Have you had the following synastry aspects?

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by starrykarz on Tuesday, December 25, 2018 and has 4 replies.
Moon opp sun (he’s moon i’m sun)

Venus SQUARE MARS (both ways/ or “double whammy”)

Moon square mars

and

Mars square pluto (this is our tighest aspect... 1 degree. i’m mars he’s pluto)

We’re getting to know each other and wow it looks like a diaster

I’ve read nothing but negative about squares

But have your EXPERIENCES been?

Negative too? :/

Posted by rejuvenatedheart

Pretty much, but I wouldn't be so quick to dub them with so strong a word as "negative." They were/are really difficult to work through and oftentimes, pairings can't work out the tension that comes with these aspects but if both people are openminded, receptive and openly communicative about their needs/concerns, that should help. I don't want to get long-winded but I can elaborate on what I've learned about these aspects from personal experience if you want.
Yes tention was a word used many times in artcles i’ve read!

And Yes elaborate i’d love that!
Posted by rejuvenatedheart

Posted by starrykarz

Posted by rejuvenatedheart

Pretty much, but I wouldn't be so quick to dub them with so strong a word as "negative." They were/are really difficult to work through and oftentimes, pairings can't work out the tension that comes with these aspects but if both people are openminded, receptive and openly communicative about their needs/concerns, that should help. I don't want to get long-winded but I can elaborate on what I've learned about these aspects from personal experience if you want.
Yes tention was a word used many times in artcles i’ve read!

And Yes elaborate i’d love that!
Okay so:

Moon opp Sun - I've always been the Sun person in this synastry aspect. I'm a Leo. While I really appreciate how logical Aqua Moons are when telling me about their emotions, it's extremely difficult for me to find ways to get them to actually open their hearts and show me their emotions. My brother and father are Aqua Moons as well as many many romantic interests I've had over the past few years, and I'm guessing it's only because my brother and father are part of my biological family that I've ever seen them actually emote. My father has a very short fuse and is quick to become irritating, irritated, or straight up pissed off, and he's always been extremely scary when feeling those emotions. It's seared into my brain how scary he can get. I've only ever seen my brother show negative emotion once, and that time it was anger. He's similarly scary when he's angry, and I hesitate to say even more so than my father because my brother is almost always super calm and amiable. It's extremely difficult to deal with their emotions because they're just out of reach for me, if that makes sense. It's also just really, really difficult to help Aqua Moons feel comfortable enough with me so that they actually show me their emotions. I don't think I've ever actually had an opposite Moon show me their emotional vulnerability. The opposition is really difficult to work with, but it's not nearly as bad as other Sun-Moon synastry aspects. Long story short, it's difficult to understand how the other person operates because emotionally, they're out of touch with you.

Venus sq Mars - I haven't experienced the double whammy before for this, but I have experienced this aspect going one way. I was the Venus person and he was the Mars person. It's a lot of sexual tension, lots of steamy sexual chemistry, and it's very primal in nature. It's fun, IMO. If you ever experience the conjunction double whammy or even just going one way, it's so much sexual energy which I'm a huge fan of but it's not for everyone.

Moon sq Mars - I don't think I've ever had this in synastry with anyone.

Mars square Pluto - This one is another extremely volatile synastry aspect, and it's also highly sexually charged. I've experienced the conjunction, opposition and the square with romantic partners. IME, the opposition is most difficult of the energies to handle in a relationship. I had Mars opp Pluto with a romantic interest with the orb less than 1 degree, and that was basically the huge reason the entire "relationship" (we were romantic interests but never got to putting the label on) fell apart. Huge power struggles where the Pluto person tries to control the Mars person and the Mars person retaliates when sensing the controlling urges coming from the Pluto person. Mars-Pluto is the most difficult aspect for a couple to handle, IMO. The square I've experienced with many romantic interests and I think the only reason it's ended up going better than the opposition did is that my Mercury and Venus are conjunct their Mars (I've always been the Pluto person in the square synastry aspect), which definitely helps at least some.

Sorry I ended up going off on a tangent, lol. Hope this is helpful at least a bit.
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Thank you for sharing! Don’t apologize it’s what I wanted! This was very helpful!!! 🙂

I’m an aqua sun! Emotional expression is so hard for us. Even when we feel it, it’s hard to show sigh.

I can’t show my emotional vulnerability no matter how much I love them!! It’s not you it’s us *facepalm*

And Thanks again for sharing smile
Posted by BathHouseCulture

Too hard.
Which one?