night?" in ther ear when you hold em.
Scenario 1 I'd think they're crazy. Scenario 2 it would turn me on.
Scenario 1 I'd think they're crazy. Scenario 2 it would turn me on.
Posted by tw1nk1ePosted by Theatrum
I believe how you present possessiveness/jealousy is the key. There is a difference between "THE FUCK WERE YOU DOING BUYING THAT BITCH COFFEE AT STARBUCKS 08:06 THIS MORNING" and whispering "Where were you last night?" in ther ear when you hold em.
Scenario 1 I'd think they're crazy. Scenario 2 it would turn me on.
click to expand
damn butterflies :3
Posted by tiziani
A lot of posts I could +1 in this thread.
Balance is such a sexy word.
LOL "Balance is such a sexy word." ~ Libra
Posted by sandynads
i think "mine" is a sexy word.
+1
Posted by tw1nk1e
I like "I'm yours". :pclick to expand
+1
Posted by sandynadsPosted by Theatrum
I believe how you present possessiveness/jealousy is the key. There is a difference between "THE FUCK WERE YOU DOING BUYING THAT BITCH COFFEE AT STARBUCKS 08:06 THIS MORNING" and whispering "Where were you last night?" in ther ear when you hold em.
Scenario 1 I'd think they're crazy. Scenario 2 it would turn me on.
i think i brood in the corner and when asked what's wrong i answer nothing.click to expand
Feminine energy at it's finest
Bottom line: Too much of anything is not good
And jealousy/possessiveness is most likely to lessen the quality & shorten the time-span of the relationship moreso than not.
And jealousy/possessiveness is most likely to lessen the quality & shorten the time-span of the relationship moreso than not.
Personally I want to be possessed/owned and I want to do the same!
Jealousy, not so much. And don't try to control me either!
Jealousy, not so much. And don't try to control me either!
Posted by tw1nk1e
Relationships need transformation.
Indeed.
I have the Venus/Pluto aspect as well, and I have to admit: I felt these two qualities only twice. I was quite ashamed of myself some time later, since I don't treat people like possessions - it goes against my personal constitution. That's probably because Aquarius occupies my 7th (having Pallas there) and 8th houses, and their opposition with my Ascendant and Sun are really like a conjunction, so I'm quite on the opposite side.
Anyway, when someone gets jealous and/or possessive of me, I become rebellious immediately. I can't help it! My Moon is in the 11th house, forming a trine with my Aqua Pallas (justice, politics, strategy). I ain't going to include my 5th house Sag in these matters - it's just as rebellious.
Jealousy vs. rebelliousness is going to be a lifelong duel for me, I guess!
Venus in Scorpio here.. I hate how jealous and possessive I can be... I have learned over the years to reign it in... When I'm really " crazy" ( probably bad choice of words lol) about someone I have a difficult time sharing them... I'd've to be that object of possession and jealousy... It's messed up and I am learning to react differently and to be more aware when these feelings emerge... God help me I'm Libra too!
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